Im 12 and i dont want to masturbate please help?!
Question: Im 12 and i dont want to masturbate please help!?
at school all my mates are allways saying to me mastuabte but when i do it i feel horible after it!. i feel like i will never ever do it again but after maybe 2 hours im ok with it please i want to stop doing it what can i doWww@Answer-Health@Com
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You shouldnt feel horrible about it!. Masturbation is an extremely common action!. Many studies show varied results from 65% to 95% masturbate!. Sue Johanson, sex educator and counselor, in 2000 said that "99 percent of men of all ages masturbate regularly and the other one percent are liars!." Which is true, its nature!. even a majority of girls do it!. It can be a fun and relaxing thing for you, and can in some situations help you learn to control yourself for sexual contact later in life!. If it is your religion that makes you not want to do it, keep in mind that the Bible story of Onan referes to disobeying god more than it did masturbation!. If it did refer to masturbation, remember that the bible also says a lot of silly things like not to eat pork, this was because pork often made people sick until some technique was developed that got rid of this risk!. My theory about masturbation and the bible is that they really didnt understand that we produce sperm on a continual basis throughout our lives, people in that time probably though you had what you had, and if you waste it now you wont be able to reproduce, and if you cant reproduce in sex it is "unholy" and "against god"
personally i dont buy for their crap!. but if you really wanna defy your instincts, (notice you said you dont wanna do it but you still do), then i suggest working on some self control habits!.
Even animals do it!.!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
personally i dont buy for their crap!. but if you really wanna defy your instincts, (notice you said you dont wanna do it but you still do), then i suggest working on some self control habits!.
Even animals do it!.!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
It's human nature and will be very hard to stop!. It is part of being a human being, but some times religion teaches that it is bad!. Before you come down to hard on yourself, remember that most boys of your age are doing it!. Not because they want to be bad, but it is part of discovering who they are and what they like!. It is a private thing that no one needs to know about!. The reason you feel horrible after doing it is because somewhere down the line you learned it was not good to do, a sin, not to touch yourself or you will pay, etc!.
You are not alone!. Many people are struggling with this and it is a personal choice you must make!. There is no wrong answer!. Good luck!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
You are not alone!. Many people are struggling with this and it is a personal choice you must make!. There is no wrong answer!. Good luck!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
masturbating is natural!. I first did it when I was 5 believe it or not!. It makes you very tired after masturbating so of course, you feel like you do not want to do it anymore!. Masturbating also relaxes your body and makes you feel comfortable!. You'll feel relieved after masturbating if you are in major stress!. Once again, masturbating is natural!. Its okay!.
Dont worry too much!. Masturbating makes you feel manly too!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
Dont worry too much!. Masturbating makes you feel manly too!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
I'm very sorry that some adult has made your hate your own body and your penis!. It's very sad when adults -- usually for twisted illogical reasons, do that to boys!.
All I can say is that I was doing it about your age, that I loved it then and I still do!. I would never stop!. I'm sorry that you feel you have to!.
If you can love yourself and dump the guilt that adults have put on you, you may live a happier life -- but only you can make that decision!.
Kindest thoughts,
HermesWww@Answer-Health@Com
All I can say is that I was doing it about your age, that I loved it then and I still do!. I would never stop!. I'm sorry that you feel you have to!.
If you can love yourself and dump the guilt that adults have put on you, you may live a happier life -- but only you can make that decision!.
Kindest thoughts,
HermesWww@Answer-Health@Com
hey im 14 and when i frist did it i thought that i was doing somthing wrong that i should not be doing it but after i did it a few times i eventaly learned thats it completly naturule it you dont like how it feels just stop for a year what ever is comftapel with you email me ay linksawsome@yahoo!.com or im i want to talkWww@Answer-Health@Com
Masturbation is a normal and healthy expression of sexual urge!. Well meaning people have perhaps given you conflicting information!. You don't have to want to stop, altogether!. You can learn to be the master of your own universe as you get older!. Good luck!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
dude, theres nothing morally bad about it, its a natural thing that every living creature does one way or another!. if you dont do it, you wont be able to explore your body or sexuality, which sucks!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
If you don't like masturbating, don't let yourself be pressured into doing it by your friends!. You're only 12, and there will be plenty of time for masturbation once you've grown up a little more!. Good luck!Www@Answer-Health@Com
dude why stop, its fun!. really use your will power tell your buddy who's boss and stop touching yourselfWww@Answer-Health@Com
Well then, you who thinks that you can fool the rest of us, DON'T YOU DARE TOUCH IT!!! Then tell us how it was, next week, ok!?Www@Answer-Health@Com
I know how you feel Im 14 too but like that one guy said after a while you come to find its normal>
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email me at isa_snchz@yahoo!.com
if you wanna talk K!?
or have any more questionsWww@Answer-Health@Com
um, just don't do it, and lie to your friends about it!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
then stop it
it's that simpleWww@Answer-Health@Com
it's that simpleWww@Answer-Health@Com
i know the feeling dudeWww@Answer-Health@Com
you'll just have to wait till u can have sexWww@Answer-Health@Com