Why is being 18 so stressful?!


Question: Why is being 18 so stressful!?
I am 18 an feel Ihe world on top of my shoulders, my studies are sufferering because of this!.

I used to hang around with stoners and pill heads and I used to be one myself!.

Now I have grown up I dont want to be like this anymore, and I want non drug taking friends but I feel unworthy to be friends with anti drug takin people, I feel they will look down on me

Why am I so stressed all the time!?

Do things get easier after puberty!?Www@Answer-Health@Com


Answers:
18 is a hard time for everyone!.!.!. Its when society places more stress on you!. You are considered adult now!. Trouble will bring jail time for activities otherwise forgiven!.

Lack of a job or deducation causes more stress!. the economy and gas prices add to it all!. Family and even friends add to this!.!.

If you are not mastubating,,, well now you multiplied this 100 times more!.

Get enough rest and take care of yourself!. Think stuff out before you make decisions!.!.
With all of what is happening you might need to seek advise from others!.!.!. Just make sure they are older!.!.!. Cause they too were there!.!.!.

Hope this hleps///Www@Answer-Health@Com

Cause you're growing up!. That the way life is!. Things don't really get easier after puberty!. I've been out of it since I was 14!. Ok, yea I'm a girl, but still things don't get much easier!. Life just gets harder older as you go!. It'll get better though, don't worry!. Anti drug people won't look down, well at least I wouldn't!. I try to help my friends out if they had a problem like that!. I can't speak for all antis but most of them would try to help you!. That what friends are for!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

I'm 18 too and feel kinda the same way!. I've never been into drugs and neither have my friends but if an 'ex-user' started to hang about with us it wouldn't be a problem at all!. at this age i think it gets on top of you because you want to be your own person and start being more independent but it's too hard with college etc so you're always skint and can't ever do what you really want to do!.!.or at least that's how i feel!Www@Answer-Health@Com

I know how you are feeling!. I am starting college this year!. I think things will get better, you just have to go after what you want!. And do not think that you are unworthy!. Change your habits and open up to people!. Take some alone time and de-stress yourself when you feel like things are too much

good luck and be well!Www@Answer-Health@Com

It gets worse then that:society is putting you under pressure:you need to achieve things:do the right stuff all the time etc etc!.
And when you finished school and starts to work it will start allover again:conquer your place etc!.
Try to unwind:watch some porn and masturbate!.
Relaxes you at least!.
Sky!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

I feel sorry for you if you find 18 to be stressful, cause it only gets worse as you get older and acquire more responsibility!
Perhaps you need to find some way of releasing this stress before it wears you down! And I am not referring to drugs!Www@Answer-Health@Com

mmmm!.!.18 isnt so stressfull!.!.
i think its because u were a stoner&&u didnt think sbout anything!.!.!.and now tht u stopped ur taking things more seriously!.!.but jus enjoy life!.!.!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

Your going through a lot of hormonal changes right now so that might explain the hormonal imbalances/stress!.

It's admirable that you want to stay away from drugs/drug taking individuals at such a young age!.

You should commend yourself for taking this adult approach!.

Please stick to it, if you really want less stress in life, staying away from drugs and it's associations will do you really great, trust me on that!.

If your so stressed, find things that de-stress you!. Discover your passions and engulf yourself in them!. Have you tried relaxation methods!?

You can do meditation or hypnosis for stress, or even accupunture, since stress seems to be really bothering you!.

I wish I could tell you things get easier after puberty, but they most often don't!.

It's not that it's the stage your in, life in general, growing up, is hard!.

I think after your 30 it gets easier!. In your 20's it's difficult cuz you will really find yourself figuring yourself out, discovering yourself and really building/developing and creating a personality which is your very core!.

My advice to you is , just find time to relax and go deep into yourself!. Life doesn't have to be stressful ya know!.

You have the choice!. Find ways of relaxing and it really sounds like you need more positive influences around you!.

Remember, impossible is nothing!.

Lucky for you, your still young and it's good that you ponder life like this and ask questions(in your mind or otherwise)

So many teens your age don't even do this!.

So yeh , just surround yourself around positive things and people and develop yourself, your passions , your dreams,etc

There are tools that can help you, you just gotta discover them !.

Having great people around you(that support your dreams) is a great start!.Www@Answer-Health@Com





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