Hey guys need some advice!?!
Question: Hey guys need some advice!!?
Okay so im 20 and my bf is 23, i lost my virginity to him two months ago (he wasnt a virgin)!. Things were going good untill the last few times recently that we have had sex!.!.!.!.twice he ejaculated prematurely (as in just as he was entering me) and so we decided to wait 20mins or so and try again!.!.!.except he couldnt get hard enough to enter me but still came!. So i suggested he masturbated like before i saw him so he wasnt as horney but that didnt work either!.
Last weekend and then tuesday we tried again but THIS time he was getting hard, but not hard enough (im sure u know what i mean) Whats happening and how can we sort this out!? I told him not to worry about it and reassured him that im not frustraighted or annoyed or anything as he has been so wonderfully patient with me!. I said if he worries about it, it wont help!. He doesnt take drugs, its not an STD and he hasnt had any alcohol before we have had sex!. Suggestions!? He wont want to go to the doctor!. Why was it ok and suddenly not!!?Www@Answer-Health@Com
Last weekend and then tuesday we tried again but THIS time he was getting hard, but not hard enough (im sure u know what i mean) Whats happening and how can we sort this out!? I told him not to worry about it and reassured him that im not frustraighted or annoyed or anything as he has been so wonderfully patient with me!. I said if he worries about it, it wont help!. He doesnt take drugs, its not an STD and he hasnt had any alcohol before we have had sex!. Suggestions!? He wont want to go to the doctor!. Why was it ok and suddenly not!!?Www@Answer-Health@Com
Answers:
It sounds like he is just to excited it can happen sometimes!. He just needs to stop worrying about it i know its hard but the longer he worries about it the more its going to affect him!. One thing you might want to try is catch him off guard like get yourself in the mood then just attack him that way he really doesn't have anytime to think about it!. hopefully that should help!. Also just keep telling him that its okay cause if you say anything bad it will just make it worse!. if none of this works he might need to see a doctor, i know its scary but trust me he would want to fix it!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
Well it's not performance anxiety, and I don't know why it suddenly poped up!. He most likley has premature ejaculation, he needs to go to a doctor to get that fixed!. He need to go to the doctor anyways to make sure it's not another problem!. But this is something that will become annoying and stressfull and it will effect your relationship if he doesn't get it fixed!. Tell him to go see a doctor about it, he should be able to help with it!.
-ConnorWww@Answer-Health@Com
-ConnorWww@Answer-Health@Com
okay a little investigating:
is he stressed out from work/family, etc!?
is his diet out of whack!?
Performance Anxiety!?
He could invest in a c0ckring
He could take some sex, libidio increasing herbs - Black Pearl, Ginseng, Sasasprilla, Stinging Nettle, Yohimbe Bark!.
is he stressed out from work/family, etc!?
is his diet out of whack!?
Performance Anxiety!?
He could invest in a c0ckring
He could take some sex, libidio increasing herbs - Black Pearl, Ginseng, Sasasprilla, Stinging Nettle, Yohimbe Bark!.
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