Why do I feel so guilty and ashamed after i masturbate?!


Question: Why do I feel so guilty and ashamed after i masturbate!?
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first off, try not to focus on the guilt, try to focus on just enjoy pleasuring yourself!. feeling guilty will only get you frustred, hope this helps!. plez vote for best answer!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

Because society has drummed into you the message that sexual pleasure is bad, and only excusable if you're making babies!. It's an ascetic, life-negative ethic from the warrior cults at the base of most of western society, and it's very difficult to overcome!. Most of us internalize this message to some degree or another, because it's so pervasive!.

As you grow older you can decide to discard belief systems that you feel have no basis or do you more harm than good!. Tell yourself that your body - all of it - is good and noble and loveable!. Repeat it to yourself until you believe it!. Get undressed and look at yourself in your mirror!. Look closely at all your parts, including your genitals!. Admire the way they are so well designed to perform their functions!. Reject the internal messages that say you should be ashamed of this marvelous machine you live in!. If you're religious, remind yourself that God designed your body, and He does not make mistakes!. Next give yourself permission to experience pleasure!. You're not a monk determined to destroy all awareness of physical existence, you're a material man in a material universe!. You're designed to feel pleasure from sexual stimulation!. There is nothing wrong with enjoying the healthy function of your body!. Getting pleasure from masturbation is no less worthy than getting pleasure from eating!.

It will take some work to reprogram all these negative messages out of yourself, but it can be done!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

im not a guy or anything but i have been studying men and woman health for a couple years!. those feelings are normal!. some people think to therselves "im not ever masterbating again!." they feel guilty right after they do it but sure enough they do it again!. most people feel drowsy and sleepy also after they masterbate!. it is a natural emotionWww@Answer-Health@Com

Masturbating is fine bro!.

you shouldnt feel guilty afterwords!.

As you get older you will feel frustrated that its not actual intercourse!.

but you shouldnt feel guilty by any means about doing it, its actually healthy 2 do it, unless your over doing it!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

because you're probably like!. ten years old!. you'll get over it!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

don't worry about it, those feelings will go away eventually!.Www@Answer-Health@Com





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