Am I being rediculous. . .am I right to grieve?!


Question: Am I being rediculous!. !. !.am I right to grieve!?
I've been talking to a 17 year old boy with Hodgkin's Lymphoma by IM for a couple days!. He said he only had a few days left to live (he'd had it for 3 years and he was on his last limb) and he emailed me less than an hour ago saying it was time for him to go!. He said he was thankful for me talking to him when he needed someone and he was grateful to me!. I just got an email less than 10 minutes ago saying he was leaving forever!. !. !.

I can't help it, I'm sobbing right now!. I'm really going to miss him even though I never met him!. !. !.his name was Eric!.

How can I get over him!? I'm grieving for someone I never met face-to-face and I'm crying my eyes out for him!. Is this ridiculous!? I really cared about him!. !. !.he knew what it felt like to be alone and he knew what it felt like to not be understood!. !. !.

Is it ridiculous for me to act this way!? He was my friend, and I really enjoyed talking to him!. !. !.but to think that he died only a few minutes after talking to me made my heart break!. How can I get over his death!?Www@Answer-Health@Com


Answers:
How wonderfulk for him that had you to talk to and you both acceptedhim and gave hin love and friendship!.
Be proud of yourself for your compassion and loving heart!.

Grieving is normal and the best way to get over it is NOT to!.
Talk about him, write a poem about him!.!.REMEMBER HIM!.!.!.!.!.!.
Time helps but we NEVER forget the ppl who touch our hearts!.
I still remember the first patient that died in my arms!.!.
I always will!.!.!.!.!.!.!.!.!.!.!.!.!.!.!.!.!.!.!.!.!.!.

You are a blessing!.!.!.
Thank you for being you,
Nurse Andrea RNWww@Answer-Health@Com

wow thats sad!.!.you did the right thing talking to him and helping him even if it was just talking to him!. It is alright to grieve and you will probably get over it soon don't woory you didn't know him that well!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

Why is this in men's health!?Www@Answer-Health@Com

when you sobb or cry, theres less chance of tummy problemsWww@Answer-Health@Com

Have been in the same situation:with a guy who live in South -Africa:name is not important!.
His b/f left him over this disease:and I thought about the fact how terrible he must feel!.
We talked for months daily:we have no time difference!.
I promised him I would plant a beautiful plant in my garden in his name !.
The flowers that smell sweet will remind me of him for ever!.
We chatted with cams and sound:talked to his mother,father and siblings!.
All of a sudden was messaged that he died!.
Just before he told his mom to thank me:I did not sob,but just cried all day long
Your story reminds me of him again

It won't be easy to get over him:do something in his honour!.
I planted a plant and it is almost flowering!.
Then I sit outside and grieve!.
In time you get over this!.

He too must have enjoyed his time with you!.And must have done him good!.
Am very proud of you Avriel:
SkyWww@Answer-Health@Com





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