Do circumcised guys ever feel "cheated?"?!
Question: Do circumcised guys ever feel "cheated!?"!?
My boyfriend is circumcised and recently he told me he is really angry about it!. He says he feels cheated because his foreskin was stolen against his will and his sensitivity is reduced!. I actually sort of like the circumcised look but now I feel sorry for him!. Is it common for circumcised men to be angry about their circumcisions!?Www@Answer-Health@Com
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he probably read an article by an intactivist group that said he was cheated!. The anti circ crowd is constantly doing this to try and reduce the number of circumcisions in this country!. here are two groups that discuss adult circumcision!. these are the guys he should ask since they got cut as adults and have been on both sides of the fence so to speak!. and no its not common to be angry unless youve been brainwashed by nocirc, cirp and norm!.
http://groups!.yahoo!.com/group/Inter-Circ!.!.!.
http://groups!.google!.com/group/CIRCLIST
Yahoo group for Dr!. Reed: http://groups!.yahoo!.com/group/Procircorg!.!.!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
http://groups!.yahoo!.com/group/Inter-Circ!.!.!.
http://groups!.google!.com/group/CIRCLIST
Yahoo group for Dr!. Reed: http://groups!.yahoo!.com/group/Procircorg!.!.!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
You like the look of a penist that has been scarred and mutilated!? As opposed to the natural, normal look of an intact penis!?
I wish more women would consider this; suppose they had been forced to undergo female circumcision as a helpless infant, which destroys sexual sensitivity and leaves one physically and psychologically scarred permanently!.
Female circumcision is mutilation; all civilized people agree on it---so is male circumcision!.
Cleaner!? No, the normal male bathes regularly--that's an old wive's tale!. Vaginas certainly aren't all that clean---look at all of the products on the market for feminine hygiene!.
Wouldn't the removal of portions of the labia/clitoral hood make females cleaner!? Certainly, but it's mutilation!.
As far as sensitivity goes circumcision destroys at least 50% of sexual sensitivity and more!. In my case a lot more!. I could not achieve normal orgasm during intercourse!.
I am restoring my foreskin, a long and tedious process, but I'm getting back as much of what was stolen from me, ripped off when I was a helpless infant!. Watch one of the circumcision videos where they mutilate an infant after they tie him down----cruel!? Always!. There are a bunch of them on the internet!. Listen to his screams as they hack away at the most sensitive part of the male body!
American men have been cheated out of the real sexual experience that comes from having a complete penis!.
Certain minority religious groups have made this practice widespread here----imposing their abonimable male genital mutilation in others!. The trend has been reversing!. Today only 50% of males are being mutilated, twenty years ago it was more like 80% of American men!.
Your boyfriend should look up foreskin restoration on the internet, there are lots of sites, techniques and devices!.
I use the TLC Tugger, and am experiencing great results!.
I am determined to fight against male genital mutilation until I am dead, to make others aware that this practice is cruel, barbaric and savage, and is unnatural and abnormal!.
Infant circumcision is infant sexual abuse, and a violation of the basic human right to a whole and intact body!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
I wish more women would consider this; suppose they had been forced to undergo female circumcision as a helpless infant, which destroys sexual sensitivity and leaves one physically and psychologically scarred permanently!.
Female circumcision is mutilation; all civilized people agree on it---so is male circumcision!.
Cleaner!? No, the normal male bathes regularly--that's an old wive's tale!. Vaginas certainly aren't all that clean---look at all of the products on the market for feminine hygiene!.
Wouldn't the removal of portions of the labia/clitoral hood make females cleaner!? Certainly, but it's mutilation!.
As far as sensitivity goes circumcision destroys at least 50% of sexual sensitivity and more!. In my case a lot more!. I could not achieve normal orgasm during intercourse!.
I am restoring my foreskin, a long and tedious process, but I'm getting back as much of what was stolen from me, ripped off when I was a helpless infant!. Watch one of the circumcision videos where they mutilate an infant after they tie him down----cruel!? Always!. There are a bunch of them on the internet!. Listen to his screams as they hack away at the most sensitive part of the male body!
American men have been cheated out of the real sexual experience that comes from having a complete penis!.
