Should i date this person? (same question)?!
Question: Should i date this person!? (same question)!?
my ex wants to get back with me!. she went with my cousin after me and her broke up and i heard that she gets around!. she also has already had sex but im still a virgin!. should i go back with her!. (btw we are 15)Www@Answer-Health@Com
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Here's a piece of advice from a guy who is a lot older and has been there in this situation:
"Exes need to be exes!."
There is a reason (probably a lot of reasons if you sit down and think about it) that you guys broke up in the first place!. Those reasons simply CAN'T have gone away in a few weeks or months!. It takes years for someone to REALLY change!. Plus, you guys are 15!. The people you are now will only vaguely resemble the people you will be in 3 years!.
Once someone pulls the plug on a relationship, it is time to look at yourself!. Think about what you did right and what you did wrong in the relationship and try to learn from those mistakes!. Try not to make those same mistakes in the next relationship!. Some mistakes, you will find, you make over and over!. That's when you have a real sit-down with yourself and figure out what your problem is that makes you do the same crap over and over!. Then you move on!.
There will ALWAYS be another neater, cuter, hotter, better looking, better built, cooler chick coming down the road soon!. There are over 3 BILLION women in the world!. All you have to do is find one who doesn't spend all of your money, doesn't treat you like crap, doesn't run around on you with other guys, and is honest with you!. As soon as you get one who pulls any of those moves, hit the door!. She doesn't respect you and will continue to do it until you are too broke or too broken to be able to do anything about it!.
And make damn sure that you don't have any kids until you have your own life and career in order!. Nobody needs another "baby-daddy"!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
"Exes need to be exes!."
There is a reason (probably a lot of reasons if you sit down and think about it) that you guys broke up in the first place!. Those reasons simply CAN'T have gone away in a few weeks or months!. It takes years for someone to REALLY change!. Plus, you guys are 15!. The people you are now will only vaguely resemble the people you will be in 3 years!.
Once someone pulls the plug on a relationship, it is time to look at yourself!. Think about what you did right and what you did wrong in the relationship and try to learn from those mistakes!. Try not to make those same mistakes in the next relationship!. Some mistakes, you will find, you make over and over!. That's when you have a real sit-down with yourself and figure out what your problem is that makes you do the same crap over and over!. Then you move on!.
There will ALWAYS be another neater, cuter, hotter, better looking, better built, cooler chick coming down the road soon!. There are over 3 BILLION women in the world!. All you have to do is find one who doesn't spend all of your money, doesn't treat you like crap, doesn't run around on you with other guys, and is honest with you!. As soon as you get one who pulls any of those moves, hit the door!. She doesn't respect you and will continue to do it until you are too broke or too broken to be able to do anything about it!.
And make damn sure that you don't have any kids until you have your own life and career in order!. Nobody needs another "baby-daddy"!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
No!. anyone who "gets around" at 15 should be avoided!.
If you plan on having sex with someone, make sure you use a condom and it is with someone you can truly trust (even though it is really hard to find someone like that when you're at your age)!. Find a nice girl who doesn't get around and that you really like!. Exgirlfriends are exgirlfriends for a reason!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
If you plan on having sex with someone, make sure you use a condom and it is with someone you can truly trust (even though it is really hard to find someone like that when you're at your age)!. Find a nice girl who doesn't get around and that you really like!. Exgirlfriends are exgirlfriends for a reason!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
No way!. you obviously are a good person but she did you wrong and you definately do NOT deserve that!.you can find a better woman who is just like her but more trustworthy!.theres a lot of wemen in this world and shes obviously not the only girl you like!. so just live your life and forget about her shes not the right girl for you!Www@Answer-Health@Com
no, since she "gets around" shes probably a whore, unless you're planning on banging her and dont mind her possibly hitting on other guys!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
Probably for now you should move on, no one knows if sometime in the future you might get back together but no need to push it!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
No!. Avoid that teenage drama!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
I wouldn't go back with her!. For one she could hurt you again and two she may have gotten something in that bit of time you two were apart!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
umm no shes a slut!. Who knows she could probaly have aids or something!. So bad idea!. YEAHHH 2 POINTSWww@Answer-Health@Com
NO! shes a slut!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
no!.!.!. bad ideaWww@Answer-Health@Com