Guys help me. Is it wrong to make a guy wait for 4 years?!


Question: Guys help me!. Is it wrong to make a guy wait for 4 years!?
Wait to have a relationship!. We never have sex!. He is regretting about the whole thing!. He wishes he does not know me!.!.!.Www@Answer-Health@Com


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That is kind of odd, but it ***DOES NOT***, I REPEAT ***DOES NOT*** mean you should give yourself up if you aren't ready!.

If you aren't ready, he should respect your choice!. If he can't handle that, maybe you guys shouldn't be together!. If things don't work out, find someone who will respect your wishes!.

Don't give yourself up if you aren't ready!

edit: WTF!? 3 THUMBS DOWN!? Are you guys effing retarded!? Giving a thumbs down means you disagree, and I am saying she shouldn't give herself up, and since you are thumbing me down that means you are disagreeing which means you think she SHOULD!? What the **** are you crack heads on!?Www@Answer-Health@Com

You don't give your age, so we can't see whether you are waiting till it's technically legal, or for marriage or what!. Generally, if it's the latter, marriage is not some magic pill that suddenly makes it all fantastic in the bedroom dept!. if you have not done anything beforehand!.

Then again, if you are talking about sex itself, you BOTH have to work out what you are comfortable in doing!. And be responsible about it!. Often ppl use oral and/or handjobs to relieve the sexual tension but not engage penetration!.

The worst mistake is to use the four year delay as a power game - e!.g!. "if you loved me, you'd wait!.!."Www@Answer-Health@Com

If you're not ready, then you're not ready!. If he is unwilling to wait, perhaps he's not the right one for you---although men are under pressure sexually, he should respect you and your wishes!.

You are wise in not impulsively giving in!. Too many people let their desire for sex override their judgement!.

Good luck and have a good life!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

It is wrong to make a guy wait any longer than a month!. Imagine how you would feel if the guy you are with had something you want more than anything but he witholds it from you for no reason!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

It's not wrong for you to make him wait for sex, I would wait until marriage!. As for the relationship, if you love eachother, it
s wrong to wait!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

Wrong to lead someone on!? yes!. Wrong to wait on sex!? No!. You should wait until you feel ready and don't ever feel forced!. I don't know enough about your situation to tell you anything else!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

no, u r not wrong, ur showing how u respect your body and nothing is wrong with that and he should learn to like and appreciate the nonsexual aspect of your relationship!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

Yeah 4 years is pretty long!. You dont have to let him go all the way!. Just make-out more!. That should please him a lil longer!. A lil tug job every now and then dont hurt!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

BBBIIIIITTTCCCHHH!!!!!!Www@Answer-Health@Com

Yes you are one sick individualWww@Answer-Health@Com

if your not ready then don't do it!. if u really likes you he would waitWww@Answer-Health@Com

Shame on you! Your terrible!.!.!.!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

Of course its ur fault!.
you cant treat guys like objects!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

Stop torturing the guy and smash him ;-)Www@Answer-Health@Com

so if you guys never have sex
kudos to you that your saving yourself
its his problemWww@Answer-Health@Com

wow damn that's a long time for a boy!.
you better be giving some good oral or hes gonna get fed up!!Www@Answer-Health@Com

if it's what you truly want, it doesn't matter, be true to yourselfWww@Answer-Health@Com

ya he will probably brake up wit u if you dont bang soonWww@Answer-Health@Com





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