Is it my fault he couldn't get hard?!
Question: Is it my fault he couldn't get hard!?
First of all, please don't lecture me on drinking and what not, that is not my question!.
Anyways, I was a little drunk when a guy who was pretty sober, maybe buzzed, pulled me on my lap!. We were just kissing and one thing led to another!.!. anyways he wasn't completely hard!. We are both 18, this shouldn't be happening, right!? Www@Answer-Health@Com
Anyways, I was a little drunk when a guy who was pretty sober, maybe buzzed, pulled me on my lap!. We were just kissing and one thing led to another!.!. anyways he wasn't completely hard!. We are both 18, this shouldn't be happening, right!? Www@Answer-Health@Com
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Well, a lot of guys don't just get hard right away, for instance I'm not at my hardest until right before orgasm (in this type of situation, if its with someone I know and have real feelings for, its much different), but chances are, it is NOT your fault!. =]
I'm thinking that more than likely, his mind was on something else (yeah, I know, "Uh, what!?!?", right!?), or he was a little nervous, it happens to the best of us occasionally!. So don't worry, I really doubt its your fault, if he pulled you into his lap, he wanted you, but all didn't go as planned!. =/Www@Answer-Health@Com
I'm thinking that more than likely, his mind was on something else (yeah, I know, "Uh, what!?!?", right!?), or he was a little nervous, it happens to the best of us occasionally!. So don't worry, I really doubt its your fault, if he pulled you into his lap, he wanted you, but all didn't go as planned!. =/Www@Answer-Health@Com
Alcohol affects the penis's ability to trap blood within it!. Thus the erection can sometimes be short lived or less than it's normal hardness!. Alcohol also greatly diminishes the sensitivity of the penis!. Thus triggering an erection or an orgasm may be more difficult to achieve!.Most 18 year old men are in their sexual prime and erectile dysfunction is rare!. Www@Answer-Health@Com
no,no,no those answers suck!.!.multiple factors !.!.yes possibly the alcohol!.!.tgats all i say on that!.!.!.some guys cant relax enough until they actually get to know nthe girl better!.!.yes its true!.!.!.it can be a comfort thing!.!.!.!.the head game sometimes overides the dong game!.!.!.also possibly he was feeling guilty!.!.or has a relationshuip already!.!.and couldnt let himself relax enough!.!.to be !.!.fully at attention!.once again the head has to be into it!.!.!.also the environment can play a factor!.!.!.depending if !.!.you were able to totally relax!.!.like if you were at a party ina closet!.!.or bathroom or someones bedroom with music and all that goin on!.!.!.extrinsic factors are a important one!.!.also maybe enot a enough foreplay!.!.petting!.!.or !.!.!.more lip service !.!.until he is a absolute stone!.!.!.!.works for me!.!.!.!.didi he call u back!.!.didi you hit it off!.!.!.if it was a obvious!.!.!.wham-bam!.!.!.!.then i wouldnt worry if you dont ever see him again!.!.!.if you do !.!.and you get along!.,,the more time you spoend,!.,together,,and more intimate transgressions (lol)!.!.u have together,!.,it can only get better!.,,so options!.!.keep doing!.!.it!.!.practice makes perfect!.!.!.more lip service!.!.or foreplay!.!.until rock hard!.!.!.or a relaxing!.!.calm environment!.!.or make sure he is not thinking about his guilty feeling if he has a woman!.,elsewhere,,,,,otherwise,,,,dont sweat it!.!.!.!.!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
What happens with a guy is a guy thing!. IF he isn't into you, that is his condition!. IF his mindset is not into the situation, it is because of him!.
Sure, the girl could say something, (like, you remind me of my brother) and that could get him out of the mood!. Mood is still under his control!.
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Sure, the girl could say something, (like, you remind me of my brother) and that could get him out of the mood!. Mood is still under his control!.
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I would say there's probably nothing wrong with him!. He could have been nervous!. Also, some people can only achieve an erection during intimate encounter!. This was at a party, so there may have been too much going on!.
