I have no male friends! Help!?!
Question: I have no male friends! Help!!?
Basically I had loads of male friends till about 2 years ago when one of my best guy mates told of my friends I was gay then everyone hated me!. So basically everyone broke up with me!. So one day i met this girl and we became friends and then I got into hangin around with girls for another two years, I also have quite low self esteem when I speak to guys because I feel they all think I'm gay, the problem is I am but I never come across or told my best friend two years ago!. Now its the present time and I have just finished my GCSE's and I don't have one male friend, my mum and dad know I only hang around with girls and I don't think they like it!.
Also About a year ago I started hanging around with a guy in my class and we were good mates for about 6 months but then I confided in him about being gay and he was fine but on the way home once me and another mate were chcucking apples about and we were near his house and he thought I hit his house so he told everyone I was gay and stuff!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
Also About a year ago I started hanging around with a guy in my class and we were good mates for about 6 months but then I confided in him about being gay and he was fine but on the way home once me and another mate were chcucking apples about and we were near his house and he thought I hit his house so he told everyone I was gay and stuff!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
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i'm so sorry, that really sucks what those guys did to you!. one thing you know for sure though is that they were not really friends because a real friend will stand by you even in tough times!.
find some gay friends because you'll have a mutual understanding with them!. however, don't limit yourself to only gay male friends, although there are some close minded homo-phobes out there, there are still open minded straight guys that would be happy to be your friend!.
join some activity clubs at school, park district, community center, etc!. no clubs that interest you!?!.!.!. then why not start your own and post it on meetup!.com it could be as simple as a boardgame or card game group that meets weekly/monthly!.
i wish you the best dude, believe me you'll meet some male friends it is just a matter of getting out there and expanding your social circle!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
find some gay friends because you'll have a mutual understanding with them!. however, don't limit yourself to only gay male friends, although there are some close minded homo-phobes out there, there are still open minded straight guys that would be happy to be your friend!.
join some activity clubs at school, park district, community center, etc!. no clubs that interest you!?!.!.!. then why not start your own and post it on meetup!.com it could be as simple as a boardgame or card game group that meets weekly/monthly!.
i wish you the best dude, believe me you'll meet some male friends it is just a matter of getting out there and expanding your social circle!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
Just be yourself and you'll make friends!. Sometimes (whether your gay or not) guys make friends with girls easier than other guys!. I know that I have a lot of friends that are girls and I'm not gay and I am just being myself!. Being myself has also helped me make friends with guys too so don't stress about it too much!. It will come!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
girls make good friends, even better than guys!. You should make friends with other guys who are gay too!.
Straight guys will always have a problem with the possibility that you might be attracted to them!.
They are just cruel sometimes!.!.!. Women will try to protect you!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
Straight guys will always have a problem with the possibility that you might be attracted to them!.
They are just cruel sometimes!.!.!. Women will try to protect you!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
u know if your "friends" spread rumors bout u then they arent ur real freinds so just move on and find other friends (if the rumor isnt true) and whats wrong with hanging out with girls!.!.!.!.!.!. the plus side is more girls for u!!!Www@Answer-Health@Com
you can email meWww@Answer-Health@Com
Dont tell people your gay if you are or else the only people who are gonna be your friends are gonna be gay peopleWww@Answer-Health@Com
wow seriously idk how to make friends usually we just start talkin but for you i have no idea find a croud who doesn't care!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
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people dont care if your relly thier friendWww@Answer-Health@Com
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people dont care if your relly thier friendWww@Answer-Health@Com
DONT try to be friends with straight men, you lost them foreverWww@Answer-Health@Com
God bless youWww@Answer-Health@Com
Oh !.!. im sorry to hear about this!.!.!.
I suggest u keep this thing to urself, and dont tell anyone about this, so that guys will not feel comfortable around u!.!.!.!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
I suggest u keep this thing to urself, and dont tell anyone about this, so that guys will not feel comfortable around u!.!.!.!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
mabe you should try making male friends elsewhere!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
so wait are you gay or not!?Www@Answer-Health@Com
from a hetero perspective!.
if you wnat male friends , specially in the u!.s!.
1!.make sure you dont speak , or act gay!.
make sure to speak and act as a male regardless of your sexual orientation!.
i know, its against your rights!.!.but it will make your life incredibly easier and will save you a lot of trouble!.
2!. if some one asks!. go ahead tell them!. im gay!.!.and be "macho " about it!.!.feel proud!.
and from then on, avoid the other hetero males feeling you are hitting on them!. be like the rest!.
3!. make friends wiht other gay people who face the same torubles that you do , make firends wiht girls, lesbians and no lesbians!.
be friendly!. they will come!.!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
if you wnat male friends , specially in the u!.s!.
