My best buddy is gay..im caught between telling the truth and protecting his sec!
Question: My best buddy is gay!.!.im caught between telling the truth and protecting his secret, what will i do!?
his 18 last month he told me he's gay its kind of hard on me for a while but i accept him and keep his secret!. two wks ago he insert ladies deodorant bottle in his anus and it wont came out!. he called me and i drove him to the ER in the nxt city so that nobody will know!. im embarassed but what the hell he's my best bud!.my mom is a doctor and last night she asked me why im in the hospital nxt town last wk!. her friend said he saw me in the hospital!. i dont know what to say except to lie and my mom didnt accept my explaination and she told me to tell the truth tonight!. she said maybe my gf is pregnant and im trying to abort it and more maybes!.!.!. i will face them tonight with my dad and i know i cant tell a lie anymore!. shall i tell them the truth!? shd i ask my best bud first!? he said if i told anybody that he's gay he's going to shoot himself!. my dad being a lawyer knows if i lie!. what will i do!.!.please help!. thanksWww@Answer-Health@Com
Answers:
You gotta stick by your buddy!. You are 17yo and you can handle any crap that comes down on you!. Since you know how much trouble this would bring to your friend if you told the full story, your ONLY choice (if you really care for your gay friend) is to keep quiet no matter what happens to you!.
You will suffer some, but it will blow over!.
Life ain't fair and shiit happens!. That's how you become a man dude, you deal with the shiit and NEVER (and i mean NEVER) crap on your real friends!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
You will suffer some, but it will blow over!.
Life ain't fair and shiit happens!. That's how you become a man dude, you deal with the shiit and NEVER (and i mean NEVER) crap on your real friends!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
i would tell your buddy the situation that he has put you in!.
that your mother knows you were at the hospital and wants to know why!. and you have too tell her immediately!. and see what he wants you to do!. would your mom not tell his mother!?
may be you both can tell your mom and beg her to not tell his momWww@Answer-Health@Com
that your mother knows you were at the hospital and wants to know why!. and you have too tell her immediately!. and see what he wants you to do!. would your mom not tell his mother!?
may be you both can tell your mom and beg her to not tell his momWww@Answer-Health@Com
its a tough situation but i would tell your friend n c wat he says!. if he says no tell your parents that ur friend had an embarassing emergency and is in alot of pain!. if they dont buy that try getting the doctor to write some kind of note to give to your parents that is proof but doesnt reveil much about your friend n that hes gayWww@Answer-Health@Com
if you are straight guy you will refrain from joining him!.you will become gay too!.it is really contagious and it is destructive in the long term basis in all aspects of normal life!have your own separate direction away from him!.it is life,every one has destination,being fooled or be different from this world of deceitfulness!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
totally DONT DO IT! this is a sacrafice you have to make for your bestfriend!. come up with something kinda bad but not too bad so your parents will believe you and think thats why you originally lied but in all truths you could tell them they really dont need to know and leave it at that!.
dont do that to your bestfriend it would be selfish sacrafice for him!. you could be saving his lifeWww@Answer-Health@Com
dont do that to your bestfriend it would be selfish sacrafice for him!. you could be saving his lifeWww@Answer-Health@Com
well you need to say you did something yourself kinda like it was something you thought your parents would get mad about!. Idk, you were playing around with a knife and you thought they would get angry about it!. You can't tell them about your friend shoving stuff there, thats a low blow!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
Well the only advice that i can give you is to talk to your friend about this because i don't know if you get though all of this with a little white lie!. So Talk to your friend and see what he has to say about this!. But if hes not ok with this then i wish you my luck!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
How about the truth!. My friend needed to see a Doctor for a personal matter so I helped him out by driving there!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
hes your best buddy you should stay loyal!.!.!.he needs someone to count onWww@Answer-Health@Com
Hmmmm, this is a hard one to deal with!. You need to talk to your buddy first!. Maybe you could tell the truth by saying he got something stuck in his anus, and if they ask why he got it stuck then he can say he did it on a dare or something!. Or he could say that he heard it felt good!. It's really embarrassing but maybe it will keep his parents from thinking hes gay!. Or you can just tell your parents that your not hiding anything, it's just you were driving a friend to the hospital and it was about something embarrassing and you told him you wouldn't tell and as parents they should respect your choice to be a good friend and not tell the secret!. I'm sorry you have to deal with this!. I would try the first one, and just say hey I drove my friend to the hospital cause what happened to him was embarrassing and I promised him I wouldn't tell anyone and I am going to be a good friend and stand by that!. And then just reassure them you didn't do anything bad and it's nothing that they should worry about, and everything is fine!.
I really hope that helped!.
-ConnorWww@Answer-Health@Com
I really hope that helped!.
-ConnorWww@Answer-Health@Com
Well you could tell your parents that you brought him to the hopsital because he wasn't feeling good or he had pains!. So you aren't really lying!.
And does he seem suicidal at all!? He could be just exaggerating!. You could always tell your parents not to say anything because you know, his dad is in the army and his dad would disown him and stuff if he finds out!. Then you could threaten your parents saying that you will never talk to them again if they say anything!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
And does he seem suicidal at all!? He could be just exaggerating!. You could always tell your parents not to say anything because you know, his dad is in the army and his dad would disown him and stuff if he finds out!. Then you could threaten your parents saying that you will never talk to them again if they say anything!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
this is tuff man
um!.!.!.!.!.!.tell your mom in private [they're usually the more understanding unless she's black- then they're usually the least understanding (i should know)] and jut lay it out for her nice and easy
she'll get it and keep it a secret
oh, and tell your friend to:
a) dont put weird things in his ***, he's 18 now and can legally buy sex toys
and
b) if he wants to use house hold products!.!.!.!.get sumthing longer that wont get stuck!
poor guy and poor u
please tell me how it goes k!?
oh yea! tell your friend to comeover and talk with her wit hyou k!? dont do it behind his backWww@Answer-Health@Com
um!.!.!.!.!.!.tell your mom in private [they're usually the more understanding unless she's black- then they're usually the least understanding (i should know)] and jut lay it out for her nice and easy
she'll get it and keep it a secret
oh, and tell your friend to:
a) dont put weird things in his ***, he's 18 now and can legally buy sex toys
and
b) if he wants to use house hold products!.!.!.!.get sumthing longer that wont get stuck!
poor guy and poor u
please tell me how it goes k!?
oh yea! tell your friend to comeover and talk with her wit hyou k!? dont do it behind his backWww@Answer-Health@Com
lol gay people are so gayWww@Answer-Health@Com