I don't know why I feel this way. . .?!
Question: I don't know why I feel this way!. !. !.!?
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You shouldn't worry!. People feel very differently about sex!. I don't think i've ever met anyone who feels the same way as me!. It makes very interesting conversations though!
I have often thought the same!.!.!. not understanding how you can sleep with someone you're not in love with or at least care deeply for, with someone you don't know, treat it as a game and the whole 'dark side' of sex defied me!. But my feelings have changed, mellowed more over the years and I understand things much more now!. Sex can be an amazingly intimate, true passionate love making experience!. It can also be a quick, meaningless moment of selfish pleasure!.
It's like the different words for sex mean different things!.!.!. lovemaking, sex, shagging, f***ing!. I would say you are a love maker!. And that's great!.
You may feel you're the only one who feels this way but there are probably alot of people around you who do feel the same, but those aren't the people who usually talk openly about sex!. And you don't have to 'like' what others are doing but you know they aren't doing anything evil, so you can accept that's the way they've decided to live their life!.
Sex is the most natural thing in the world!. It is the reason we are all here!. It is a strange and wonderful thing!.
Just do what works for you!. You may not understand the lifestyles and actions of others, but for your own peace of mind just try to accept it!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
I have often thought the same!.!.!. not understanding how you can sleep with someone you're not in love with or at least care deeply for, with someone you don't know, treat it as a game and the whole 'dark side' of sex defied me!. But my feelings have changed, mellowed more over the years and I understand things much more now!. Sex can be an amazingly intimate, true passionate love making experience!. It can also be a quick, meaningless moment of selfish pleasure!.
It's like the different words for sex mean different things!.!.!. lovemaking, sex, shagging, f***ing!. I would say you are a love maker!. And that's great!.
You may feel you're the only one who feels this way but there are probably alot of people around you who do feel the same, but those aren't the people who usually talk openly about sex!. And you don't have to 'like' what others are doing but you know they aren't doing anything evil, so you can accept that's the way they've decided to live their life!.
Sex is the most natural thing in the world!. It is the reason we are all here!. It is a strange and wonderful thing!.
Just do what works for you!. You may not understand the lifestyles and actions of others, but for your own peace of mind just try to accept it!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
You are correct to question your odd belief about sex "ruining the image of love" between people!.
You can help stop these irrational thoughts by continuing to do what you're doing: question them, expose their irrationality, and replace them with rational answers!.
For example, while sex CAN ruin friendships, sometimes, it much more often is a critical part of the bond which holds people together!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
You can help stop these irrational thoughts by continuing to do what you're doing: question them, expose their irrationality, and replace them with rational answers!.
For example, while sex CAN ruin friendships, sometimes, it much more often is a critical part of the bond which holds people together!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
Well it's mostly because the image of sex has changed over the years!. Before sex was something private between two people, now its slapped all over billboards and music videos!. Sex doesn't ruin the relationship if the two people are responsible about it!. If sex is done on the first date for example, it almost usually ends badly!. But if done in the right time, when the two people feel intense "love" and not "lust" then it only strenthens the relationship!. I underdstand what you are saying I feel sort of the same!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
i have that same feeling!.!.!.!.like they should either keep that info to their selves or not tell everyone on yahoo!!! lol
i dont want to stop feeling this way!.!.!.!.that is how i feel and i dont want to change just to please other ppl!.!.!.thats not how i roll!.!.!.u dont like me and my opinion!.!.!.fine then!.!.!.i dont really care!.!.!.i have some of the greatest ppl in the world in my life and i dont need biznatches like them to ruin it just cuz i think that sex is wrong!.!.!.!.!.u no what i mean!?!?Www@Answer-Health@Com
i dont want to stop feeling this way!.!.!.!.that is how i feel and i dont want to change just to please other ppl!.!.!.thats not how i roll!.!.!.u dont like me and my opinion!.!.!.fine then!.!.!.i dont really care!.!.!.i have some of the greatest ppl in the world in my life and i dont need biznatches like them to ruin it just cuz i think that sex is wrong!.!.!.!.!.u no what i mean!?!?Www@Answer-Health@Com
Somewhere along the way when you were growing up, someone planted a bad image in your mind!. If it interferes with your enjoying sex with a partner, you can probably be helped by a professional therapist who specializes in sexual disorders!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
Well, maybe you just need to wait!. The time may come when your into it!. Your attitude may turn twards the subject!. Give it time!. Don't force yourself to do anything though!. Everyones different!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
I can see what you mean!. But, when I read questions like that, I get jealous, not angry!. Who the f*ck gets f*cked when they're a teen!? It makes me jealous!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
is it cause you never had sex!? like really not to be mean or anyting but people dont care what you think if you dont wanna do it then dont leave the people that Do aloneWww@Answer-Health@Com
no your normal dude!. i used to think like that maybe when u meet someone u love it be ok and sex aint the only way to show someone you love them!. so chill and ignore the wankers who take the pissWww@Answer-Health@Com
its not completely wrong to feel this way but i dont agree !. !. !. some do mis use sex but it is a way to show loveWww@Answer-Health@Com
Sounds like a religion hangover!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
You feel like this because you aren't getting laid!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
To each his own!. You have a right to believe what you want!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
i dont know why and im not a therapist but i think atleast one time in our lives we all feel this way even ocassionly i doWww@Answer-Health@Com
I think maybe you are being a little to constrictive in your definition of sex and love!.
I agree that sex can be a physical manifestation of love, but it also can be something that two consenting people do with out the benefit of love, and not be a bad thing!.
It is true that people sometimes get together just for sex, and as long as both persons involved understand thats all it is, then whats the problem!? There is nothing wrong with two people making each other feel good!
