Advice from guys??!
Question: Advice from guys!?!?
I need some advice!.My boyfriend and I have been together for 2!.5 years and we are still virgins(im 18 and hes 22)!.Anyway we are apart right now and so we master together sometimes, like over the phone and whatnot!.Anyway I havnt been in the mood like at all lately(which is really weird for me)!.But anyway Im trying to find ways to turn him down politely!.He says hes fine with it if I dont want to help him out!.But I feel really bad!.What should I do!?Does anyone have advice!?Thanks for the help!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
Answers:
It's okay that you don't feel horny!. It happens to me sometimes!. You just don't feel like doing it for a few days!. Getting turned down always sucks no matter whether the person is being nice or not!. Just tell him your not really in the mood!. And there is nothing wrong with helping him, even if you don't do anything!. If he says he's fine with it, then he is so I wouldn't worry!.
I hope this helped!.
-ConnorWww@Answer-Health@Com
I hope this helped!.
-ConnorWww@Answer-Health@Com
Well, you could show him that you still care in other non-sexual ways like hugs, cuddling, back-rubs, spending time doing something he really likes that you may not care for, and etc!.
Don't force yourself to do something sexual if you don't want to; intimacy should always be enjoyed by both parties!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
Don't force yourself to do something sexual if you don't want to; intimacy should always be enjoyed by both parties!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
I don't for the life of me know how you've been together this long and managed to abstain from sex!. Do either one of you have a libido!?Www@Answer-Health@Com
He's 22 and he's not around you, and you are refusing phone sex!? Then my guess is by now he's not a virgin!Www@Answer-Health@Com
Just break up with him!.
Say "Sorry but we need to break up!." and leave!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
Say "Sorry but we need to break up!." and leave!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
sit him down and tell him how you feel!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
He's not happy with you, and you too!.Www@Answer-Health@Com