Is fantasizing sexually of the person you know and/or want to be with is wrong?!


Question: Is fantasizing sexually of the person you know and/or want to be with is wrong!?

Because i know this lady that i truly want to be with and sometimes when i think about her i think of the things we can do together!.

But, sometimes i think of the sexually things about her as a fanatsy which i don't know if it's either wrong or not so i just fantasize about someone else instead of her so i would not disrespect her, even though i don't and wouldn't act upon my fantasy i still feel like i disrespect her by fantasizing about her sexually which is why i rather fantasize about someone like Beyonce or Tara Banks for example!.Www@Answer-Health@Com


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You sound like a really nice person, and you should know that it's not wrong to fantasize about people that you're attracted to!. In fact, it's not really wrong to act upon your feelings either, unless there is an inconvenience, or their morals (religious, parent's views, etc) go against being with someone!. It's only natural to have fantasies about people who you are sexually attracted to, and it's not disrespectful to think about her in a sexual way!. Also, if she is single and open to relationships, I think that you should ask her out or something if you truly want to be with her!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

I think this really depends on your personal beliefs!. I used to feel the same way, (that fantasizing about others without their knowing is like disrespecting them), but lately, I've tossed that philosophy out the window!.!.!. but!.!.!.

I personally think fantasies should be left in the fantasy realm, or else you might end up disappointed in reality (which would be a damn shame)!. At the same time!.!.!. if you were to truly get together, you might have trouble getting past your old stigma!. Think about it some more, and decide whats right!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

it's natural to fantasize!.!.we r all humans and we have urges like all other living beings!.
according to christianity it's called LUST and it's a sin!.!.cos mind controls the body and when u think of something like that ur committing a sin if not physically,but mentally!.!.!.and sometimes fantasizing can also lead to adultery if the woman or man one fantasizes abt is already married to someone else!.!.

and even if it's abt the woman ut gonna marry, it's still a sin!.
after marriage it's not at all a problem!.lol!(well i dont know if anyone will fantasize abt their spouse after marriage)Www@Answer-Health@Com

No one will agree with me but here is what I feel!. Not only is a woman's body sacred but so is the image of her body!. That is part of the reason why women should dress modestly!. It is just out of respect of women !.!.!.most women would find it offensive to know what men do what their images!. Others would find it flattering!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

It's perfectly fine to fantasize about someone you know personally!. Makes it much easier to imagine making love with them if you know more about them!. I do it a lot!.!.!.and so do a LOT of people!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

Fantasizing about someone isn't wrong at all!. Everyone does it, a fantasy is a fantasy, and thats what its all about!.!.!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

Fantasizing is a good thing but approach is even better!. If u work at it u could be with her so approach her and tell her ur feelings!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

hahahahahahaha
hell no it ain't wrong!! itz perfectly normal!. =)Www@Answer-Health@Com

i dont think its wrong

i used to fantasize abt my colleagues lolWww@Answer-Health@Com

no ttly not!Www@Answer-Health@Com

fantasys are nice they help us realize what we need and want!.
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First off, that's what being a dude is all about, It's normal!.

For MJ, or whatever their username is who posted about it being a sin, Go take your religious bullshit and go die, NOBODY likes people like you!. It is not a sin at all!. Fantasizing isn't disrespect, hell, ask her out, and then see if you can make your fantasies happen, if she is willing!. Dont listen to these religious dicksuckers!. God isn't real!. What now!?Www@Answer-Health@Com





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