(this is for the guys) My husband is "quick on the draw" if you know w!


Question: (this is for the guys) My husband is "quick on the draw" if you know what I mean!?
Even with a rubber he does not last very long!. Also once it's over it over not 20 minute regroup!. What can I do to fix it or is there anything to fix it!? I have thought about those penis ring thing, gels, creams, that sex stores sell but I don't have much faith and don't forget his ego!. So please don't tell me to talk about it!. Tell me what to buy or do and I will do it!.Www@Answer-Health@Com


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well one thing that helped me when i used to be "quick to the draw" as you say was to perform kegel excercises, look it up on wiki its when u flex the pc muscle which is the muscle u tense up when u r peeing to stop peeing and then release to continue going!. tell him 2 research it and then do 200 quick flexes and then 50 flexes holding 10 secs each everyday!. break the 200 into sets of 50 and the 50 flexes where u hold into sets of 10!. i used to last like 20 on a good day w/ a condom now i can go for a little over an hour on an average day!. it took me about 6-8 weeks for me triple my time!. Hell have more intense orgasms and will be able to last longer and control his orgasms!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

this is what i would do

1) tell him to not think about preventing himself from cumming early!. The moment a guy says to himself "don't ejaculate", he does ejaculate!.

2) ask him to just relax and enjoy sex

3) practice masturbating him, in that take a long time to get him to ejaculate for a few days or have him do it himself

4) There are exercises that could help him and are simple to do, just google search pre-ejaculationWww@Answer-Health@Com

Delayed ejaculation is a side effect of the class of antidepressants known as SSRI s!. In most men this is a depressing side effect!. I hate to ever recommend taking prescriptions but I have always thought this was a novel indication!.
Pharmacist who's life was almost ruined by Lipitor!.
I do think the numbing gels would be worth a try!. Oragel is the same thing but sold for toothache!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

Start with foreplay, mostly for your benefit!. but it will make him almost come to orgasm, then stop and focus attention on you, then return to him and start again!.!. repeat this as often as you can until he learns some self control!.!.!. it takes practice!.!. he needs to learn to think of other things like hot dogs, apple pie, and chevrolet, so he doesn't release so quickly!.!. it takes time and practice, you being on top is a good start also, with the effort you have to put into the act, you will be able to achieve a full orgasm sooner and he can lie there and concentrateWww@Answer-Health@Com

Oh, just give up, its a national trait!. Its in our genes, you women are too demanding, give a guy a break for goodness sake, we are not machines, you know!. Please buy a vibrator, like millions of women do and take this terrible pressure of us man, Christ!.!.!.!.!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

there are lots of reasons some men are too quick, one is a fear of being not very good at the sex thing !. another is they really don't care if the woman enjoys it or not!. there are many more!.
this could take a while to work out!.
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Use a cream called Mandelay!. Apply it and use a condom with it!. Give it a good couple of minutes to work and it should last quite a bit longer!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

He can do one or two things:

1!. He does it again later!.

2!. He spends a very long time in foreplay and gives you lots and lots of pleasure!. Then he goes last :)Www@Answer-Health@Com

He finds you so hot he has a hair trigger
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Have him take an aspirin an hour before--supposed to lessen the sensation leading to longer sessionsWww@Answer-Health@Com

have him practice "stop and go" or "edging" while masturbating!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

lots of practice and anxiety reduction will helpWww@Answer-Health@Com

Give him 8 or12 full strength beers first!. trust me he will transform into a champion!Www@Answer-Health@Com





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