Can you get a vasectomy without your wife knowing about it??!


Question: Can you get a vasectomy without your wife knowing about it!?!?
I am asking for my friend!. He wants to get a vasectomy but doesn't want his wife to know!!!
Yes, he's sport'in the idea of "stepping out"!.!.!.

No self rightous answers!. Thank you!.Www@Answer-Health@Com


Answers:
Dayem, after all of that negativity, I'm PULLING OUT!.

LOLWww@Answer-Health@Com

If he's thinking of leaving the relationship, Then I would tell him to wait until he's gone until he gets a vasectomy!. It's pretty rude to do something so personal without talking to your spouse about it first, so advise him to wait!.

And why doesn't your friend want his wife to know about it!? Is he afraid that she'll get mad!? If so, I'll tell you now that she would be a lot more mad If she finds out that her husband got a vasectomy without her knowing!

So, in conclusion, try to help him through his relationship issues, and until then, tell him to not get a vasectomy!!!!! He can wait!. His penis will always be there!.!.!.hopefully!.!.!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

Unfortunately, the answer is yes!. However, his wife should be a part of this aspect of his life!. The longer he waits to tell her, the more difficult it will be when he finally has to confess it!. I have a strong belief in trust and communication in a relationship, especially a marriage!. When that bond is broken, how can you mend it!? I don't care if it's a small break, it's still a break!. Not telling someone something this important is the same as lying!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

Any reputable doctor will require the wife to be present at the interview, which is REQUIRED!.
If he's planning on stepping out, how about STDs/HIV!? Can't be sure of not getting them and passing it on to his wife!.!.!.
What if SHE decides to get her tubes tied so SHE can step out!. Would he have any objection to THAT!?
Since you don't want any 'self righteous' answers, you can guess my opinion of someone (can't use the word MAN because it doesn't apply) like him!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

Yes!. He just needs someone else to drive him home afterwards!. Hard part is it takes 7-10 days to fully recover so good luck hiding that many days (and thats if there are no problems that arise)!.

Also no sex for 2 weeks, and it could take up to 6 months to know for sure if it worked!.

There are a lot of parts to it that make it pretty hard to hide but I guess it could be done!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

It really does not take any 'self-righteousness' at all to know this is wrong!.

Not that I support either idea, but perhaps he should step out of his marriage before he steps out on his wife!.

But, I would not expect you to understand because this is the kind of person you call friend!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

Yeah, he could, but he would have to come up with a good reason to be separated from her for about a week so that everything could heal up and the hair could grow back!.

As for the other part, would she notice a difference!? Depends!. Would she put it together or mention it to anyone!? Probably not!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

This question reminded me of an episode of Scrubs (random I know) where Dr!. Cox goes and has a vasectomy behind Jordan's back!. It would be very appropriate for you and/or your friend to watch it to get some insight!

I have attached a link to the episode:

http://tvshack!.net/tv_shows/Scrubs/seaso!.!.!.

Enjoy!Www@Answer-Health@Com

Wow! That is low down!.!.!. Aren't marriages based on commitment, trust and communication!? Wow, just wow, pregnancy should not be the main concern!. HIV is alive and well in a city near you, you may want to inform your friend AIDS!. And the strains are becoming drug resistant!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

well it's not like the doctor is going to tell his wife!.!.!. the only thing is that he's gonna be in pain and he'll have to explain that to her and pray to God that she doesn't try to make a move or else he's in troubleWww@Answer-Health@Com

A vasectomy is usually a simple procedure, I would be concerned about the time off to do the surgery and the pain from recovery!. Otherwise, she would have no way of knowing!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

people don't realize that you still ejaculate when you've had a vasectomy!. she (probably) won't notice any difference in the!.!.!.product!. but there is cutting involved and stitches!. if she doesn't see him down there for a couple of weeks, he could pull it off!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

Well he's going to be in pain and have severe swelling for a while which means he will have to ice several times a day!. So unless your wife is slow she'll realize something is wrong!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

yes but i think its something you should discuss with her!. she is your wife and your supposed to talk about things like that!. so i would talk to her before going to do something so permanentWww@Answer-Health@Com

Can "he", yes, but how is "he" going to explain that mysterious rash that his wife develops in about a month!?Www@Answer-Health@Com

Yes!. Medical record are confidential!. He should tell the doctor's office specifically he does not want any records shared just to be sure!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

if u abstain from sex she will see the incision u know an if u pay by cash as it will show up on insurance statement an check or charge receipts!.!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

Ethics out the window!.

How about he just takes some garden shears to his pubic hair while blind folded!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

He needs to tell her because she's going to be pissed!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

Sure!. Wow! This wins the weirdest question of the day award!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

of course it is for your "friend"
but the answer is yes But it would be kind of hard for her not to knowWww@Answer-Health@Com

duhh just dont tell her!
but i hope he knows thats making him less of a man =] y dosent she just get her tubes tied in a knot!?Www@Answer-Health@Com

yes
but she'll know when you screw herWww@Answer-Health@Com

hell yeah she will know i mean god they have to cut him!. and plus he will be shooting blanks when he orgasmsWww@Answer-Health@Com

that has to be one of the funniest questions ever!.!.!.and your "freind" is probably you !Www@Answer-Health@Com

she'll know once nothing comes out!.!.Www@Answer-Health@Com





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