Serious Help Needed!!!!!!!!?!


Question: Serious Help Needed!!!!!!!!!?
so boys are some how attracted to me and not like a few a lot they call me sexy hot and i find that disturbing
im really shy and cant say anything really
some asked me if i wanted to go to their house and ''do things with them''

i dont really hang out with girls because they kiked me out of the kool group bc their bf likes me

what am i suppose 2 do


i went to the school counseller and she said ur lucky
i mean what does that meanWww@Answer-Health@Com


Answers:
You dont seem to be bothered that the girls of the "KOOL GROUP" kicked you out because you "LET" these boys do it to you!. If someone asked you to go to their house and "do things with them" then your reply should have been: "CAN I BRING A PAIR OF SCISSORS!?"
Scare these little boys!. (PLEASE dont go and do it for real! lol) Im just saying break out of that shyness pretty girl! If something is disturbing you then you have to let them know because its not bothering them, its bothering you! Speak up for yourself; when they call you sexy, tell them that sexy is NOT your name, your name is "so-and-so"!.!.!. (whatever your name is)!. If they come at you and tell you that you are hot, tell them: "So is a pot of boiling water"!.

(I wish I could be your voice for a day)

I told my daughter to put those little boys in their place when they came at her disrespectful in the SAME way!. The boys must be kind of scared of her now because they have backed down but that doesnt matter to her because they respect her now!. (I was so proud of Daddy's little girl!) :)

(Would you like me to pretend im your cousin that just got out of jail!!?) LOL, j/k young one,

Just hang in there my friend!.!.!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

Hey I'm 13 too, and like you are lucky! Since they are attracted to you, just be their friends! Most of my friends are guys and they do the same thing!. But since you are shy it probably is uncomfortable for you!. And if some of the boys are really annoying you just like yell at them and say they are pigs and stuff!.

But I really think being their friend would help and then maybe you will like one of them and go out and have him deal with his friends that are also like you!Www@Answer-Health@Com

Your friends sound immature and jealous!.!.!.!.not your fault if your gorgeous, your born that way, but be smart and gorgeous, dont go and play around with boys who want to do things with you, they are just using you, only play around when you feel comfortable and when you want to!.
The school counsellor was passing you a compliment, you are beautiful and noticed by the opposite sex!.!.!.lucky you! be proud!Www@Answer-Health@Com

Hon, you are going to have more trouble than you need if you continue on this path!. Just because boys 'like' you does not mean they want to really date or marry you!. You will find that in time you will acquire a bad reputation if you make enemies out of the other girls!. It sounds like you need a good dose of self respect!. Btw - anyone that has to brag about how many guys like her is someone who's truly insecure!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

Holidays are here so hopefully, you'll get a break!?
I have no answers!.!.!.I'm sorry but I feel for you!.
P!.S!. Are you flirting and dressing very sexy!?!?!?
How about no makeup, out-of-fashion clothes, B!.O!., dirty hair and bare feet for a few days this summer!?!?!?
P!.S!.2: What kind of guys do you hang out with anyway that use words like this!?!?
Your counsellor meant that there are girls who would love the attention you get!.
Finally, soon you'll be in the working world where there'll work to be done!.!.!.and you may not even be noticed!?!?!?Www@Answer-Health@Com

you are lucky because boys like you :) if you do not want to ''do things with them'' don't do!. your councellor was right!. this problem will be solved over time!. you'll start liking "''do things with them''!. for now, you can't do much but talk to your close friends and parents!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

You need to ask this in singles and dating or women's health!. All these guys are doing is getting excited and taking care of their business thinking about you!. You obviously know you're cute and getting attention!. Not understanding this is seriously a problem!. You need to mature some!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

Ok this area is for questions about health not because boys like you!. This sounds like something for myspace or utube!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

Forget those guys, go out with me :)Www@Answer-Health@Com

I have NO idea!.!.!.!.!.!.but hey I had the same problem !.!.!.!.!. thats why im homeschooled!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

do not worry, things will be alright very soon!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

I think the answer you got from the school councillor is shameful !! It takes courage on your part to approach someone about this issue and you should have received much better support !.
Whatever you do make sure you just do not go off to one of these guys houses to have sex , once this has happened the news will spread and you will be pestered even more , and obviously be called names
Try and find friends where you can have similar interests , both male and female
At some stage you will meet a guy who like you for yourself and not just your good looks !. Once you find that guy hopefully you can share interests and build a good relationship before any sexual activityWww@Answer-Health@Com

They're being jerks!. I'm not sure what's "lucky" about people being rude to you!.

Boys can be attracted to you, and still be polite!. Find someone who's nice to you, who wants to do things like movies, nice meals, theater, sports, concerts, museums, or other things you both enjoy!. If you like each other and have warm feelings for each other, you'll want to give him a hug or a kiss!. If not, don't!. Wait until it's what you want!.

If there's a boy that you're interested in, maybe he's shy too!. Send him email, meet for coffee or something after school, and maybe do homework together!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

I can understand why what the school counselor told you can be upsetting!. While it must be nice to know you are attractive on one level, getting too much attention from guys and being the butt of cattiness by girls is never fun!. Unfortunately, it is unlikely that the guys are going to change anytime soon so it will be necessary for you to work on getting the self esteem nececssary to be able to tell them to back off!. Strangely, this will probably help your relationship with the other girls too since they are less likely to be intimidated by you if they know you have clearly told the guys to take a hike!. You do not need to put up with being propositioned!. There is nothing wrong with telling guys you are not interested in whatever extracurriculars they have in mind or that you don't appreciate their comments if they are becoming too much!. Do you have any guy friends that might be able to help you to tell the others to back off!?

You may want to talk to mom and dad about going to see a counselor outside of school to talk about some of these self esteem issues!. Your counselor at school is probably reacting in part to all of the young people that come to her office complaining of feeling ugly, fat, unpopular with the opposite sex, etc!. Perhaps those people would feel jealous of you because you are attractive!. That does not mean that your distress is not real or any less than theres!. I would find someone outside of school to talk to about these issues!.

Hang in there, life does get better after high school!.Www@Answer-Health@Com





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