Why doesnt he want to make love, sleep with me?!
Question: Why doesnt he want to make love, sleep with me!?
We have been together for 7 months!. We are both in our late 20's!. We have kissed alot, but it never goes further than that!? I think I am ready to go for it, but I don't wanna jump his bones!. He always tells me I am his ideal girl!?!? So why the wait!. MEN I need your "heads" to please come up with some good reasons!. Also anyone have a fantasy of how they would want a girl to seduce him!?!?!?!?!? ThanksWww@Answer-Health@Com
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A lot of men are scared sh**less when they find "the one" to take her to bed!. I say make the first move and see what happens from there!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
Hmmm!.!.!.!. maybe he doesn't want to rush things since you are his "ideal girl!." Maybe he had relationships in the past where he slept with them way to early and it complicated things or it just affected the relationship!. It sounds to me like he just doesn't want to mess things up with you!.
All in all, talk to him about it!. No one knows what's going on in his head but him!. But if you're both in your late 20's and have been going out for 7 months, you two should be having lots of sex!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
All in all, talk to him about it!. No one knows what's going on in his head but him!. But if you're both in your late 20's and have been going out for 7 months, you two should be having lots of sex!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
it sounds like he is not ready to commit to you yet he probably is still getting to grips with what you like and how you like it!.
if you want to seduce him try(when he is out) to change into a skimpy outfit and change the bedroom into a goddesses place with roses and stuff if that doesn't work shove on porn DVD and say shall we try someWww@Answer-Health@Com
if you want to seduce him try(when he is out) to change into a skimpy outfit and change the bedroom into a goddesses place with roses and stuff if that doesn't work shove on porn DVD and say shall we try someWww@Answer-Health@Com
He may be insecure!.!. guys can be too you know =]
Talk to him about it!.!. is it his first time!? if so, maybe ease him into it!.!. get the place to yourself, make a nice meal, maybe suggest a candlelit bath together!. If thats not your thing, just lead him to the bedroom, slip into the bathroom etc and slip into some nice lingerie, and take control!.!. maybe lie him on the bed, and straddle him!.!.give him a sort of lap dance to get him in the mood and continue from there!. Also encouragement to put his insecurities at rest, size wise etc!.
Good luck :)Www@Answer-Health@Com
Talk to him about it!.!. is it his first time!? if so, maybe ease him into it!.!. get the place to yourself, make a nice meal, maybe suggest a candlelit bath together!. If thats not your thing, just lead him to the bedroom, slip into the bathroom etc and slip into some nice lingerie, and take control!.!. maybe lie him on the bed, and straddle him!.!.give him a sort of lap dance to get him in the mood and continue from there!. Also encouragement to put his insecurities at rest, size wise etc!.
Good luck :)Www@Answer-Health@Com
Heya
Maybe idf he says your his ideal girl hes scared of ruining things with sex to soon!. Maybe he is religious or just has morals and decided to wait until marriage for sex!. Has he had sex before !? that would be good to ask!. Dont scare him by coming on to him to strong!. Have a tlk with him and discuss having some sexytime!.
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Maybe idf he says your his ideal girl hes scared of ruining things with sex to soon!. Maybe he is religious or just has morals and decided to wait until marriage for sex!. Has he had sex before !? that would be good to ask!. Dont scare him by coming on to him to strong!. Have a tlk with him and discuss having some sexytime!.
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If all else fails, ask him!.
Noone can tell what's going on with him, he may feel that he doesn't want to rush you and risk losing you--try to get his opinion about when a couple are ready to make that step!.
Don't assume anything until you talk with him!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
Noone can tell what's going on with him, he may feel that he doesn't want to rush you and risk losing you--try to get his opinion about when a couple are ready to make that step!.
Don't assume anything until you talk with him!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
Have you asked him why!? That would be a start!. Sounds like your bf has some hangups of some kind; mental!? religious!? IDK!.!.!.!. after 7 months and you both in your 20's you should be having a lot of sex!. As for a fantasy!.!.!.I don't think it will work for your guyWww@Answer-Health@Com
I caught adult chicken pox and it took a long time for the wounds to heal and the scars to fade!. During this time I said no to quite a many women because I didn't want to undress in front of them!.
Perhaps he has a problem he doesn't want you to see!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
Perhaps he has a problem he doesn't want you to see!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
just totally come on to him!. if he still doesn't wanna **** you, he's probably gay!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
He must be gay!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
Maybe he is "saving" himself for marriage!.
Did you try and ask!?Www@Answer-Health@Com
Did you try and ask!?Www@Answer-Health@Com
witch head on of them is going up and down!. But u make the moveWww@Answer-Health@Com
try making the move !.!.!.!.blow himWww@Answer-Health@Com
Hm, well there can be a lot of reasons as to why he's not rushing things a bit!. He could be wanting to wait and lose his virginity after marriage!. Or he might just really love you that much and not want to mess everything up by rushing having sex with you!. He might just want to move at your pace and is scared to go any further!. There are a lot of reasons that could be it!. If he really loves you, and you love him and you know he's not cheating on you, then you should come onto him!. You "put the moves" on him!. A girl coming onto any guy is attractive and seductive all on its own because he's left feeling like You're the one wanting to have sex with him!. Most men are Completely Oblivious to the fact that women have sexual urges aswell!. If you do decide to have sex with him, start off with a lot of foreplay and kissing!. Then touch him a lot trying to drop the hint that you're ready to have sex!. Then once he's somewhat got the idea of it, then consider giving him head; if you do that it's a sure fire way of letting a guy know you Really "want" him!. When you do have sex with him though, be sure to assure him that you're attracted to him, physically and sexually!. He may be Very insecure about his size or the way he looks so be sure to do obvious things to let him know you're really enjoying having sex with him!. Before you do anything though, Talk!. It's very important that you first talk to him and see if he's just saving his virginity for marriage or if he's okay with having sex now!. That's all you need to know!. Don't ask him if he's insecure about his size or Anything, that will just make him feel worse so just make sure that he finds you attractive and that he'd be okay with having sex with you!. After you got the "go ahead" then plan on "pouncing" on him in about 3 days!. Spontaneousness is good but be sure to let him know you're enjoying every minute of it and that he's more than adequate enough for you!. You don't have to lead, but giving him head first before anything and letting him know you Reallly enjoy having sex with him will let him know that you do want to engage in sexual relations with him!. Well, I hope I was able to shed some light on your problem, and, I've been the guy in this sort of relationship so, I hope I was able to help you!. Good Luck!.!.Www@Answer-Health@Com