I want to be myself but something is bothering me!?!
Question: I want to be myself but something is bothering me!!?
Basically about two years ago my best mate told my guy mates that i was gay!. So they all hated me and I left the group, after that I was introduced to a really nice girl and ended being around females for two years and the odd male!. Fast foward to know the summer holiday and I'm nearly sixteen I have no male mates!. I am considering that I could be gay and its not going to help me getting any guy mates!. But in order for me to start again I have to act really macho and manly, if I act my normal self no guys want to know me because I act gay!.
So basically I have to fake being myself in order to get some male mates in the sixth form!. So if anyone has any advice that would be great, cheers!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
So basically I have to fake being myself in order to get some male mates in the sixth form!. So if anyone has any advice that would be great, cheers!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
Answers:
you probably act "gay" because you have been around female friends for a considerable amount of time!. in six form if you hang around with the guys then you will prob get some of your masculinity back!. if you want some guy friends then be yourself but maybe try and tone it down a little!. once they get to know you they may very well like you for who you are!. with guy influence that very well may be who you are!. your feminine side is probably a habit because the last two years will have been the most impressionable on you!. if you dont know if you are gay or not dont worry, you have plenty of time and you will know when you fist fall in love with someone!. if your mates abandoned you then they were not that great mates at all!. it a tough age to have this and i think you are being very mature about it!. if people ask why you just hang around with girls say 1 guy however many girls you do the maths!. even if you are gay the guys might like you!. the alternative i guess is to try and find a gay guy to hang around with and of course if you are happy now with your girly friends then what does it matter!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
Maybe your problem lies in accepting your own self as gay!. You have to be realistic: most straight guys are not going to want a gay friend!. They're going to fear that a gay guy will come on to them!. So maybe what you need to do is to try to make friends with guys who are gay!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
Well I see nothing wrong about being gay (my opinion) but you should do whatever makes you most comfortable!.
If you stay with your female friends and don't even try to approach any males your "freiends" might relize that your not gay or be down rigth jelous if they only hang out with guys :)Www@Answer-Health@Com
If you stay with your female friends and don't even try to approach any males your "freiends" might relize that your not gay or be down rigth jelous if they only hang out with guys :)Www@Answer-Health@Com