Im 17, my older bro said i must have my first sex after high school graduation..!


Question: Im 17, my older bro said i must have my first sex after high school graduation!.!.is it okey!?
my older bro is 19, he said i must leave my virginity right after high school graduation next month!. he had his first sex at 16 and he said it sucks since it more of peer pressure rather than him wanting it!. i have girlfriend since were 14 and we thought were not ready to have sex yet and its corresponding responsibilities but were going to separate school in college!. my older bro said i must not have myfirst sex with my gf cos i might hurt her due to my inexperience, she might bleed cos my penis is big, i might panic, bring her to the hospital and everybody will know!. how would her parent react since were both 17 and minor!. my bro said he will set up for me 22 yrs old hot girl to do my first sex and it shd be a really good experience!. i thought its a great idea!.!.in the other side i will be cheating my gf!.!.what about if she found out!.!.im torn between this!.!.do you think its good idea!? whats your thought!.!.please advise and thank youWww@Answer-Health@Com


Answers:
This was pretty hard to read but I think I pretty much got it lol!.

Don't worry about what your brother says, do what's good for you!. If you're ready to have sex with your girlfriend then do it!. Don't worry about peer pressure, don't worry about your brother, none of that, if you want to and she wants to then do it!. If not, don't!. As far as her bleeding and everything, well if she's a virgin then it's a good chance she will bleed when you break her hymen, don't take her to the hospital, it's normal!. If she's not a virgin then you don't have to worry about this!. Either way, having sex with another girl first isn't going to help that!. Tell your girlfriend you're a virgin if she doesn't already know, then she'll understand that you're inexperienced, whether you're experienced or not though it's still going to hurt her if it's her first time!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

Perhaps staying in high school would be best for you!. Your grammar is horrible, and obviously you can't make a decision on your own!. you're 17 and graduating high school and are letting your brother make your life decisions for you!? Grow up kid!.

Oh, and are you ready to be a parent!? Sex is a responsibilty, not something to be had b/c of peer pressure!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

You can wait until she is ready can't you!?If you were the girl,and you will find your boyfriend cheating,it would hurt right!?And your virginity is one that you can treasure because once it is lose,it will never come back!.My advice is that you only give up your virginity into the one you really love because sex is meant only not to experience pleasure but express your love!.!.hope i helped!!Www@Answer-Health@Com

You have a long-time girlfriend!.!.!.DO NOT HAVE SEX WITH ANYONE ELSE! That would crush your girl!. She would find out!. You don't have to have sex at all, if you are not ready!. If you are, talk to your girl!. Maybe she is too!. If so, you are not going to hurt her or send her to the hospital, contrary to what your brother said!. Just do what you think is right!. Your brother is messing with you!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

You have yourself one big *** of a brother:he hated it because of peer pressure,but is doing the same to you!?!?!?!?!?!?!?!?
Kick him in the nuts for me,please!.
This is big time cheating on your g/f:is that what you want!?
What if we reverse it!?She cheats on you:how would that make you feel!.!?!?!?
And you say you are torn about her finding out:so the idea is ok for you:you s@ck big time to even consider this:you do not deserve her at all!.
Advise!?
Stay longer at high school!.
SkyWww@Answer-Health@Com

Wow if you're graduating next month and have that bad of grammer, wow is all i can say!. As for the sex, it can wait!. Just because your brother had sex 16 doesn't make him the sharpest tool in the shed!. Save it for the one you plan to be with, and don't just "pop your cherry" so to speak because your brother told you to do so!. If he told you to do cocaine out of high school would you!?Www@Answer-Health@Com

LOL!.!.!.hon dont have sex with some 22 y/o girl just to do it!. It won't be a good memory!. I say wait until your married but if you are going to have sex let it be with your gf!. That way it can be like a going away present since you are going to different collegesWww@Answer-Health@Com

Go to your local health department and ask to speak with their sex educator!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

NO
dont listen to your idiot of a brother
dont do what he says
its fine to be a virgin!
wait till YOUR ready and when you find the right girl then figure it outWww@Answer-Health@Com

you go and F*** your GF and ill stay with the other hottie!. LOLWww@Answer-Health@Com





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