Did my boyfriend lie?!


Question: Did my boyfriend lie!?
Before I chose to have sex with him, I asked my boyfriend if he would get checked for STD's!. He told me that he had already been checked before we got together, and that he hadn't had any sexual contact since he got checked!. I found it odd that a man, out of nowhere, would decide to get checked for STD's, but I had no reason to not trust him, so I believed him!. I still find it kind of odd, and once in awhile I'll ask him questions about what they did when he got checked!. He told me all they did was put him in a room, and he had to ejaculate in a cup!. But, I just read that they don't check semen for infections, they check urine, and sometimes blood!. Did he lie, or is this another kind of test!? I haven't contacted any STD's from him, so if he did lie, should i be angry!?Www@Answer-Health@Com


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well i wouldn'tt have sex with him but if you already did its okay just dont anymore and maybe go with him to go get checked because if you dont beleive him and it sounds to strange it might just be a lie so yeah i encourage you to go with him to get checked thats what i would do Www@Answer-Health@Com

He probably slept around a lot before he met you and/or he probably lied so you wouldn't make him wear protection (which is a stupid idea)!. Whether or not you should be angry or not is up to you!. It's your relationship!. You're the one that has to live with the trust issues!. Good luck!Www@Answer-Health@Com

He either lied or misunderstood a fertility test for an STD test!
When being checked for STDs they do not require a semen sample!
Most STDs are detected by visual examination and blood work, some tests require a cotton swab being inserted into one's urethra!. But no STD test requires a semen sample!Www@Answer-Health@Com

why not just ask him for the results, they should have given him the information, and even if he doesn't have it a quick call to the doctor can get a copy mailed to him

I think he's lyingWww@Answer-Health@Com

The checks do not include asking for a semen sample !!! so he is not telling the truth !. The checks for an std would normally start with a simple swab test of the tip of the penis!. Www@Answer-Health@Com

Technically his pants are on fire!. The biggest problem here is that his lie reveals that he has never been tested!. Ever!.

You really need to get tested!. Www@Answer-Health@Com

hes probly lying!. just make him check for STDs and if he doesnt want to then he probly has it!. also if he doesnt want u to find out if he doeshave it then reasure him that u wont treat him any differentleyWww@Answer-Health@Com

I had a test done about a year ago, they took a few tubes of blood out of my arm!. All clean! :)Www@Answer-Health@Com

His story sounds a bit "fishy" to me!. Ask to see the report, no report no nooky!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

it's normally a blood or urine test!. never heard of semen test being used for std's!.
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did he lie only santa will know you my lady will most likely turn out to have std Www@Answer-Health@Com

i think he is lying my dear!.!.!.!.sorry for u thoughWww@Answer-Health@Com

I think he lied!. I'm pretty sure he did!. Untill you see papers, you NEED to use condoms all the time!. If I were you I would go get tested yourself!. There is not STD test out there that requires you to ejaculate in a cup!. I have been tested three times (I get tested every year no matter what)!. And the do a blood test, a urine test and a physical exam!.
AND OF COURSE YOU SHOULD BE ANGRY! I mean the man lied to you about not getting tested and you had unprotected sex with him and now you could have an STD because he wasn't honest!. This is a BIG deal!. I would dump a guy if he did that to me, no questions asked!.

-ConnorWww@Answer-Health@Com

it doesnt sound exactly right, I would ask what led him to go get tested!? really are guys that thoughtful and think ahead to get tested!?!?!? or did he have some kind of sign that he may have something, remember std's dont alway show right away,If he had concerned in the past to be tested, then he should keep going to be tested, if he cares enough for your health and intrest and he had been thru it before, i would think it would be no big deal!. Careful and condoms dont protect you!. I was with a cheater who contracted someting and passed it to me after the fact that he told me he did not have it and was treated, first they wont treat you for something you dont have and I was faithful supriseingly enough he knocked up this chic he cheated on me with and she lost the baby due to the same std he gave me! I was treated an ok, if i would not of caught him cheating and went untreated, cause i had no signs, things could be different and I may not be here typing this today!. If some one is into you and truely cares they will go out of the way to show you!. Www@Answer-Health@Com





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