1!.make sure you dont speak , or act gay!.
make sure to speak and act as a male regardless of your sexual orientation!.
i know, its against your rights!.!.but it will make your life incredibly easier and will save you a lot of trouble!.
2!. if some one asks!. go ahead tell them!. im gay!.!.and be "macho " about it!.!.feel proud!.
and from then on, avoid the other hetero males feeling you are hitting on them!. be like the rest!.
3!. make friends wiht other gay people who face the same torubles that you do , make firends wiht girls, lesbians and no lesbians!.
be friendly!. they will come!.!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
You can't just force guys to be friends with you, it happens naturally!.
I'm bi at my school and I have more female friends than male friends but I still have male friends because they saw that the person I am is still the same even tho of my sexuality!.
If guys are going to hate you for being gay, you shouldn't hang out with them in the first place!. They'll cause nothing but trouble!.
And being gay isn't bad!. Tell your parents!. If you're too scared, you don't have to tell them but it's always better if they know!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
I'm bi at my school and I have more female friends than male friends but I still have male friends because they saw that the person I am is still the same even tho of my sexuality!.
If guys are going to hate you for being gay, you shouldn't hang out with them in the first place!. They'll cause nothing but trouble!.
And being gay isn't bad!. Tell your parents!. If you're too scared, you don't have to tell them but it's always better if they know!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
im so sorry to hear that!. I cant believe those guys did that to you, freaked out!. That just shows their not man enough!. but thats people for ya!.
Maybe go to a gay bar!.!. idk
I dont know where you live, but in Berkely, ca everyone is open to eachother and stuff!. So I say move to a place like that!.
I'd be your friend if i was a dude!. lolWww@Answer-Health@Com
Maybe go to a gay bar!.!. idk
I dont know where you live, but in Berkely, ca everyone is open to eachother and stuff!. So I say move to a place like that!.
I'd be your friend if i was a dude!. lolWww@Answer-Health@Com
Er, I'm gay, have been out since my teens and have always had skillions of straight male friends!. I graduated most popular male in my class in fact!.
This is mostly about self-image!. You hate yourself - or at least think you deserve being hated because you are gay --- as a result your body language reflects negative self image and low self-esteem -- and just as a dog smells fear, so do other boys sense that sort of thing -- and react to it!. I never had low self-esteem (trust me) and I loved everyone!. If anyone tried to exclude me, I proceeded to include them -- if anyone didn't like me, I became extra direct in liking them!. This worked -- but it worked BECAUSE I had no self-hatred or self-esteem problems!.
You need to start by encountering yourself and coming to terms and full peace with you -- without that, nothing you can do will help!.
You are wonderful JUST AS YOU ARE!. What your parents think about your choice of friends, btw -- is entirely THEIR PROBLEM -- not yours, don't make it yours!. You are wonderful!!!
Kind thoughts,
HermesWww@Answer-Health@Com
This is mostly about self-image!. You hate yourself - or at least think you deserve being hated because you are gay --- as a result your body language reflects negative self image and low self-esteem -- and just as a dog smells fear, so do other boys sense that sort of thing -- and react to it!. I never had low self-esteem (trust me) and I loved everyone!. If anyone tried to exclude me, I proceeded to include them -- if anyone didn't like me, I became extra direct in liking them!. This worked -- but it worked BECAUSE I had no self-hatred or self-esteem problems!.
You need to start by encountering yourself and coming to terms and full peace with you -- without that, nothing you can do will help!.
You are wonderful JUST AS YOU ARE!. What your parents think about your choice of friends, btw -- is entirely THEIR PROBLEM -- not yours, don't make it yours!. You are wonderful!!!
Kind thoughts,
HermesWww@Answer-Health@Com
I think there is a common misconception about homosexual and bisexual people, especially among kids!. I believe that sometimes kids think that if they don't share your sexual orientation, you won't have anything else in common either!.
Do you participate in any sports!? Play video games!? Do you like what is considered typical "guy" movies like action and comedy!? These are three suggestions that not only gives you opportunites to socialize with more guys, but to also show them that you have other things in common and you're really not that different from them!.
I hope this helps in some way!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
Do you participate in any sports!? Play video games!? Do you like what is considered typical "guy" movies like action and comedy!? These are three suggestions that not only gives you opportunites to socialize with more guys, but to also show them that you have other things in common and you're really not that different from them!.
I hope this helps in some way!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
Sorry, but most regular guys don't like to hang out with homos!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
How about convert to straight and you'll make a whole bunch of guys and girl friendsWww@Answer-Health@Com