Whats going on with HIM?!
Question: Whats going on with HIM!?
one minute my bf and i are perfect!. we love each other alot, and the next he'll act really mean, violent, tells me to shut up, keeps hanging up on me!.!.!.and acts like he doesnt want to be with me!. he keeps messing with my head!.!. he told me that he just doenst feel good because he has "problems" but yet wont tell me whats wrong!.!.he keeps EVERYTHING inside and then blows up on me!. i feel so confused, one minute i feel so loved, and the next i feel rejected nd hated by him!.!. what can i do!?Www@Answer-Health@Com
Answers:
how long have you known your boyfriend!?
If he keeps his problems from you, then you could tell him that it's the reason why he has you in the first place - so that he will have someone to listen to him!.
For one, it takes awhile for a guy to speak up his mind, especially if he is not used to even sharing his thoughts with others, even with his girlfriend!.
Your queue, whenever he gets into that state, is to make him feel comfortable with you, that it's alright for him to share his thoughts with you!. Never ever go head to head with him when he is showing his rough side!. This is actually your chance to know him more than anyone else, and understand him deeper than anyone could!.
For example, when he hangs up on you and thinks that it is better for him to shut you out for awhile, just leave him at that state!. We men sometimes have the tendency to go back to our caves not because we want to shun our girlfriends, but because it's our way of wanting to spend time for ourselves!. And when we get our heads clear, then we come out of that cave again and continue on with our daily struggles!. And this is what the woman, like you, should be able to understand as well!. This is where your patience will come in handy, and this will enable you finally engage him in conversation and make him open up to you little by little!.
It takes awhile for you to do this, and achieve results, but understanding each other will put your relationship in a very solid foundation!.
Trust me, sometimes I have the tendency to just revert to my old selfish self again but because my girlfriend is so patient enough to give me time to adjust, we're counting four years already, and still going strong!. And yes, i love her more for it :)Www@Answer-Health@Com
If he keeps his problems from you, then you could tell him that it's the reason why he has you in the first place - so that he will have someone to listen to him!.
For one, it takes awhile for a guy to speak up his mind, especially if he is not used to even sharing his thoughts with others, even with his girlfriend!.
Your queue, whenever he gets into that state, is to make him feel comfortable with you, that it's alright for him to share his thoughts with you!. Never ever go head to head with him when he is showing his rough side!. This is actually your chance to know him more than anyone else, and understand him deeper than anyone could!.
For example, when he hangs up on you and thinks that it is better for him to shut you out for awhile, just leave him at that state!. We men sometimes have the tendency to go back to our caves not because we want to shun our girlfriends, but because it's our way of wanting to spend time for ourselves!. And when we get our heads clear, then we come out of that cave again and continue on with our daily struggles!. And this is what the woman, like you, should be able to understand as well!. This is where your patience will come in handy, and this will enable you finally engage him in conversation and make him open up to you little by little!.
It takes awhile for you to do this, and achieve results, but understanding each other will put your relationship in a very solid foundation!.
Trust me, sometimes I have the tendency to just revert to my old selfish self again but because my girlfriend is so patient enough to give me time to adjust, we're counting four years already, and still going strong!. And yes, i love her more for it :)Www@Answer-Health@Com
All I can say is that you deserve a lot better than this jerk!. You should tell him to take a hike!. No girl should be treated like he is treating you!. I would never treat anyone like what you explained unless there was something seriously wrong!. If there is something wrong, then he owes it to you to explain that to you or at the very least, not take it out on!. You need to tell him how you feel and if he is not open to talking to you about it or nothing changes, then you should just move on without him!. Best of luck to you SAD and I hope that you are happy soon!.
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girl!.!.!.i cant tell you how alike me n my EX-bf were to u n urs!. sometimes, he'd kiss me like the world was coming to an end, and the next minute he'd ask me why im not dead yet!. and the only thing i can tell u is!.!.!.!.!.!.!.he himself doesnt know what he wants!. i thought my bf was confused and scared to feel so much in love, thats why he was acting out!. but nah-uh!.!.!.he was just plain crazy and i realize it now!. walk away from him before he empties you emotionally and you have no self-respect left!.
im still trying to find my worth thanks to the jerk!Www@Answer-Health@Com
im still trying to find my worth thanks to the jerk!Www@Answer-Health@Com
sounds like you're looking for something that isn't there!. sorry for you that you're invested in a guy who has some real issues!. no matter what, you most likely will not be any help to him, advise him to get some real professional help, them after he starts to work on his issues you might be able to have a life with him!. otherwise, pack up and move on, don't allow yourself to be abusedWww@Answer-Health@Com
he might have problems or he is cheating on you!. the world is to small to have all these problems in life!. live life like theres no tomarrow!.have fun stop stressing off your bf!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
well u can try to understanding to wat he might be going threw at home!.!.!.!.sumtimes im the same way so try to give him sum space when he acts like that and try to get threw to him make him feel luved too!.!.!.!.hope i helpedWww@Answer-Health@Com
let him be!.!. he probably wants sex!.!. just maybe!.!.Www@Answer-Health@Com