Certain minority religious groups have made this practice widespread here----imposing their abonimable male genital mutilation in others!. The trend has been reversing!. Today only 50% of males are being mutilated, twenty years ago it was more like 80% of American men!.
Your boyfriend should look up foreskin restoration on the internet, there are lots of sites, techniques and devices!.
I use the TLC Tugger, and am experiencing great results!.
I am determined to fight against male genital mutilation until I am dead, to make others aware that this practice is cruel, barbaric and savage, and is unnatural and abnormal!.
Infant circumcision is infant sexual abuse, and a violation of the basic human right to a whole and intact body!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
Although lots of people answer on here that he should be grateful or it looks better, not everyone feels that way!.
He has every right to feel cheated in that there was something he never got the chance to experience, because his parents made decision for him that as far as I am concerned should be the decision of the owner of the penis alone!. Although lots of men tell themselves it is great and they are happy with it, a fair portion of circumcised men also feel like your boyfriend, and wish they has had the choice!.
My circumcised friend doesn't exactly feel cheated - but he was always vaguely jealous of his uncircumcised brother ans wished he could have had the chance to experience that!. He says what's done it done and it is what I've got, but he does wish he could have experienced being uncircumcised!.
Some men lose more sensitivity than others when they are circumcised too!. It is my belief than circumcision should be a decision every man makes for himself as an adult - I find infant circumcision immoral!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
He has every right to feel cheated in that there was something he never got the chance to experience, because his parents made decision for him that as far as I am concerned should be the decision of the owner of the penis alone!. Although lots of men tell themselves it is great and they are happy with it, a fair portion of circumcised men also feel like your boyfriend, and wish they has had the choice!.
My circumcised friend doesn't exactly feel cheated - but he was always vaguely jealous of his uncircumcised brother ans wished he could have had the chance to experience that!. He says what's done it done and it is what I've got, but he does wish he could have experienced being uncircumcised!.
Some men lose more sensitivity than others when they are circumcised too!. It is my belief than circumcision should be a decision every man makes for himself as an adult - I find infant circumcision immoral!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
Well I feel the same way your boyfriend does!. I was also circumcised as a baby but I regret the decision my parents made!. The foreskin is supposed to be there and it makes the penis much more sensitive!. There is no real medical benefit to circumcision and most guys in other parts of the world are never circumcised!. It's just an American thing and frankly mostly only done for looks!.
Most Americans are circumcised and since that is what they are used to seeing, they think that is how the penis is supposed to look even though it's not!. Whenever they see a foreskin they think it looks weird!. In the rest of the world it's the exact opposite!. Many parents in the US want their sons to be circumcised because their dad was or so that the other boys in the locker room won't make fun of them!. All of those are just stupid reasons that make no since (considering how much is actually lost) the foreskin is one of the most sensitive parts of the penis and it also protects the glans from friction which further desensitizes it!. The whole reason circumcision became popular in the US was to prevent boys from masturbating!
The reason why most people who think that circumcision is better is because they themselves were circumcised at birth and have never experienced the benefits of having a foreskin, or because they choose to get circumcised because they had a legitamate problem with their penis caused by their foreskin!.
In the ladder situation, that was the guys own decision and done out of a medical necessity!. The reason why people who choos circumcision usually like it better is because it improves their sex life but for the majority it won't!. If you have a tight foreskin or some other rare penis problem associated with having a foreskin and circumcision eliminates that problem, when then obviously you are going to be an advocate of circumcision!. Most guys foreskins work perfectly and have no problems at all!. The majority of uncircumcised guys never want to be circumcised because all it will do for them is reduce sensitivity!. The only people you can trust to have a neutral experienced position on this are adult uncircumcised men who have to get circumcised due to religious conversion!. Assuming these guys had a healthy sex life and no penis problems at all, they would have the ability to give a rational objective description of the before and after effects of circumcision!. Many of them (i've looked this up before) report a marked reduction in sensitivity, but ultimately would make the same decision because their religion is important to them!.
