How do i give my parents the hint to knock?!
Question: How do i give my parents the hint to knock!?
they always just barge into my room without knocking!.!.!.
they've both been close to catching me masturbating many times
i have no privacy whatsoever!.!.!.i have been about 3 weeks without watching porn because of this!.!.!.!.HELPWww@Answer-Health@Com
they've both been close to catching me masturbating many times
i have no privacy whatsoever!.!.!.i have been about 3 weeks without watching porn because of this!.!.!.!.HELPWww@Answer-Health@Com
Answers:
You can read the page linked below for a lot of ideas!.
You could just say that you're at an age where you need more privacy!.
It can help to remind them that a lock on your door protects not only you but your little brothers and sisters from barging in on something they don't want them to see!. You wouldn't even have to mention masturbating specifically!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
You could just say that you're at an age where you need more privacy!.
It can help to remind them that a lock on your door protects not only you but your little brothers and sisters from barging in on something they don't want them to see!. You wouldn't even have to mention masturbating specifically!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
I assume you must be a teen !?!? and yes you should have some privacy !.
I wouldn't recommend watching too much porn as it can give you a very negative view of sex , but most guys will watch it at some stage
You could always wait till you went to bed to masturbate , but from what you describe you will need to keep some tissues handy to minimse risk of stains !!You could also masturbate in the shower and I assume you are left alone in there !!!!
But above all your parents should realise that you do need a bit of space and privacy so speak to them and explain !. They will both realise that you are going through puberty and you will be masturbating , because all guys , including your father do it !!!
So long as you are not really blatent , then just shut the door of your room and if they do walk in on you masturbating they will be more embarrassed than you , as I said it is a natural urge and all guys do itWww@Answer-Health@Com
I wouldn't recommend watching too much porn as it can give you a very negative view of sex , but most guys will watch it at some stage
You could always wait till you went to bed to masturbate , but from what you describe you will need to keep some tissues handy to minimse risk of stains !!You could also masturbate in the shower and I assume you are left alone in there !!!!
But above all your parents should realise that you do need a bit of space and privacy so speak to them and explain !. They will both realise that you are going through puberty and you will be masturbating , because all guys , including your father do it !!!
So long as you are not really blatent , then just shut the door of your room and if they do walk in on you masturbating they will be more embarrassed than you , as I said it is a natural urge and all guys do itWww@Answer-Health@Com
More the merrier, invite them in!. (kidding)
Ok, Speak up and share your feelings about this issue, goals, needs!. You could say something like this, "I'd like to talk to you about not knocking before entering, Is this a good time!?!."
(wait for their reply)
"You two are stressing me out and I need your help!." or "I'm feeling stressed and I need your help!."
Treat them with respect and dignity!. Provide gentle reminders~for example, "I'd really like to tell you more about what's going on with me, but it is a private issue, which I would determine you know where I am coming from!."
And that your willing to negotiate!.
If you lose your temper, reschedule your conversation when both of you have cooled down!.
Start with a positive comment such as "I really appreciate you two!." (A nice hug wouldn't hurt, either!. Loving touch can enhance closeness, so communication barriers drop away!.)
If all else fails put a lock on the door and a sign that reads "Keep Out" until further notice!. or "Please Knock Before Entering!." Thanks a bunch!!Www@Answer-Health@Com
Ok, Speak up and share your feelings about this issue, goals, needs!. You could say something like this, "I'd like to talk to you about not knocking before entering, Is this a good time!?!."
(wait for their reply)
"You two are stressing me out and I need your help!." or "I'm feeling stressed and I need your help!."
Treat them with respect and dignity!. Provide gentle reminders~for example, "I'd really like to tell you more about what's going on with me, but it is a private issue, which I would determine you know where I am coming from!."
And that your willing to negotiate!.
If you lose your temper, reschedule your conversation when both of you have cooled down!.
Start with a positive comment such as "I really appreciate you two!." (A nice hug wouldn't hurt, either!. Loving touch can enhance closeness, so communication barriers drop away!.)
