Masturbation - my bf is highly uncomfortable with the subject.?!


Question: Masturbation - my bf is highly uncomfortable with the subject!.!?
Every time the subject comes up he requests to change subject!. We are in our 30s (yeah, I know!) and we have satisfying sex life!. But if I happen to mention it or I happen to touch myself during sex he removes my hand!.
What can possibly cause it and is there any way to get more comfortable about the subject!? I think it's a normla thing to do as long as it's not done in public and doesn't interefere with other activities!.
He's not very religious, so that's out!.Www@Answer-Health@Com


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It's not wrong!. My lover will take my hand and place it on me!.!.!.telling me he LIKES it when I do that!.!.!.!.

It's all about what people are comfortable with!. It's important to try and talk about and do!.!.!.maybe you can take HIS hand and place it on him!.!.!.or mutual masturbation, each of yourselves but together!?!?

I know it's difficult!. I've had lovers before where it was just sooo hard to talk about!. And in the end, things they just weren't okay doing (one guy, get this, hated it when I initiated!. He also hated when I did strip teases for him!. Go figure, eh!?!)

Good luck, dear!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

He could have been raised in a household where it was taboo and considered bad!. He might have learned from a young age that touching yourself isn't something you should do!. If that's the case, it's pretty well embedded into his subconscious so I haven't a clue what you would do about it!. You should just sit down and talk to him about it!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

For myself and my wife, we both are able to masturbate with the other watching!. We both are very open to sex and enjoy how we can make ourselves feel!. It also brings us together as well!. This did'nt happen over night!. We talk openly about sex when we are together and always enjoy our times with each other!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

just give him head and then stroke him at the finish or maybe hand cuff him so he cant interfere or just what till he scratches then look at him real funny like and say can i get that for you!?
realy i dont know whats his isue hes got hands and a dick so!?Www@Answer-Health@Com

That has to be the most bizarre thing I have ever heard!. However, maybe he experienced masturbation early in life where it was involved with something negative!. Maybe he was molested and it brings back bad memories!?Www@Answer-Health@Com

no one on yahoo answers knows for sure why your boyfriend is uncomfortable with the subject
so you should go up to him and discuss about it with him and let him know how you feel about itWww@Answer-Health@Com

He probably feels inadequate by you doing thatWww@Answer-Health@Com

Yeah, you'd have to ask HIM about it!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

you need to work him more on top and try not to touch yourself so much when making love!. that should work!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

It is wrong to do, so if he is religious or not he probably realizes that, and he is right!Www@Answer-Health@Com





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