Is this a turn on?!
Question: Is this a turn on!?
I like to tie my bf down to the bed and masturbate infront of him until I orgasm!. When I first started doing this he looked scared, but now he get's an erection!. He rufuses to talk about it!. Is it a turn on!?Www@Answer-Health@Com
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From my experience, I would say most guys think that's a turn-on!. If he's let you do it more than once, that would seem like a sign of being somewhat into it!. Of course, everyone has different turn-ons, so there's no way to really know what your bf is thinking!. But by and large, I know guys who would LOVE that sort of thing!.
But I think there's a bigger issue here for you!. (Sorry, I know I'm kind of intruding!.!.!. but you put some info out there that I can't help but comment on)!. He refuses to talk about it!?!!?!!?! That's awful!. Why would he do that!? They say communication is the most important thing in a relationship and I am inclined to agree!. If there are major aspects of the relationship (say, sexual desires) that he won't talk about, you should resolve that!.
What else will he not talk about!? You should find out now!. The worst experience I've ever had with a guy related to his not wanting to talk about anything!. I still have no idea what caused the end of our relationship!. He just stopped talking to me one day!. I tried to get some info from him for closure, but no!.!.!.
So, I know I don't know anything about your relationship!.!.!. so sorry to get all huffy about that!. It's just that those sorts of guys now send me running!. You just have to talk about stuff and sexual turn-ons is a very important aspect!. If he refuses, I just think you should reevaluate the whole thing!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
But I think there's a bigger issue here for you!. (Sorry, I know I'm kind of intruding!.!.!. but you put some info out there that I can't help but comment on)!. He refuses to talk about it!?!!?!!?! That's awful!. Why would he do that!? They say communication is the most important thing in a relationship and I am inclined to agree!. If there are major aspects of the relationship (say, sexual desires) that he won't talk about, you should resolve that!.
What else will he not talk about!? You should find out now!. The worst experience I've ever had with a guy related to his not wanting to talk about anything!. I still have no idea what caused the end of our relationship!. He just stopped talking to me one day!. I tried to get some info from him for closure, but no!.!.!.
So, I know I don't know anything about your relationship!.!.!. so sorry to get all huffy about that!. It's just that those sorts of guys now send me running!. You just have to talk about stuff and sexual turn-ons is a very important aspect!. If he refuses, I just think you should reevaluate the whole thing!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
It depends on the individuals involved, of course, but it's a fairly common turn-on for people to have!.
It might have scared him at first if you did it without warning- I know I would have been confused because my partners and I generally discuss things before they happen sexually so that both parties are informed and okay with what will happen!.
Chances are that once he knew what was going on, it was a turn-on!.
Refusal to talk about something sexually is usually a sign that some sort of communication is necessary!. In the past, I've been involved in sexual activity that turned me on but simultaneously made me uncomfortable and made it very hard to talk about!. If you can and want to try to talk to him about it, I'd suggest making him as comfortable as possible for the conversation, and making it non-confrontational, just to know that you're not crossing any of his boundaries!.
Sex and turn-on's can just be something that is incredibly hard/uncomfortable/ embarassing for some to discuss!. This is normal- but for a mature, functioning relationship, it's important that you be able eventually to have a conversation about it!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
It might have scared him at first if you did it without warning- I know I would have been confused because my partners and I generally discuss things before they happen sexually so that both parties are informed and okay with what will happen!.
Chances are that once he knew what was going on, it was a turn-on!.
Refusal to talk about something sexually is usually a sign that some sort of communication is necessary!. In the past, I've been involved in sexual activity that turned me on but simultaneously made me uncomfortable and made it very hard to talk about!. If you can and want to try to talk to him about it, I'd suggest making him as comfortable as possible for the conversation, and making it non-confrontational, just to know that you're not crossing any of his boundaries!.
Sex and turn-on's can just be something that is incredibly hard/uncomfortable/ embarassing for some to discuss!. This is normal- but for a mature, functioning relationship, it's important that you be able eventually to have a conversation about it!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
Everybody is different!. I would talk to him about it though!. Ask him if he likes it!. He may like it, or he may not!. But really you have to talk to him about it!.
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Yes obviously it is!. It is on many levels depending on the two people involved!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
hard to say though if he is getting erect i suspect it is for him!. next time you have him ties up why not masturbate him; maybe that will get him to talk some!.!.!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
Id think so, :) Corse, id have to picture it slightly differently, but you get the point, :)Www@Answer-Health@Com
Oh Hell Ya! Can't wait for tonight! Me, have an idea, LOL!!!Www@Answer-Health@Com
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i would be turned on!.!.!.so yah i think its a turn on!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
It would for me!Www@Answer-Health@Com
Sounds like fun to me!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
only he can answer!. why do you care if it turns other men on!?Www@Answer-Health@Com
WILL U COME OVER AND DO THAT WITH ME!!Www@Answer-Health@Com