Advice on dateing a handicapped man?!
Question: Advice on dateing a handicapped man!?
I'm in need of advice on dating a handicapped man,I'm not handicapped,but the fact he is does not bother me in
Question Details: the least,but as far as intimacy !.that subject we have not discussed he is able to move his arms and legs,but just not stand up yet,we kiss and such but he says,that its takes a real good woman to want to be involved with him,because he is disabled,im not making a deal of this why should he,i really really like him,but i want to learn all i can,as far as how 2 wonderful ,caring loving people as us,address the issues of sex,Www@Answer-Health@Com
Question Details: the least,but as far as intimacy !.that subject we have not discussed he is able to move his arms and legs,but just not stand up yet,we kiss and such but he says,that its takes a real good woman to want to be involved with him,because he is disabled,im not making a deal of this why should he,i really really like him,but i want to learn all i can,as far as how 2 wonderful ,caring loving people as us,address the issues of sex,Www@Answer-Health@Com
Answers:
while he may not really be making a big deal out of it, he is aware of his condition and being careful to ensure you realize things will be a bit different with him!. He doesn't want you walking into it all blindly and then getting scared of or frustrated later by expecting him to be as able as other guys!.
The only way you will work through this is to openly discuss topics with him as they arise!. Allow the relationship to deepen first though to th epoint where intimacy and sex are nearing and then ask questions and talk!.
One thing I learned about handicapped (from a handicapped person) is they do not want help unless they ask for it!. And they will ask if they need ti!. So treat him like any other guy as far as possible even by letting him open doors for you!.
I think with yoru attitude you will truly make a good relationship!. So, don;t try to analyze it all, just relax and enjoy it!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
The only way you will work through this is to openly discuss topics with him as they arise!. Allow the relationship to deepen first though to th epoint where intimacy and sex are nearing and then ask questions and talk!.
One thing I learned about handicapped (from a handicapped person) is they do not want help unless they ask for it!. And they will ask if they need ti!. So treat him like any other guy as far as possible even by letting him open doors for you!.
I think with yoru attitude you will truly make a good relationship!. So, don;t try to analyze it all, just relax and enjoy it!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
well he cant help himself from thinking or bothering about the fact that he is disabled!.!.he just dont want to get hurt and get fooled you know!.!.just prove to him that you really love him and care for him!.!.i just hope its not just the sex ur after for him!.!.but if you really like him then take it slow!.!.all is going to pour down in the right time!.!.let fate and nature take its own course!.!.good luck!Www@Answer-Health@Com
I'm sure those details will work out as you get to know him, and become best friends, the best relationships start out as friendships they also last forever!.
perhaps you are thinking about this tto much, slow down!.
let that not be the focus or concern!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
perhaps you are thinking about this tto much, slow down!.
let that not be the focus or concern!.Www@Answer-Health@Com