Adults only please. Why am I unable to please my man?!
Question: Adults only please!. Why am I unable to please my man!?
My boyfriend and I are a new couple in are late twenties!. We have only had sex two times and both times he has not had an orgasm!. What am I doing wrong!? If it's not me, what is it!? The first time it happened I asked what did I do wrong, but he didn't want to discuss it saying it was just our first time!.
He pleasures himself a lot, but after the two times we had sex, he was only able to have an orgasm when he pleasured himself afterwards!.!.!.What is going on!?
I don't have any issues getting him stimulated, but why can't I bring him all the way!?Www@Answer-Health@Com
He pleasures himself a lot, but after the two times we had sex, he was only able to have an orgasm when he pleasured himself afterwards!.!.!.What is going on!?
I don't have any issues getting him stimulated, but why can't I bring him all the way!?Www@Answer-Health@Com
Answers:
Don't worry about it and don't listen to people saying he might be gay!. If he was gay, I highly doubt he would be with a woman!.
When my girlfriend and I started sexual activities (not sex, but same concept), it actually took several times before I ejaculated!. I am 150% sure I am not gay, but it just wasn't happening!. If I do it myself, I can start and finish all in under a few minutes!. She would try for 10-20 minutes with no luck, even with an erection the whole time (that wasn't the hard part, no pun intended)
So it must've just been a new thing - she was the first person I had done these activities with, so perhaps I just wasn't as comfortable (even though I would certainly enjoy it)!. Who knows!. All I know is we've been together for a long time now and she has no problem getting it out - I don't think her technique has changed all that much - I've just become comfortable enough to relax and enjoy it completely! Your boyfriend will in time too!. It may take a few tries, but after the first time it happens I think you two will find it happening all the way much more quickly and more often!. It's the first time that is the challenge!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
When my girlfriend and I started sexual activities (not sex, but same concept), it actually took several times before I ejaculated!. I am 150% sure I am not gay, but it just wasn't happening!. If I do it myself, I can start and finish all in under a few minutes!. She would try for 10-20 minutes with no luck, even with an erection the whole time (that wasn't the hard part, no pun intended)
So it must've just been a new thing - she was the first person I had done these activities with, so perhaps I just wasn't as comfortable (even though I would certainly enjoy it)!. Who knows!. All I know is we've been together for a long time now and she has no problem getting it out - I don't think her technique has changed all that much - I've just become comfortable enough to relax and enjoy it completely! Your boyfriend will in time too!. It may take a few tries, but after the first time it happens I think you two will find it happening all the way much more quickly and more often!. It's the first time that is the challenge!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
not being funny, but make sure he is not gay !.!.!. also he may not be attracted to you, if he has had sex before and he isnt a virgin, he should be getting hard and ejaculatin if he is seeing boobs and ***, also if you arent afraid of giving him head and other freaky stuff!. Also watch some porn with him, bet that will get it!! It works for me!.
Usually it is the woman that doesnt have an orgasm, but men always are ready to have sex unless they are sick or gay!.!.!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
Usually it is the woman that doesnt have an orgasm, but men always are ready to have sex unless they are sick or gay!.!.!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
it certaiinly doesn't sound like you're the problem, he has some issues that he needs to work through!. perhaps you can comfort him by pleasing him yourself instead of having him do it to himself!. could end up bringing the two of you closerWww@Answer-Health@Com
Because your a new to sex cou0ple you to might think your comfaortable together but your achually not, maybe instead of just trying the sex try dinner, movie, then romantic stuff to get the mood going, then lots of foreplay!Www@Answer-Health@Com
it's not u! it does take guys awhile sometimes!. since ur new he's probably just nervous!. it'll get better i promise!. as long as he's not gay or one of those ***** who is into themself more than anything else!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
maybe he is just nervous or something!. you've only done it 2 times!. give it some time and he'll probably "***" around!. hehe get it, *** around ;)Www@Answer-Health@Com
he probably masturbates too much have him stop a for a day or two then try again!. It takes longer to get him there if he's already gotten there on his own!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
Um!.!.!.
perhaps a little spicing up is in order!? try exotic languages to grunt in and maybe even an ej or two!. Make him hurt, and he will be afraid to not orgasm again! everybody wins!Www@Answer-Health@Com
perhaps a little spicing up is in order!? try exotic languages to grunt in and maybe even an ej or two!. Make him hurt, and he will be afraid to not orgasm again! everybody wins!Www@Answer-Health@Com
If he's wearing condoms, I'd say that's the reason!. If not, then he's more into himself than girls!.Www@Answer-Health@Com