Please answer: Another "problem in the bedroom"/"am I paranoid or!
Question: Please answer: Another "problem in the bedroom"/"am I paranoid or is he lying"!?
I am having a hard time with trusting my gut, here!. My boyfriend of 5 months has been displaying some behaviors that, to me, suggest that he's been dishosest about our issues in the bedroom!.
The first time we had sex was enjoyable, but the very next time we got close-he was unable to get an erection!. I told him that it was okay, but started taking notes from then on in order to help him with the issue (because I could tell he was too embarrassed to talk about it)!. As time passed, I came to the conclusion that he was masterbating too much!. This is because he'd blame me for the impotence, he'd disappear/I couldn't find him around the house, penis sensitivity, amount of semen during sex, his inability to reach orgasm, and the 2 occasions where I found porno mags that he blamed on another guy who lives on the property!. He's 46 yrs!. old!. I am his 2nd gf and his 5th partner!. I am younger than him, and have a LOT more experience than this!. Should I trust my instinct!?Www@Answer-Health@Com
The first time we had sex was enjoyable, but the very next time we got close-he was unable to get an erection!. I told him that it was okay, but started taking notes from then on in order to help him with the issue (because I could tell he was too embarrassed to talk about it)!. As time passed, I came to the conclusion that he was masterbating too much!. This is because he'd blame me for the impotence, he'd disappear/I couldn't find him around the house, penis sensitivity, amount of semen during sex, his inability to reach orgasm, and the 2 occasions where I found porno mags that he blamed on another guy who lives on the property!. He's 46 yrs!. old!. I am his 2nd gf and his 5th partner!. I am younger than him, and have a LOT more experience than this!. Should I trust my instinct!?Www@Answer-Health@Com
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He could be a compulsive masturbator!.!.!.!.It needs to be handled just like any other addiction!. He may lack initiative and drive to perform in bed!. Another thing to consider is that at this age men go through a phase or mid life crisis!. It could be several things!. My advise is to get counsel if you both are planning to stay together, if you love him and want to help!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
You already have the clue's, now the question is what should you do about it!? He's lying, has a problem!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
MAYBE HE HAS ED YOU IDIOTWww@Answer-Health@Com
What's the big deal if he has porn!? its not like he's cheating on youWww@Answer-Health@Com
Sounds gay!. Come over to me and my wife, we'll get you going!.PurrrrWww@Answer-Health@Com
Being that you have more experience you may intimidate him!. I have known lots of guys with this "problem" It probably has NOTHING to do with you and you talking about it and pointing the finger is only making him think about it more, thus making it even more difficult for him to get an erection!. He is also 46 yrs old and sometimes guys that age cannot get it up like they could in their late teens/20's!. What's the big deal about him masterbating!? If anything that usually makes it so a guy can last longer because he cums often!. I think you are being way too hard on him and making him feel guilty!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
You are probably right!. He has a problem but it is possible for you to help!. Tell him that it is okay to be honest and you will help him with the problem!. I think that women who are critical then drive the man into fantasy!. You touching him will always work and in the morning is the highest time of testosterone!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
YOU have a hard time trusting HIM!? You are taking notes, you want him to be aroused, but don't want him to look at porno!? Guess what!? HE'S 46!!! Guys 46 get aroused less, have smaller amounts of ejaculate, and are definitely turned off by a girlfriend who thinks that she's the sexual police!
Seems to me you're looking to blame him for everything!. It's highly abnormal to take notes!!!!
I wouldn't be able to get an erection, either with someone breathing down my neck all the time!.
Men like looking at porno!. Deal with it!. If you want to turn him on, then quit trying to turn him off!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
Seems to me you're looking to blame him for everything!. It's highly abnormal to take notes!!!!
I wouldn't be able to get an erection, either with someone breathing down my neck all the time!.
Men like looking at porno!. Deal with it!. If you want to turn him on, then quit trying to turn him off!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
46 years old, does he smoke, eat high fat meals, drink alcoholic beverages!. Is there lots of stress from work!. He could have feelings of not being up to y'alls age difference!.
sometimes things may not be happening as in earlier years!. Exercise to get the blood pumping!. Real simple for him to consider speaking to his Doctor!. There are things that can bring a revived sex life!. Ask him or go with him and ask if he could get ed samples!Www@Answer-Health@Com
sometimes things may not be happening as in earlier years!. Exercise to get the blood pumping!. Real simple for him to consider speaking to his Doctor!. There are things that can bring a revived sex life!. Ask him or go with him and ask if he could get ed samples!Www@Answer-Health@Com