Masturbation Addiction Help?!
Question: Masturbation Addiction Help!?
I've been addicted to masturbating, I swear I jerk off at least 5 times a week, and when I masturbate too many times, I have these major headaches and I'm depressed!. I'm also Christian and I want to stop this addiction before it ruins my life and my future relationship with a wife!. I tried to stop for a month, it was so hard to stop but after that one month, I just went back to doing it again!. I'm also worried because I seem to like multiple girls not just one, feels like I can't keep a solid relationship!. Help me please!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
Answers:
Dude!!!
Lighten up on yurself!
You have yourself all in a guilt and condemnation mode which turns the whole thing into an obcession! Many Dudes masturbate 5 times a day for goodness sake!
Your headaches aren't from masturbation, they're from stress and psycological trama because your belief and programing are contrary to what you are doing and you are all wound up over it!.
Use some common sense here! You were designed and created with built in desires!.!.!.!.!.woman! Nobody put a picture in yur head as to which one, so you will likely find all or many beautifl and sexy women desirable!.!.!.!.!.Doesn't mean that you will want multiple partners when you marry!? Not!!
When you marry and start a sex life, you likely will replace masturbation mostly with the real thing!
Christians seem so unable to come to terms with sexuality, when the Bible is in favor of it!!.!.!.More Ref!. to marriage, but even under the strict Old Test Law!.!.masturbation was accepted and not condemned!!.!."You are better off to cast your seed upon the ground than into the belly of a hoar"!!.!.!.Sound familiar!? Under the strictest law of Lavit and Deut!. A person wasn't condemned, but was considered unclean for 24 hour following masturbation!. That was probably how long it took to forget about it! They used to stone people back there for not much!
You aren't even under the law, so quit driving yourself crazy and into obcessions, and accept some things as natural!. Take the snare off your neck, and God's Grace will take care of your imperfections!. If you were able to be perfect, Jesus wouldn't have needed to shed His blood!. Don't go out of your way to mess up in everytning, but taking off the sexual pressure is going to benefit you!. You are gifted with a high sex drive!. Some are low!.!.!.They should be like Paul!
Wishing you the bestWww@Answer-Health@Com
Lighten up on yurself!
You have yourself all in a guilt and condemnation mode which turns the whole thing into an obcession! Many Dudes masturbate 5 times a day for goodness sake!
Your headaches aren't from masturbation, they're from stress and psycological trama because your belief and programing are contrary to what you are doing and you are all wound up over it!.
Use some common sense here! You were designed and created with built in desires!.!.!.!.!.woman! Nobody put a picture in yur head as to which one, so you will likely find all or many beautifl and sexy women desirable!.!.!.!.!.Doesn't mean that you will want multiple partners when you marry!? Not!!
When you marry and start a sex life, you likely will replace masturbation mostly with the real thing!
Christians seem so unable to come to terms with sexuality, when the Bible is in favor of it!!.!.!.More Ref!. to marriage, but even under the strict Old Test Law!.!.masturbation was accepted and not condemned!!.!."You are better off to cast your seed upon the ground than into the belly of a hoar"!!.!.!.Sound familiar!? Under the strictest law of Lavit and Deut!. A person wasn't condemned, but was considered unclean for 24 hour following masturbation!. That was probably how long it took to forget about it! They used to stone people back there for not much!
You aren't even under the law, so quit driving yourself crazy and into obcessions, and accept some things as natural!. Take the snare off your neck, and God's Grace will take care of your imperfections!. If you were able to be perfect, Jesus wouldn't have needed to shed His blood!. Don't go out of your way to mess up in everytning, but taking off the sexual pressure is going to benefit you!. You are gifted with a high sex drive!. Some are low!.!.!.They should be like Paul!
