I miss sleeping with my boyfriend....needing suggestions?!
Question: I miss sleeping with my boyfriend!.!.!.!.needing suggestions!?
Hey all!. So here's what's going on with me!.!.!.!.My boyfriend lives three hours away, and I miss him tremendously!. Well, I miss sleeping with him more than anything !. It seems as if I find myself having trouble going to sleep EVERY night when he's not in the bed with me!. I'm a natural cuddler and I need that body next to me to have a peaceful uninterrupted night of sleep!. When i'm in a bed alone, I don't fall asleep till 2 aor threebut then I wake up at like 5am or 6am!. So i'm not getting any sleep!. When i'm with him, I can fall asleep the moment i'm in his arms and not wake up till noon or such! Why is that!? I've tried EVERYTHing to help me sleep, I even went out and bought one of those body pillows!. That isn't helping at all!. Any sugggestions!? And have this happened to any of you!?!?Www@Answer-Health@Com
Answers:
You could try using one of his shirts that smells like him with a hot water bottle for body heat!. You could also try talking to him on the phone before you go to sleep, and talk just how you would if he were there with you!.!.!.say your goodnights and everything, and it might help remind you that you will get to see him again soon enough and how much you care about him, and that he cares about you!. It will also help put you in a good mood so it will be easier to fall asleep!. Also, you may not see him very often, but if you can figure out when you will see him next, you can start a countdown and then every night when you go to bed, you can think about how soon you get to see him, and tell yourself that the sooner you fall asleep, the sooner you get to see him!.
I know it's hard, I was in a long distance relationship (a 15-20 hour drive away!) for over a year and a half, only seeing each other every month or two due to school!. But now we are happily living together! It really is hard but you have to ignore the people who say "long distance relationships don't work"!. Because in my experience, THEY DO!. Just hang in there!Www@Answer-Health@Com
I know it's hard, I was in a long distance relationship (a 15-20 hour drive away!) for over a year and a half, only seeing each other every month or two due to school!. But now we are happily living together! It really is hard but you have to ignore the people who say "long distance relationships don't work"!. Because in my experience, THEY DO!. Just hang in there!Www@Answer-Health@Com
I too am a natural cudder and I completely understand what you're going through!. Its so much easier to sleep next to someone!. Considering he's three hours away, and not within cuddling distance, try reading a book or a magazine before bed!. If you're still unable to sleep and you feel you've exhausted every option possible and your literally exhausted from lack of sleep, maybe consult your doctor and tell them you're having difficulty sleeping at night!. They may be able to prescribe you something that will help you get a good nights sleep!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
Put his deoderant on the body pillow!. Sleep well!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
find another boyfriend living close to you and have him as a spare sleep aid !.Www@Answer-Health@Com
wear one of his shirts to bed that smells like himWww@Answer-Health@Com