Do guys really feel the need to masturbate?!


Question: Do guys really feel the need to masturbate!?
My boyfriend said he masturbates once a week, but that it has nothing to do with our sex life lacking, etc!. Do guys really have the uncontrollable urge to masturbate!? If so, what does it feel like!? Do they usually think about their partner when they do it or is it more just doing it to get the urge to go away and they don't really fantasize about anything!? Thanks for any insight! I'm curious because I don't think girls have that urge :)Www@Answer-Health@Com


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Males have a lot more testosterone than females which is responsible for sex drive (among other things) and external genitals (which allows them to be aroused easily and at random)!. The natural consequence of putting these two together seems obvious!.
Is it uncontrollable!? no but few males see the need for controlling it!.!.!.similar to picking their nose (just make it private)!. Most do not see it as a 'relationship' issue and can approach it rather impersonally!. Many guys report the sexual urge as an 'itch' that increases until it requires action!. It's often in the background until something triggers it and then it become unrelenting!.
I've read about 60-80% fantasize while the object (subject) of the stimulation can be their partner or anyone (or anything) else!.
Although females may enjoy it, I don't believe the sex drive is as strong simply due to testosterone and dopamine levels!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

Males have a tendency to masturbate with great regularity between the ages of 16 and 26!. This is due to the levels of testosterone coursing through their bodies during this time!. Most guys in this age range will masturbate simply because they have an extra 15 minutes on their hands!. What he thinks about during his special "alone time" can vary!. Sometimes it could be his girlfriend, sometimes it could be the girl that was just on the TV a few seconds ago!. Guys who don't masturbate, at all, should see a physician as this could be an indication of a tumor on the pituitary gland which is arresting his physical development!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

I personally don't fantasize about girls when I am masturbating because it just feels disrespectful to me even though it probably isn't!. Urm yes I think men do need to masturbate!. The thing for me is the more I try to stop myself, The more I want to do it then again I am not in a relationship so the only way I can voluntarily release sperm(Which all males need to do as ejaculation is inevitable anyway Wet dreams etc) is via masturbation!. I think males near my age (16-23) do feel the necessity to masturbate even if in a sexual relationship!.
So yeah to answer your main question!. Yes men in my opinion need to masturbate!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

Well most girls I grew up with masterbated, so yeah girls do too!. Guys do have the urge, a lot, with nearly every guy masterbating at least on occasion!. Most guys masterbate regularly, like at least once a week!. Can't describe what it feels like, really!. As to fantacizing, most guys may say they are fantasizing about some girl, but just as often they frankly make love to themselves!. A guy gets aroused playing with himself and feeling the sensations!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

Guys don't really need to do it but it feels good and reduces the urge he experiences by ignoring those desires and refraining from sexual activity which gives relief!.

When guys masturbate then they usually fantasize about something that turns them on which often includes ideas or thoughts about objects, interaction, watching, or doing things with, to, or in front of the opposite sex!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

Yes, guys do have a urge to masturbate!. It's just this urge to release!. When a guy's prostate fills with semen, his body feels the urge to ejaculate to get rid of the fluid so the body can produce more and there will be room for the new stuff!. So yeah we get a urge to do it from our bodies!. I have a very active sex life with my partner and still sometimes masturbate four times a week still!. When I masturbate I sometimes think about my partner, but its mostly other people!. I mean why would I think about my partner!?; I get to have sex with him whenever!. So I think about someone I can't necessarily have!. And sometimes I don't really fantasize about anything!.
I hope this helped!.

-ConnorWww@Answer-Health@Com

Your boyfriend's masturbation does have absolutely nothing to do with your sex life!. Unless yall do it so much that he is too tired to masturbate, but seriously don't worry, it isn't because your not doing something for him!. As for what he is fantasizing about, you will have to ask him!. I'm sure its different for every guy!. Thats not something most men sit around and talk about over a beer!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

Yes!.

Most men think about anything BUT their partner!. This is personal, fantasy time!. It's usually about things your partner has no interest in doing, or with people you'd never get the chance to have sex with!.

Whatever - it's not your business, it's his!. As long as you are getting what you want, don't worry about it!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

that's actually healthy for him, because sperm only survive so long in the testicles, before they start to die and degrade and have to be absorbed back into the body!. It's better to clear them out once in a while!. That's why guys have wet dreams!.

and umm, I get the urge to masturbate, and I'm a girl!.!.!. you don't ever!?Www@Answer-Health@Com

he says he only does it once a week!?!.!.!.!. i really doubt that!. haha!. and some girls do get the urge, it really deppends on how sexual the girl is!. it can be very enjoyable!.
what my boyfriend told me, is that it makes him much more relaxed and can concentrait alot better!. i dont know about all guys but i know all the ones that i've talked to do it alot!. i couldnt tell you why!. but they told me they fantasize alot!. and its not usually about their girlfriends!.!.!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

yes, its necessary for me!. It feels, well, like your having sex, lol!. If I have a partner, I usually think about her, but other than that, it's usually porn!. And I think it is normal for guys to feel the urge- we're horny by nature and we can't help it :-DWww@Answer-Health@Com

Sometimes i have the overpowering urge to masturbate!.!.!.
Im a girl!. I dont know why I get the urge!. I dont fantasize though!. I just want the urge to go away!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

They do!.

There is a hypothesis that males evolved to masturbate as a way of flushing out old sperm, triggering fresh sperm production and increasing their fertility!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

Yes!.!.!. it is a need! (and your boyfriend is WAY under average!)

It rarely has anything to do with lacking sex life etc!.!.!.

It is harmless, normal and really really good!Www@Answer-Health@Com

I know plenty of girls who are practically addicted to their toy collections!. I think most men fantasize with it!. It is more of a release than anything else!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

All the time, everywhere!. In public, at the mall!.!.!. especially the mall in front of hundreds of people!.

Don't judge whats normal baby!Www@Answer-Health@Com

not only guys but girl masterbate, too!. some people have an urge for sex sometimes and the only way to stop it is to masturbate!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

every minute of every dayWww@Answer-Health@Com

yes and double yes!.

btw your bf is lying about the amount of masturbation!. he does it WAY more than once a week!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

All the time
Check out my question this is starting fight in my house!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

I hate that, mine does it everyday weather or not he gets any!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

only to relieve sexual tensionWww@Answer-Health@Com

Yes its ok just let him be,
We do have that urge i myself have it everyday at nightWww@Answer-Health@Com

Double YesWww@Answer-Health@Com

yah, it is an urge!. I almost feel compelled to masturbate!.Www@Answer-Health@Com





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