Is it possible that I am intimidating guys?!
Question: Is it possible that I am intimidating guys!?
I'm 17!. ok warning in advance i am not trying to brag just trying to give the facts!.i am 5'10",high school senior,smart (over 4!.0 gpa),shy around new people, not popular at my new school but i was in junior high!. according to others, i am"very beautiful,pretty,etc!." and appear "confident" someone told me that "guys are afraid of approaching beautiful girls so they are afraid of me because i am so beautiful!." i constantly see guys staring at me in public but they never approach me!. i feel like i somehow intimidate guys for example there is this one boy in my class who i sat next to and i asked him a question and he appeared really nervous and was like stammering but i have seen him talking with really beautiful girls at my school and he didn't do that!. also, there's this one boy who stares at me whenever he sees me,this has been going on over a year,but he hasn't approached me!. what am i doing thats scaring them!? i've never had a boyfriend,never been kissed,etc!. so what do i do!?Www@Answer-Health@Com
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You're not intimidating them!.!. You're amazing them! Can't you see they are obviously overwhelmed by you! If you see someone staring at you, pluck up the courage to go over and talk to them or ask them for their number!.!. You will be surprised how many guys wait for the girl to make the first move!.!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
It's possible that you are shallow and lacking in judgement, such as exhibited by posting this tripe on Men's Health!.
This doesn't belong here, obviously!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
This doesn't belong here, obviously!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
You can't have over 4!.0 GPA, thats max!. Your very tall, and if you are a bit big, that would be intimidating!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
well i think u should give me ur number for starters
but u really should go talk to them and dont b afraid to b a little sluty around guys they like it just they dont say itWww@Answer-Health@Com
but u really should go talk to them and dont b afraid to b a little sluty around guys they like it just they dont say itWww@Answer-Health@Com
you sound like a big b***h!. loosen up and get laid!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
could beWww@Answer-Health@Com
Do not ever think you are scaring them or intimidating them!. This is good advice, believe me!. I was your age once!. And, much older now, I still do have the same problem you are having now!. When a man is intimidated buy us it is because he has self-esteem issues!. Believe me, you don't want them!. When a man approaches you and wants to be around you, then he is self-confident and does not feel threatened by you!. That is a very good thing!. You want a confident man!. Not one with self-esteem problems - this can lead to physical and verbal abuse because they are threatened and need to feel they are strong and in control!. So, please remember the ones who approach you and want to be a part of your life are the better choice!. Good luck!Www@Answer-Health@Com
yes more than likely you are intimidating them!. Especially being in h!.s!. the little boys won't pursue you because they think in their mind there is no way a girl that gorgeous will give me the time of day so they just look and admire you (that's why they stare)!. Being new also I'm sure everyone doesn't know how to take you yet, so just start making friends with everyone to show them you are not stuck up, prissy girl!. If you don't talk to people in your new school and are that pretty they will think that you are stuck up, so just open up and chat with people!. Guys are weak and are easily intimidated by gorgeous females, it's not that we don't want to pursue you it's just we don't want to say something that would make us seem like a dork/douche bag!. Does that make sense kinda!. Just start talking and being friendly to guys and girls and it will open up and you will fall back into being a popular girl at your new school!. Good luck darling!.!.!.Hope I helped you a little ;)Www@Answer-Health@Com
Yes, it's very possible!. If your school doesn't have a uniform you could try dressing so that you don't look TOO beautiful!
Apart from that you just need time for the other girls and boys at your new school to get to know what sort of person you are!. Find the ones who have similar interests, join a few clubs etc!. You admit to being shy around new people - nothing wrong in that, but it will take you a little longer to build up a circle of friends!. Be natural, be yourself, be patient, and I'm sure everything will be fine!. Good luck!Www@Answer-Health@Com
Apart from that you just need time for the other girls and boys at your new school to get to know what sort of person you are!. Find the ones who have similar interests, join a few clubs etc!. You admit to being shy around new people - nothing wrong in that, but it will take you a little longer to build up a circle of friends!. Be natural, be yourself, be patient, and I'm sure everything will be fine!. Good luck!Www@Answer-Health@Com