I Couldn't get it up. Help!?!


Question: I Couldn't get it up!. Help!!?
I'm 19 and I'm still a virgin, I should have been having sex tonight but couldn't get it up after we were fully naked!. I was hard through out the night, but when it came time, I went soft!. I was so embarassed and feel like crap about it!.

I love my girlfriend to death, I've never been so comfortable and in love with a person, and I feel like **** over this!.

Why do you think this happened and what can I do so this doesn't happen when we try again!?Www@Answer-Health@Com


Answers:
It's called performance anxiety!. And it happens to every guy at least once!. When a guy is scared, nervous, or worried, tired etc!., it can make it difficult for him to relax enough to maintain a full erection!. You just need to focus on relaxing and not worrying!. Also make sure your girlfriend is on birth control and you are using condoms, doing this will take some pressure off things and you can relax more!.
I hope this helped!.

-ConnorWww@Answer-Health@Com

Could have been stress, anxiety, or any number of reasons!. As there are many things you can do, and/or BUY, that will keep that problem from occuring again, but all in all you should wait and see if it becomes an occuring problem!. If so, then consult a doctor!. If it doesn't happen again, then just relax and don't stress over it!. Try breathing exercises, and even look into sensation therapy, which you can do yourself, and it WORKS!!!! I am WITNESS to that!!!Www@Answer-Health@Com

Losing your virginity can be a very stressful situation - even with someone that you are so comfortable with!. Don't beat yourself up about it, though - that can just make it worse!. If you are really ready for sex with her, it will happen - but it has to be at the right time!. The next time you are together with her, try not to make it such a big deal and such a huge jump from what came before it!. Sometimes if your body feels you switching gears too drastically it can shut down!. Try to make it a smooth and natural transition!. If you have the same problem again, just try and try!. In the meantime there are PLENTY of other ways to please each other!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

its normal to be nervous there is nothing wrong with you it happened to me when i was 15 maybe more foreplay will helpnext time or have her help you get an erection then get on top and you guys have sex all males sometimes lose it ive been married 3 years and have sex every day and sometimes i lose it once every like 3 months itjust happens but she takes over and all works out we always have love your just normal dont worryWww@Answer-Health@Com

its probably coz u were anxious to do it due to inexperience!.

wait for the right time and IMO now is not

get your priorities straight first!

you feel anxious coz u think u might get her pregnant (which happens a lot) so dont have sex with her yetWww@Answer-Health@Com

This is not unusual - especially the first time - just relax - it will happen in timeWww@Answer-Health@Com

i dont know about that thats odd take viagra next timeWww@Answer-Health@Com

stage fright!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

idkk just keep trying u may get betterWww@Answer-Health@Com





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