Embarassing intimacy/performance question..?!
Question: Embarassing intimacy/performance question!.!.!?
I have no problem getting an erection, I'm 38 and have no major health problems as far as I am aware!. But, I don't seem to be able to get far enough with a partner to have an orgasm/ejaculation!. By myself I am fine, no problems and I can finish the deal in 10 to 15 minutes!. But with a partner, I get stressed out or psyched out, not really sure what is happening!. But again, the erection is there and I definately WANT it to happen!. There is even seminal fluid produced, so I feel like I am close!. I hate for my partners to think that it's something they aren't doing right, when in fact they are great it's someting in my head!.
Would testosterone from a physician help!? Or, some other medical treatment!? Or is this just psychiatric in nature!.!.!?!?Www@Answer-Health@Com
Would testosterone from a physician help!? Or, some other medical treatment!? Or is this just psychiatric in nature!.!.!?!?Www@Answer-Health@Com
Answers:
Since it seems like you aren't having problems when you are finishing by yourself, testosterone and other medical treatment probably won't help!. It sounds like the problem is mental!. It probably wouldn't hurt if you got checked out by a physician, though!. It would take a lot of stress off you!.
What you are describing is quite common, actually!. Men tend to psych themselves out, and therefore have issues finishing!. The problems isn't that you don't want to finish!. Obviously, the opposite is true!. It may help if you explain what's happening to your lady-friend, and she can maybe find some possible fixes!. You may want to experiment with different positions!. Maybe it would help if she tried oral or if she tried manually stimulating you (aka giving you a handjob)!. See if you have issues ejaculating if you masturbate in front of her!.
I'm sorry I can't really give you a positive answer!. Obviously, there's something going on upstairs that's effecting your downstairs, and I don't know what it is!. Good luck!Www@Answer-Health@Com
What you are describing is quite common, actually!. Men tend to psych themselves out, and therefore have issues finishing!. The problems isn't that you don't want to finish!. Obviously, the opposite is true!. It may help if you explain what's happening to your lady-friend, and she can maybe find some possible fixes!. You may want to experiment with different positions!. Maybe it would help if she tried oral or if she tried manually stimulating you (aka giving you a handjob)!. See if you have issues ejaculating if you masturbate in front of her!.
I'm sorry I can't really give you a positive answer!. Obviously, there's something going on upstairs that's effecting your downstairs, and I don't know what it is!. Good luck!Www@Answer-Health@Com
you need to relax and not think about it when you are making love and it should just happen!. the more you worry the less likely your chances will be of having an orgasm with a woman!. I dont think a pill can help you its in your mind!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
Yes, its mental and very common!. Happened with my husband, we just needed to talk about it and practice and after a while it worked out fine!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
!. Ya, if you can jack off by yourself, the problem is only in your head!.
But for only $10, you might try some Viarga!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
But for only $10, you might try some Viarga!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
You need to understand why your mind makes you wiltWww@Answer-Health@Com