Also, it doesn't mean that he wasn't attracted to you!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
Also, it doesn't mean that he wasn't attracted to you!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
if he has ADD or ADHD it can mess with his focus and that can be a problem!.
whatever you do, dont talk about it,, men dont talk about things, especially that!. if you ask him if he wants to talk about it he's gonna be ticked off!.
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whatever you do, dont talk about it,, men dont talk about things, especially that!. if you ask him if he wants to talk about it he's gonna be ticked off!.
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he was way too buzzed--drunk to the point that you sitting on him and kissing did nothing to him--no erection but it is not you it was his state of mind--drunk and acting stupid or silly->pc any other day he would have been all over you so relax it was himWww@Answer-Health@Com
if the feelings weren't just right !. it can happen to any one!.!. don't sweat it!.!. there is no problem!. He may have felt guilt (maybe has a girl friend) or maybe he just wasn't ready!. There are a million reasons, its perfectly normal!.!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
Can't say I have ever had this problem!. He could just not be into you!. Stress could cause him not to be able to get an erection though, and if you were all on him to much that could have stressed him a bit!. Otherwise, i have no idea!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
No it happens all the time, and no it is not your fault!. Its happened to me before when i was at partys and so much is going on it is hard to focus!. Dont let it get you downWww@Answer-Health@Com
That sucks for you, but if you were making out with him and sitting on his lap he should have had a stiffy!. If he wasn't turned on by you he would'nt have nailed you!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
He was probably turned off by you being impaired or your appearance and personality!.
Or he just wanted to "test" you and found out you failed the test!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
Or he just wanted to "test" you and found out you failed the test!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
it's not you're fault, if he couldn't get it up it was probably just a personal problem!. Some times it just, doesn't go up!.
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Not your fault at all
Guys who cant get erections suck!. lol!.
That shouldn't have happened!.!.!.
Gods way of saying "nuh-uh"Www@Answer-Health@Com
Guys who cant get erections suck!. lol!.
That shouldn't have happened!.!.!.
Gods way of saying "nuh-uh"Www@Answer-Health@Com
Umm!.!.!.usually guys get hard if a girl sis on their lap and starts making out with them!.!.maybe he jacked off right before!? =PWww@Answer-Health@Com
He wasn't into you I guess!. No offense here, but I seem to have noticed that non-drunk guys aren't too turned on with drunk girls!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
No, and he probably is really embarrassed he couldn't!Www@Answer-Health@Com
Maybe he'd taken something!?
So his mind might of been somewhere else and only half on what he was doing!?
Idk!. He's wierd!. Www@Answer-Health@Com
So his mind might of been somewhere else and only half on what he was doing!?
Idk!. He's wierd!. Www@Answer-Health@Com
it could happen, and it isn't your fault!. guys don't get fully hard until after they do it for a little while!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
he probably wasn't interested in youWww@Answer-Health@Com
what a foul question that opposes the answerersWww@Answer-Health@Com
alcohol kills erections maybe he was drunker then you thoughtWww@Answer-Health@Com
Maybe you weighed to much& kept it smashed down!!! Will power,too I have done it before !.Www@Answer-Health@Com
Dont worry about it
Some people dont get hard if they are really nervous about it or excited!.
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Some people dont get hard if they are really nervous about it or excited!.
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nothing wrong with him,you're probably uglyWww@Answer-Health@Com
lol he prob was but its just so little !!!!! Www@Answer-Health@Com
yeah you couldnt do it for himWww@Answer-Health@Com
he probly wasnt expecting you and jacked to much that day\\Www@Answer-Health@Com
matbe he can control his penis!? like thinking of a gross pic!?Www@Answer-Health@Com
well!.!.!.!.!.!.!.!.!.!?!?
it isnt illegal to have sex while ur underage
but u do need protectionWww@Answer-Health@Com
it isnt illegal to have sex while ur underage
but u do need protectionWww@Answer-Health@Com