A question about my boyfriend...?!
Question: A question about my boyfriend!.!.!.!?
When we have sex!.!.!.!.it really doesn't last that long i'm thinking liek 5 minutes for the longest!.!.!.!.!.!.we have been together almost a year!.!.!.!.!.and its not liek this is like that was his first time havng sex!.!.!.!.!.!.so I guess what can I do to help this fact, because I would like to get some pleasure out of it too!!Www@Answer-Health@Com
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First, since you are concerned, you need to be honest with him!. Ask him how work is, how his friends are doing and if there is anything on his mind!. See what his reactions are!.
Second, think about the way he is with you!. Does he seem interested, or concerned, about you being pleased!? Is he a selfish lover!? *Whispers* a lot of men are!.
If you BOTH are honest, then both of these (the busy mind and the selfish lover) can be worked on and fixed enough that you are satisfied, even if it is not possible with intercourse!. You should talk honestly, FIRST!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
Second, think about the way he is with you!. Does he seem interested, or concerned, about you being pleased!? Is he a selfish lover!? *Whispers* a lot of men are!.
If you BOTH are honest, then both of these (the busy mind and the selfish lover) can be worked on and fixed enough that you are satisfied, even if it is not possible with intercourse!. You should talk honestly, FIRST!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
It's called premature ejaculation, I'm afraid that's almost nothing to do about it!. The causes: hypersensitivity of the penis, emotional problems!. You should talk with him, maybe he's too nervous during the intercourse because he thinks that you're not satisfied, make him feel more comfortable!. Also, using a condom would lessen the penile sensitivity!. Good luck!Www@Answer-Health@Com
I wouldnt say he was premature as much as he might just be young!. if hes still in puberty (up to age 21 even) hes not fully developed so chances are hes not going to last long, you can always have him perform foreplay on you!. But just hang in there, some guys have longevity some dont, and its not always the easiest thing to fix!. most guys in there teens dont last very long!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
Basically you should just give him a hand job before sex, that way he will already have released some of the endorphins that activate the ejaculation!. Then he should be able to last long than 5 minutes, (even though the average is only about 7)Www@Answer-Health@Com
You take charge!.
When he's about to, you know, stop!.
Wait till he can control himself and start up again!.
If your guy likes being teased, it will turn him on!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
When he's about to, you know, stop!.
Wait till he can control himself and start up again!.
If your guy likes being teased, it will turn him on!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
ever seen american pie!? well ask him to "eat you out" for your please instead of sex plus its less risk of STD and pregnancy!. good for the both of you (:Www@Answer-Health@Com
It might be he has waited too long and is exciteable!. Have him go solo a few hours before your next encounter!. That may do the trick!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
make him masturbate a lot!.
then when you do have sex wait until he is about to and then stop completely, it will help him to build staminaWww@Answer-Health@Com
then when you do have sex wait until he is about to and then stop completely, it will help him to build staminaWww@Answer-Health@Com
He needs to speak to his doctor!. He's near premature!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
maybe try something new to make it more varied!.!. maybe some new sexy lingerie or even fetish clothingWww@Answer-Health@Com
Fore play, and lots of it!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
sleep with me for ever lasting pleasureWww@Answer-Health@Com