Am i gay or is it a phase ?!


Question: Am i gay or is it a phase !?
im 14 and i keep on watching gay porn,and looking at men when i go to the beach or something !. but the thing is i liked girls not long ago
am i turning gay!? or is it just a phase?!?Www@Answer-Health@Com


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At your age most guys go through a bisexual phase, and your sexuality may not settle down until you are in your mid twenties!. So my advice is to go with the flow and do what your body tells you, and don't fight against it!. If you end up gay then you can't change that!. If you continue to have attractions to men, then please DO NOT get married to a woman!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

You are only 14, and just about any porn, gay or straight, will get someone your age aroused!. Watching any sexual activity is arousing, regardless of your sexual orientation!.

Perhaps you are gay, or bi, or straight--only you can discover what you are!. It could be a phase, and maybe you're straight!.

You didn't mention what you actually desire sexually, male or female!.

Don't be in a hurry; you've got plenty of time at your age to discover your sexuality!. Whatever you are, whatever you become, learn to enjoy and accept yourself for what you are!. There are many fine people of all orientations!.

You're still going to be in puberty for several years, you have more growing to do physically and emotionally!. Your hormones are raging, and there will probably come a point in time when you will be more certain about your sexuality!.

The best of luck to you!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

Hard to say, could be a phase!. At 14 most guys get turned on by pretty much anything so who knows!?

I would just wait and see how you feel later and whether your feelings and attractions change!. One thing I would recommend is maybe going easy on the porn while you are still so young, if you look at too much now by the time you get to the age when it is the right time to have sex you will have so many expectations and be so used to porn that regular sex may not seem that interesting to you!. I don't think there is any harm in checking it out once in a while though!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

You will know in the future if you are gay or bi!. At your age you are probably just curious and you will figure it out eventually but until then dont worry about it you have alot of life to live to be worrying about things at 14 years old!. You are watching gay porn for a reason and only you know that reason and no one here can answer the question that you already know the answer too!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

well would you **** a guy!? but even if you would most likely it is just a stage!. i'm going thourgh it myself!. it a wierd thought but there is only two thing you can with either go with it or just past it of like it nothing but im telling you that now that you have started it might be hard for you to stop until your mind is ready for you to stop and if your wondering it might stop if your really not gay but you very well could be gay that for you to decide!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

i think it is just a phase, bcoz i have a same problem as you!. i also keep on watching gay porn and don't really like porn that involved opposite sex!. im looking at men not only at the beach, but anywhere!. anywhere when i saw someone handsome, i will keep looking at her!. but in my mind, i always think of my dream girl, i nvr thought about dream boy!. i always thought my girl friend look like who and who, her behavior, her attitude!. i dun think im bi bcoz i really nvr think of guy!. so, dun worry, it just a phase!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

well it could be a phase!. it could be ur curious!. or maybe ur gonna be bi!. i was like that 2 even before ur age and it bothered me 4 so long until realy i read about other boys on here who felt the same way!. im stil not sure what im gonna be but 4 now i have dated girls but i still look at gay porn, i ceck other guys out at the beach or showers or wherever, i masturbate an think of guys sometimes an i figure who cares!. i only kno it an it dont bother no one so i just go with it!. im 16 now an i figure ill figure it out soon!. so dont sweat it dude!. it might turn out ur gay but for now just go with what feels good!. u got time 2 figure it outWww@Answer-Health@Com

Just let nature take it's course and you'll find out (without over thinking it) in due time!. You are who you are, and to try to be something other than that is unhealthy!. At 14 you have a lot of personal growth and discovery ahead of you!. Peruse what you enjoy because you enjoy it!.!.!.!.while you enjoy it!.!.!.!.and go with the ebb and flow!.

Don't let external pressure influence you!. Don't try to be something that you're not!. Be glad that at age 14 you have the internet as an easy tool discover that you are not alone in whatever your interests and turn-ons may be -- while being informed and empowered!.

Don't pay attention to the stupid stuff some people say!. You have to weed through some BS to get to the quality people!. There is no real cut-and-dry answer to your question at this point!. There is nothing wrong with being a unique individual with a unique identity and interests!. Enjoy your discovery period!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

I go through the same thing!. I think it is just a phase for me but everyone is different!. I think I find guys more attractive but I can only see myself being physical with a girl!. It does cause a lot of confusion, but the best thing to do is be honest with yourself and what you want!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

Nah its normal to have these feelings!. Probably if you were full-on gay you wouldn't be thinkin girls were hot!. At your age sexuality is spongy and floats around a bit!.

First of all, Don't feel guilty or wrong
Second, If it feels good do it!
Third (most important!) Always use a condom !!!Www@Answer-Health@Com

I believe that you are just merely going through a phase and it will surely blow over!. i also find myself watching gay porn and looking at the young guys in the bathroom, but i know it is just a phase because i have a girlfriend, and i love her!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

ive done the same thing!. not gay porn!. but same thing!.

to me i think its just a phase

i think ive already hit that phase!. now i find my self looking at womens health questions!. (my personal porn) and occasionally at womens reproductive system anatomy
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I was going to say that maybe you are going through a phase!. However, with the additional details, I would say that there is a good chance that you are gay!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

Ah, I too watch gay porn!. But I like a girl!.!.!. So that could make me a bi, but I know for sure that I am not attracted to boys, so I am straight!.
What about you!? Are you attracted to males!?Www@Answer-Health@Com

Do you get a erection when watch women and men having sex!? If you do then nothing to worry about!. If you only get turned on by men then you seem to be headed toward being gay!. Good Luck!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

it may be just a phase! but wait till you are a little bit other!. is not easy to tell if you are gay at your age! good luck and don't worry about it for now! ;)Www@Answer-Health@Com

your a young man and your hormones are basically keeping you guessing you could go either way at your age so don't try and classify yourself yet Www@Answer-Health@Com

It could be a phase!. You're too young yet!. Wait a couple of years and see what you like then!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

I think you are!. Maybe it's just a phase!. Or maybe you're bi!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

im kinda going through the same phase, but im finally deciding that im straightWww@Answer-Health@Com

Could just be a phase!.!.!.most likely your hormones running wild!.

Dont dwell on it :)Www@Answer-Health@Com

you are turning gay!. i have a quote!. "life sucks and then you die" -Breaking DawnWww@Answer-Health@Com

that mean your hormones are going to burst and try to control your sex appetite!.if not you will turn into GAY!.!.!.!.!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

Nah sounds like you're gay to meWww@Answer-Health@Com

omg u r a gay, go see a doctorWww@Answer-Health@Com

You will turn gay!.Www@Answer-Health@Com





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