I am not Jewish or Muslim so there was no religious reason for me to be circumcised!. So yes I do feel cheated that part of my body was taken away from me against my will because I certainly would never have chosen to get circumcised myself!. So I can empathize with your boyfriend!. On the other hand, you have to play the hand you were delt so I'm sure he, as I did will learn to happily adapt to accept his circumcised penis!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
Most Americans are circumcised and since that is what they are used to seeing, they think that is how the penis is supposed to look even though it's not!. Whenever they see a foreskin they think it looks weird!. In the rest of the world it's the exact opposite!. Many parents in the US want their sons to be circumcised because their dad was or so that the other boys in the locker room won't make fun of them!. All of those are just stupid reasons that make no since (considering how much is actually lost) the foreskin is one of the most sensitive parts of the penis and it also protects the glans from friction which further desensitizes it!. The whole reason circumcision became popular in the US was to prevent boys from masturbating!
The reason why most people who think that circumcision is better is because they themselves were circumcised at birth and have never experienced the benefits of having a foreskin, or because they choose to get circumcised because they had a legitamate problem with their penis caused by their foreskin!.
In the ladder situation, that was the guys own decision and done out of a medical necessity!. The reason why people who choos circumcision usually like it better is because it improves their sex life but for the majority it won't!. If you have a tight foreskin or some other rare penis problem associated with having a foreskin and circumcision eliminates that problem, when then obviously you are going to be an advocate of circumcision!. Most guys foreskins work perfectly and have no problems at all!. The majority of uncircumcised guys never want to be circumcised because all it will do for them is reduce sensitivity!. The only people you can trust to have a neutral experienced position on this are adult uncircumcised men who have to get circumcised due to religious conversion!. Assuming these guys had a healthy sex life and no penis problems at all, they would have the ability to give a rational objective description of the before and after effects of circumcision!. Many of them (i've looked this up before) report a marked reduction in sensitivity, but ultimately would make the same decision because their religion is important to them!.
I am not Jewish or Muslim so there was no religious reason for me to be circumcised!. So yes I do feel cheated that part of my body was taken away from me against my will because I certainly would never have chosen to get circumcised myself!. So I can empathize with your boyfriend!. On the other hand, you have to play the hand you were delt so I'm sure he, as I did will learn to happily adapt to accept his circumcised penis!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
I live in the UK here you are only circumcised for religious reasons but last year I had to be circumcised for medical reasons!.
I feel cheated I lost about 40% of the sensation, I know in the USA a lot of people are circumcised but guys how much effort would it take to wash down there and have great sex!
I can grantee sex is better with a foreskin!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
I feel cheated I lost about 40% of the sensation, I know in the USA a lot of people are circumcised but guys how much effort would it take to wash down there and have great sex!
I can grantee sex is better with a foreskin!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
Yes I do!
The improvement in sensitivity I have felt since I started foreskin restoration has proved to me how much was stolen from me!. I know that I am only regaining a small fraction of what that mutilate for money "dr" hacked from my young penis!. But even a little is better that damn near nothing!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
The improvement in sensitivity I have felt since I started foreskin restoration has proved to me how much was stolen from me!. I know that I am only regaining a small fraction of what that mutilate for money "dr" hacked from my young penis!. But even a little is better that damn near nothing!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
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Not true its just as easy to wash just pull the skin back (not that hard) same with peeing!. Also being uncut rocks no lose of nerves or anything!. Also there is no proof that it prevents from stds etc or that its better!. Plus 80-85% of the world is uncut!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
Not true its just as easy to wash just pull the skin back (not that hard) same with peeing!. Also being uncut rocks no lose of nerves or anything!. Also there is no proof that it prevents from stds etc or that its better!. Plus 80-85% of the world is uncut!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
There is a joke about this:
Jewish boys circumcise because Jewish girls wouldn't even touch anything unless it's 20% off!.
Jewish readers please don't take any offense - it's just a joke!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
Jewish boys circumcise because Jewish girls wouldn't even touch anything unless it's 20% off!.
Jewish readers please don't take any offense - it's just a joke!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
Dunno, but i wonder how it feels to be circumcised!.!.!.!.!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
Yeah, I know a lot of guys who feel "robbed"!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
Yes,, Because of the pain that he is feeling time by time !.!. he may get angry i't very naturalWww@Answer-Health@Com
I think he is right to a point!.!.!. that he should have a choice!.!.!. but it is cleanerWww@Answer-Health@Com
i dnt know tht's a tough one, but sounds pretty sad = (Www@Answer-Health@Com
Yes it is common to be angry - once they know the facts and not the myths like it being cleaner!. It is perfectly natural!.