It is also OK for you to view sex the way you do cause thats how you want it to be!. Each person has their own beliefs on how they wish for things to be, and thats not just limited to sex and love either!. For example, person "A" may like red cars, while person "B" likes black cars, black is not good for "A" and red is not good for "B", but neither are wrong choices, they are simply personal preferences!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
I agree that sex can be a physical manifestation of love, but it also can be something that two consenting people do with out the benefit of love, and not be a bad thing!.
It is true that people sometimes get together just for sex, and as long as both persons involved understand thats all it is, then whats the problem!? There is nothing wrong with two people making each other feel good!
It is also OK for you to view sex the way you do cause thats how you want it to be!. Each person has their own beliefs on how they wish for things to be, and thats not just limited to sex and love either!. For example, person "A" may like red cars, while person "B" likes black cars, black is not good for "A" and red is not good for "B", but neither are wrong choices, they are simply personal preferences!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
You maybe feel this way because of certain things that have affected you in the past in your life, or how you were brought up!.!.!.or the kind of people you are around!. Don't rush into anything your not ready for!. Sex is a way to show love, and some people do misuse it, and only want it for the bodily pleasure!.!.but many of us use it to show our partner we love them!. Don't be ashamed of how you feel!. Everyone matures at a different rate, and you will stay celibate until your body feels ready to do it!. Try associating with new people, or joining new activites!.!.doing new things in life, you may meet someone you like, and your feelings will change eventually!. If you need anything feel free to contact me via email!. I am going through school for psychology, and have been through alot in my own short 16 years!.!. I am willing to talk about this further, or anything else you wish, I offer my help and support to any of the yahoo answer folks out there needing someone to talk to about anything!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
Sex is sex and love is love!. I am married to a WONDERFUL man, and when we first got together we had sex frequently!. Now we NEVER have sex, but we don't NEED it, because we are 'extremely intimate' in other ways !.!.!. we are best friends, lovers (yes, even without sex, we are lovers), partners, and playmates!. We are together 'forever and beyond' and TRUST each other totally!. We are BOTH VIRGO, so the 'sex' mostly seems WAY TO MESSY for us !.!.!. but we sleep naked, and we hold hands and have our arms intertwined when we sleep!. In other words, when you find YOUR 'soul mate' you will probably 'enjoy sex' !.!.!. but if you stop wanting it (which must happen to both of you at the same time to 'work) but still love each other, that is YOUR BUSINESS AS A COUPLE and no one can or should be allowed to make 'comments' about your 'sexual relationship!.' My husband and I DO NOT NEED SEX, but we LOVE EACH OTHER TOTALLY AND UNCONDITIONALLY!. Be who you are and proud of it, no matter how 'weird' others may thin you are !.!.!. there IS someone out there who will truly love you if you are just 'open' to it happening!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
You are entitled to your view of things and have a right to set your own morals!. Nothing wrong with your views at all and a lot of people share them!. This is the teaching I was brought up under too!.
That being said, let me make two points!. Sex isn't dirty or sinful!. Without sex there is no mankind!. We reproduce that way and we were given this gift!. Loading up a natural human function with morality just leads to conflict and pain!. We should not feel guilt because we enjoy a gift to our species!.
Second, most of the talk about teenage sex on this forum is BS pure and simple!. If your getting sex, you won't feel any need to tell the world that your getting sex!. Who the hell cares, unless you are purely trying to impress people or posing!?
Hope this was useful, !.!.!.!.Peace!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
That being said, let me make two points!. Sex isn't dirty or sinful!. Without sex there is no mankind!. We reproduce that way and we were given this gift!. Loading up a natural human function with morality just leads to conflict and pain!. We should not feel guilt because we enjoy a gift to our species!.
Second, most of the talk about teenage sex on this forum is BS pure and simple!. If your getting sex, you won't feel any need to tell the world that your getting sex!. Who the hell cares, unless you are purely trying to impress people or posing!?
Hope this was useful, !.!.!.!.Peace!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
It is good that you feel it is wrong, because it is wrong to have sex before marriage!. The bible even states that a man and woman should not have sex together before getting married, otherwise it is a sin!. Sex doesn't equal love, it just means two people want to "feel good"!. In fact, one of the top reasons for people to have sex (from a survey in Oprah Mag) is because it felt good!. There was nothing about love!. Sex is a sacred thing, and should not be wasted to try to solve a problem in a relationship or a fling which will hurt you and your partner in the end!. It's much more special when you wait until after marriage to do it with someone who you KNOW cares about you and your feelings!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
You feel that way because most of them see sex as a pleasure not as a commitment to the ones they love!.And care about!.
That is why most of the answers are ignorant:if a guy says that he feels his penis hurts when he pees:everyone shouts:see a Dr It is an STD!.
Is this because they themselves are promiscuous!?
And have sex with any one who can walk!?
Just to have fun!?
It highly disgusts me too!.
Have sex with the one you love and do not take advantage of a body just for your own gratification:that is so dead wrong!.
But kids are senseless!.
And greedy and selfish!.
Glad I was never like that
Avriel:do not let the behaviour of a few influence you or your behaviour:you are a very decent young man:with values!.
Wish there were more like you!.
Sky,
Shed of the confusion:you are a good person!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
That is why most of the answers are ignorant:if a guy says that he feels his penis hurts when he pees:everyone shouts:see a Dr It is an STD!.
Is this because they themselves are promiscuous!?
And have sex with any one who can walk!?
Just to have fun!?
It highly disgusts me too!.
Have sex with the one you love and do not take advantage of a body just for your own gratification:that is so dead wrong!.
But kids are senseless!.
And greedy and selfish!.
Glad I was never like that
Avriel:do not let the behaviour of a few influence you or your behaviour:you are a very decent young man:with values!.
Wish there were more like you!.
Sky,
Shed of the confusion:you are a good person!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
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