What Should I Say To Him???!
Question: What Should I Say To Him!?!?!?
so the other month i went to the doctors about my left boob!.!. because i found a lump!.!. and it turned out that i needed to also go to the hospital every month because i might have cancer!.!.!. so when i didnt know what it was and just before i went to the doctors i told my best guy mate about it!.!.!.
so now he knows that i have to go to the hospital every month!.!.
but i cant tell him why i go!.!. i dont want to put that weight on his mind!.!. and nearly every week he asks me about it!.!. and i cant stand that i cant tell him!.!.
what can i say to him!?!?
its not that i dont trust him!.!. its the fact that i dont want him worrying about me!.!.!.
ive re-posted this in this category because i wanted more opinions off guys!.!. what would you do if you were in his position and your best girl mate told you this!?Www@Answer-Health@Com
so now he knows that i have to go to the hospital every month!.!.
but i cant tell him why i go!.!. i dont want to put that weight on his mind!.!. and nearly every week he asks me about it!.!. and i cant stand that i cant tell him!.!.
what can i say to him!?!?
its not that i dont trust him!.!. its the fact that i dont want him worrying about me!.!.!.
ive re-posted this in this category because i wanted more opinions off guys!.!. what would you do if you were in his position and your best girl mate told you this!?Www@Answer-Health@Com
Answers:
I'm sorry for the predicament you're in but I'm glad that you are receiving the treatment you need!.
As for your friend, he is already worried and you are the one causing it!. Don't treat him like a child and pretend you're protecting him!. If you didn't want him to know, you never should have told him anything to begin with!. You should know by now that not knowing is sometimes a lot worse than knowing!. Your situation is a positive one because you are receiving proper treatment!. So tell him the truth!.
He is obviously very supportive of you and cares about you!. Keep up with this current lie and all of that could change!. Lying to me is one of the quickest ways to lose my friendship!. He's going to find out eventually, but the longer you wait to tell him, the worse his reaction will be; that you don't really trust him and that you are willing to be dishonest about it!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
As for your friend, he is already worried and you are the one causing it!. Don't treat him like a child and pretend you're protecting him!. If you didn't want him to know, you never should have told him anything to begin with!. You should know by now that not knowing is sometimes a lot worse than knowing!. Your situation is a positive one because you are receiving proper treatment!. So tell him the truth!.
He is obviously very supportive of you and cares about you!. Keep up with this current lie and all of that could change!. Lying to me is one of the quickest ways to lose my friendship!. He's going to find out eventually, but the longer you wait to tell him, the worse his reaction will be; that you don't really trust him and that you are willing to be dishonest about it!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
If I was that friend I would insist to tell me,so I could be more supportive!.And go with you to the hospital and talk things through with you!.He is already worried,don
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