There are no benefits to circumcision , in 1860 less than 1 % of little boys were circumcised!. The reason for the increase was not because it was cleaner but because it prevented masturbation!. Circumcision reduces sexual pleasure!.
The foreskin is essential to the wellbeing of the penis!.
The main thing that is lost is "The gliding effect"!. This is the gliding motion the skin has when it is rubbed up and down during masturbation or sex!. Circumcised men can't masturbate as nature intended - they just rub the head!. Often they need special lubrication!.
The next thing that is lost is thousands of specialised pleasure nerves under the foreskin called Meissner's corpuscles - meaning that the foreskin is a specific erogenous zone!. When the skin moves back and forth in the gliding motion I just mentioned it produces a wonderful pleasurable feeling!. Why should anyone be deprived of this!?
Exposure of the glans (one of the least sensitive parts of the penis) also makes it add an extra layer of skin which further reduces sensation!. This is called keratinization!. The glans is supposed to be protected by the foreskin!. This reduces infection and the smegma inside helps lubricate the gliding motion and keeps the glans moist!. A lot of people don't know that smegma actually contains antibodies to help fight infection!.
All of these things affect sex in a detrimental way - and it is the female that loses out the most due to the more forceful thrusting a man has to do to gain any pleasurable feeling!. Also the intact man's penis creates a ridged band that traps moisture!. A circumcised penis does not do this so it can lead to vaginal dryness!. These are some of the reasons you shouldn't mess with nature!.
My advice to you is just to console your boyfriend!. He is probably feeling betrayed and let down!. Let him know that it doesn't matter to you and you still love him!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
There are no benefits to circumcision , in 1860 less than 1 % of little boys were circumcised!. The reason for the increase was not because it was cleaner but because it prevented masturbation!. Circumcision reduces sexual pleasure!.
The foreskin is essential to the wellbeing of the penis!.
The main thing that is lost is "The gliding effect"!. This is the gliding motion the skin has when it is rubbed up and down during masturbation or sex!. Circumcised men can't masturbate as nature intended - they just rub the head!. Often they need special lubrication!.
The next thing that is lost is thousands of specialised pleasure nerves under the foreskin called Meissner's corpuscles - meaning that the foreskin is a specific erogenous zone!. When the skin moves back and forth in the gliding motion I just mentioned it produces a wonderful pleasurable feeling!. Why should anyone be deprived of this!?
Exposure of the glans (one of the least sensitive parts of the penis) also makes it add an extra layer of skin which further reduces sensation!. This is called keratinization!. The glans is supposed to be protected by the foreskin!. This reduces infection and the smegma inside helps lubricate the gliding motion and keeps the glans moist!. A lot of people don't know that smegma actually contains antibodies to help fight infection!.
All of these things affect sex in a detrimental way - and it is the female that loses out the most due to the more forceful thrusting a man has to do to gain any pleasurable feeling!. Also the intact man's penis creates a ridged band that traps moisture!. A circumcised penis does not do this so it can lead to vaginal dryness!. These are some of the reasons you shouldn't mess with nature!.
My advice to you is just to console your boyfriend!. He is probably feeling betrayed and let down!. Let him know that it doesn't matter to you and you still love him!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
nope!.!.!.I know personally I dont feel cheated!.!.I am happy!.!.!.foreskin can cause problems if you dont wash properly!.!.!.it gets in the way when urinating!.!.!.there is very very little sensitivity lost if any with the foreskin!.!.!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
I was circumcised later in life and i think it's one of the best things thats ever happened to me!. I fee a lot much more sensation during sex now than I did before I was circumcised!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
I'm circumcised!.
no problems whatsoever!.
your boyfriend shouldn't feel angry over it, I mean I'm not gay but I think it looks more healthy and well!.!. better >,>Www@Answer-Health@Com
no problems whatsoever!.
your boyfriend shouldn't feel angry over it, I mean I'm not gay but I think it looks more healthy and well!.!. better >,>Www@Answer-Health@Com
why should we feel cheated circumsised looks better than uncircumsised ***** any way no homoWww@Answer-Health@Com
That is the strangest thing I have ever heard!. Sounds like he is making excuses for sucking in bedWww@Answer-Health@Com