I couldnt get erect, what should I do?!
Question: I couldnt get erect, what should I do!?
Well, last night I was with this girl that I have been wanting to hook up with for a long time!. At the beginning of intercourse I was fully erect but as I began to penetrate I gradually lost my erection!. It turns out that she is kinda loose and dry!. We ended up trying a trying a variety of positions before eventually settling with 4 hours of foreplay!. After the four hours, I gained my erection back and began to initiate intercourse once more!. However, I eventually encountered the same problem as I did before!. I was able to control my breathing and eventually *force* myself to climax but in a fashion that was anti-climatic in terms of pleasure!. What should I do!?!?!? I wanted to be honest with her but I was scared that the topic would put her off!.
Any suggestions would be appreciated!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
Any suggestions would be appreciated!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
Answers:
Sounds to me like you might have been a bit anxious as well!? If that's the case, it's best to treat the anxiety rather than reaching for the Viagra!.
Did you really want to have intercourse or was this just what you felt was 'expected' of you!? (by her, your mates, your sense of what 'proper' sex is about)
Your use of the term 'foreplay' kind of implies that that's not proper sex, and you had masses of sex last night!
Condoms weren't mentioned!.!.!. did you use one!? In which case sensitivity for your penis and lubrication is likely to be an issue!. If you didn't use one then maybe anxiety about pregnancy or STD's was lurking at the back of your mind and that could have caused you to lose it when it came to penetration!.
Maybe you have some more talking to do together!?Www@Answer-Health@Com
Did you really want to have intercourse or was this just what you felt was 'expected' of you!? (by her, your mates, your sense of what 'proper' sex is about)
Your use of the term 'foreplay' kind of implies that that's not proper sex, and you had masses of sex last night!
Condoms weren't mentioned!.!.!. did you use one!? In which case sensitivity for your penis and lubrication is likely to be an issue!. If you didn't use one then maybe anxiety about pregnancy or STD's was lurking at the back of your mind and that could have caused you to lose it when it came to penetration!.
Maybe you have some more talking to do together!?Www@Answer-Health@Com
Well telling her that she's loose and dry wouldn't do any good as there's nothing she can do about it aside from lubing up before intercourse!. My suggestion is to bite the bullet and take the responsibility for the erectile problem and talk to her about it!. Or if that doesn't float your boat take some viagra!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
If she was loose and dry, and you had trouble keeping things up, I'll bet you were both nervous!. Try again, but take more time to relax and for foreplay!. Get her nice and wet and turned on (if she has lubrication issues, use some KY or similar)!. Then give it another go!. I'll bet it goes better!Www@Answer-Health@Com
You are looser in the game as well as she is not available in the game that is why you faced the problem!. But don't worry it may be possible for first time so try again and again!. Another way that you will try to strong in mentally!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
Maybe watch a porno and get super horny and then listen to it while having intercourse!. Also use lube!. Good luck friend and score big!Www@Answer-Health@Com
Try some lubricant with that condom you were wearing!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
some sexual stimulate pills mabye!. (ie viagra)Www@Answer-Health@Com
viagra!Www@Answer-Health@Com
SLAP A 'LIL LUBE ON THAT COOCHIEWww@Answer-Health@Com
use lube and get her excitedWww@Answer-Health@Com