Wishing you the bestWww@Answer-Health@Com
WOW i am the same way cept im a girl lol, chill alot of ppl are like this, do you kinda feel like you get bored in long relationships!? thats how i am!. how old are you!? cuz as you get older you can stay in relationships longer!. you just have to get to know the person real well and it'll be easier to have a long relationship!. but with the masturbation thing, you dont have to stop but it'd definetly be good to slow down, just start doin it less and less!. hope that helps lol, it work'd for meWww@Answer-Health@Com
Dont worry about maturbation so much!. Trust me, there are a LOT of guys who masturbate about 3 times a day!. And theres nothing wrong with that!. Its just a habit that people either find fun or disgusting!. Now, if you want to quit then you just stop doing it for awhile or wean yourself off of it!. And dont worry about liking more than one girl!. Thats perfectly normal!. I like about 10 different girls at my school!. When your in a relationship its easier to not like other girls as much as before!. Sure you may still have feelings for other girls and to be honest, girls you might date will like other guys!. But when you find the right person, you wont have to like anyone else!. Hope that helps!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
dude!.!.i do more than your and im not worried!.!.im 17 and im also a baskeball varsity but msturbation helps me release tension and stress!.!.im also a catholic and studying in a catholic school!.!.!.will graduate this month and im going to Indiana U to take up Aviation!.!.masturbation is normal why do you have to worry about it!.!.everybody does it some fewer and a big majority of biots/men masturbate more than 5 time a week!.!.!.even your pastor or your priest does it to!.!.!.keep going dudeWww@Answer-Health@Com
Try this, it's something I have tried before and it worked!. When ever you want to masturbate just find something else to do something you like, like reading, play video games, surf the web (not porn), watch a movie (that doesn't have sexual content), ect!. It's not much but it worked for me!. Hope this helps!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
Its not an addiction, its just normal!. It won't have any bad effect on you!. The headaches and depression isn't from masturbation, its not related in any way!. Humans are naturally very sexual creatures and its normal to have urges and want to relieve the urges!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
5times a week!? You call that an addiction!? Sometimes I go 5 times a day or more! Lol!. It feels good, it gives you release, again, it feels GOOD! Almost everyone goes through a heavy masturbation phase!. Of course you'll probably still do it when your older, but much much lessWww@Answer-Health@Com
The conflict comes from your Christian bleiefs and your physical needs, so you set up this conflict within yourself!.
Trying to stop it can cause more damage to your mind than just relieving yourself, so tend to the matters at handWww@Answer-Health@Com
Trying to stop it can cause more damage to your mind than just relieving yourself, so tend to the matters at handWww@Answer-Health@Com
just don't log on adult websites and be doing something entertaing like haging out with friends or something but have you ever seen that show tila tequila she said that she masterbates at least 9 times a day i was like WTF!!!Www@Answer-Health@Com
Five time a week is normal!. And masturbation is not a sin!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
Get a job and/or a hobby!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
you're fine
i do it once a week thoughWww@Answer-Health@Com
i do it once a week thoughWww@Answer-Health@Com
ur normal!./!.!.!.dont worryWww@Answer-Health@Com
Well dude! 5 times a week is not that bad!. Back in college I knew dudes and gals who masturbated at least 5 times in a day!. Yours is probably normal hormonal needs!. As everything in life it will just go away gradually!. Just be patient and give it a break!.
Don't try to quit cold turkey!. You may need to get a hobby!. Work on your car and if you are not a car macho dude, polish your dungeons and dragons figurines!. Or categorize your Pokemon cards or whatever keeps you from shaving the carrot!.
You will be a better Christian if you try to understand you situation and accept that thanks to God, you are normal!. Don't try to go against nature because in the end you will loose hands down (or pants down if you know what I mean)!.
I bet that when you are done masturbating you feel guilty!. That already makes you a better human being!. We all fantasize with multiple women and crap like that!. But ask yourself!. Are you Ron Jeremy!? if the answer is no then stop and re-think!. Will you be able to satisfy a lot of women at the same time!? (Think not) Is your marriage worth the embarrassment!? (think not)
1)Accept that God made you human and therefore you must think that the body is a perfect creation of God!. If your body's hormones give you that urge don't blame it on Satan!. Blame it on the natural conditions of being human inside a human body!.
2)Get a good hobby that keeps you entertained and that may give you that macho edge with your lady!. That will crank her up and probably you will get her to do kinky stuff that will satisfy your sexual urges!. She will say: Oh! honey I didn't know that you could be a dirty mechanic!. Oh! baby that turns me on so bad I want you to check my oil!. (So on and so forth)
Let me know how it went dude!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
Don't try to quit cold turkey!. You may need to get a hobby!. Work on your car and if you are not a car macho dude, polish your dungeons and dragons figurines!. Or categorize your Pokemon cards or whatever keeps you from shaving the carrot!.
You will be a better Christian if you try to understand you situation and accept that thanks to God, you are normal!. Don't try to go against nature because in the end you will loose hands down (or pants down if you know what I mean)!.
I bet that when you are done masturbating you feel guilty!. That already makes you a better human being!. We all fantasize with multiple women and crap like that!. But ask yourself!. Are you Ron Jeremy!? if the answer is no then stop and re-think!. Will you be able to satisfy a lot of women at the same time!? (Think not) Is your marriage worth the embarrassment!? (think not)
1)Accept that God made you human and therefore you must think that the body is a perfect creation of God!. If your body's hormones give you that urge don't blame it on Satan!. Blame it on the natural conditions of being human inside a human body!.
2)Get a good hobby that keeps you entertained and that may give you that macho edge with your lady!. That will crank her up and probably you will get her to do kinky stuff that will satisfy your sexual urges!. She will say: Oh! honey I didn't know that you could be a dirty mechanic!. Oh! baby that turns me on so bad I want you to check my oil!. (So on and so forth)
Let me know how it went dude!.Www@Answer-Health@Com