If all else fails put a lock on the door and a sign that reads "Keep Out" until further notice!. or "Please Knock Before Entering!." Thanks a bunch!!Www@Answer-Health@Com
Tell them that they have almost walked in on you changing and you would really appreciate it if they would have the respect to knock before they enter!. My parents used to do this too, and I would turn it around on them and ask them how they would like it if I just walked in on them!. As for you watching porn!.!.!.well I guess you could just wait until late at night when you are sure that they are asleep, or if they just are not home, and you are alone!. If they still don't listen you could put something large and heavy in front of your door just to make sure if they do barge in they don't catch anything you don't want them to see!. Hope that helps!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
here's a tip: in the hallway of your room you should leave something on the floor like coins or something!. Something noisy when they pick it up so you can tell someone is headed your way giving you time to change webpages and well 'put it away'
Its not foolproof if ppl in your house walk around often and it may even make you parents come into your room to see if its your money!.
But parents should know that its normal and as good parents they would understand
Good luckWww@Answer-Health@Com
Its not foolproof if ppl in your house walk around often and it may even make you parents come into your room to see if its your money!.
But parents should know that its normal and as good parents they would understand
Good luckWww@Answer-Health@Com
Hmmm!. Well, when I was teen, I did get caught by my dad and that pretty much put an end to the just-walking-in thing!.
If you're close enough to them, you may want to just say, maybe to your father especially, "Ummm, ya know, sometimes I need some private time and maybe you could know before coming in, if you know what I mean!." He will understand, he'll tell your mom, and hopefully it works out!.
Otherwise, you're limited to quickies in the bathroom!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
If you're close enough to them, you may want to just say, maybe to your father especially, "Ummm, ya know, sometimes I need some private time and maybe you could know before coming in, if you know what I mean!." He will understand, he'll tell your mom, and hopefully it works out!.
Otherwise, you're limited to quickies in the bathroom!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
If you have no lock on your door, then get one!.
You should not have to hint to your parents with regard to your privacy!. You should tell them!. Just explain that you think it's time they knocked when they came into your room and tell them you are going to but a bolt on your door!.
They should understand!. They were young once!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
You should not have to hint to your parents with regard to your privacy!. You should tell them!. Just explain that you think it's time they knocked when they came into your room and tell them you are going to but a bolt on your door!.
They should understand!. They were young once!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
Well it really depends on how old you are!.!. But if you are at the age of having your privacy i think you should tell you parents that u need a lock on your door!.!. Tell them that your a young men now that needs his space!. I think after you tellin them that you would get that lock!. trust me sweet talkin your parents never goes wrong!.!.!. Good luck!!Www@Answer-Health@Com
You could try putting a "Please Knock" sign on your door and see if they get the idea!.
Or you can just tell them that you're concerned that you might be getting undressed and would be embarrassed if they just walked in!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
Or you can just tell them that you're concerned that you might be getting undressed and would be embarrassed if they just walked in!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
What I did was call the cops and say they made me do it and watched!. Now I have new foster parents and a lock on my new bedroom door!. Hope it works for you too!. Good luck!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
Just tell them!. Say, "I don't like how you constantly barge into my room and disrespect my right to privacy!. I would appreciate it if you would knock if my door is closed!."Www@Answer-Health@Com
all you gotta do is tell them you need your privacy and that you want a lock for your door I'm sure that they will understandWww@Answer-Health@Com
if you have a lock on your dorr lock it or just tell them to knock because you need more space!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
ask them to respect your space and knock its just the polite thing to doWww@Answer-Health@Com
go into the bathroom and masturbate and then don't forget to lock the door!Www@Answer-Health@Com
Let them catch you once!. They'll get the hint!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
just jerk it in the living room!. worked for me!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
put a sign on your door!. do not enter, masturbating ! lolWww@Answer-Health@Com
let them catch u so wen they c u have the door lock they kno what ur doing!.!.!.
and juzt tell them your going to sleep or something or that ur changeing clothesWww@Answer-Health@Com
and juzt tell them your going to sleep or something or that ur changeing clothesWww@Answer-Health@Com
masturbate in the rest room they'll never catch you thereWww@Answer-Health@Com
dont masturbate and dont watch porn!.!.!. give urself pleasure in other ways!.Www@Answer-Health@Com