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Question: Need an opinion from a guy!?
Im a 13 almost 14 year old girl, and i want to know know what a 13 or 14 year old guy likes in a girl!. i just want to know because school is almost starting and i kinda want a boyfriend!. and im asking in this category because i know that there are a lot of guys!.Www@Answer-Health@Com


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For one thing, 13 or 14 year old boys are still catching up to you mentally - your brain is developing faster than theirs, which means you are feeling ready to start dating while they are just coming out of the phase where they just want to eat bugs and ride bikes!.!.!. girls always reach the "dating" stage faster than boys, and that can be frustrating!.

Your best bet is to just be yourself!. Don't bother changing your image or anything like that because you think a boy will like it!. No matter what hollywood says, that is a waste of time, and you'll never feel good about yourself!. Most boys will be really nervous around you if they like you, or they might even be mean to you (I can't really explain why this is, but I think it has something to do with them still catching up!.!.!. esentially, they don't know what they're feeling, or what to do about it)!.

Unfortunately, many boys your age are also very shallow - they like girls who look like supermodels, and are more interested in hollywood starlets than the girls at their school!. You may look like a supermodel, and if so, good for you!.!.!. but most girls don't - of course, this isn't a bad thing; it just means that the shallow boys pay less attention at the start - they always come around!. Remember, it takes them longer to want to start dating than it does for girls!.

Don't worry about it too much - if it happens, great!. If not, so what!? You aren't going to marry your first boyfriend anyway (no matter how much you think you will)!. Just enjoy being young - dating is too complicated, anyway!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

Who ever earlier said that your brain is more developed and mature is right so if you want a guy your age you should expect someone a little more immature than yourself!. Most boys your age are rough and egocentric and are more interested in what is between your legs and under your shirt than in your mind so don't really expect a stunning conversationalist!. To get a guy just stare at him while smiling!. Be giggly and flirty and with a little hint of sexual innuendo!. But also do not be a phony because if you stay with the guy for awhile he might not like that!. Also it has been said many times that boys that age and any age have there mind on sex coming from my own experience as a male that is true so when your on a date with your the guy of your choosing don't let him pressure you into sex if you don't want to do that just yet!. Make sure he knows "No" means NO!. Just work him down to a little harmless kissing and petting and if he doesn't get the message leave your in control of your body don't let anyone do anything you don't want to do!. I don't know if any of this advice will help you but I gave it to my baby sister a few years ago and it seemed to help!. Good Luck finding yourself a date!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

Well it depends, I know guys my age (oh- by the way i am 13) who only care about a girls looks, (boobs how hall they are how old they look) i on the other hand could care less, my girl friend now is 4"8 hardly any boobs and I still love her because i care about personality not how a girl looks!. so it depends on if u get a shallow guy or one who will care about uWww@Answer-Health@Com

Im 13, Nice Oh and Most guys like girls who play video games!.!. But thats prbly not the best choice!. I can't belive it!. But yes!.!. Sometimes it does matter about how you look!. I dont worry that much about how a girl looks, Mostly on the person!. also all the guys i know dont like a girl who checks her makeup alot!. Hope this helps!. Prbly wont thought ^!.^
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ummh!.!.!.!.!.!.!.!.!.!.!.!.!. I'm 14 going on 15, and I agree with the guy below!. The only thing we have on or mind is sex!. We know its there, We know that we wanna do ivt, but we dont wanna force a gurl 2 do it when she's not even ready!.!.!. If you reali wanna guy than just be urself!. U can act all horny or whatever 2 get him into u nd then tell him when ur going out w/ him that u would wanna wait!. But u can still make out or even dry hump, BUT IM TELLING U TO GO OUT THERE AND DO IT!!! like i said just b urself!.!.!. XD good luckWww@Answer-Health@Com

if you hook up with a 'sucka' well they're only out for one thing - sex!.

Ain't no boy thinking about settling down at that age so probably most and all of them are out for the 'booty'!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

Us guys like girls who are hot, fun to talk to, girls who understand you, and are very loyal, thats pretty much it(But this is only if we are looking for a relationship)

Half the time we just want sex so be very carefulWww@Answer-Health@Com

Boys like guys who are them selves they don't always have to be perfect and they have to be someone who is intelligent and isn't affraid to have a convesation with a boy!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

Well, im 14 and almost 90% of the guys go for the looks instead of the features inside, the way they like u depends on how you look, dress, you hair, legs and etc :DWww@Answer-Health@Com

just to be a nice person and well looks too but your going to have to be the one to ask him cuz boys are way too nervous
btw try to become friends first

and your a little young to date but whatever floats your boatWww@Answer-Health@Com

Im 14 and I like a girls but and legs the most!. Then breast!. Finally the face!. They have to be good looking!. Do you live in michigan!. Email: zackbills@ymail!.com!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

All guys are different all guys dont just want 1 thing at that age!. Im 14 and im not like that i look for a great personality in a girl!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

wow this is a tough one!. How about boobs boobs and more boobs!. Show your cleavage!. You'll have a BF by lunch time!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

Big boobs!. Nothing else!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

u said 14 right, just playing freeze tag and watching the lion kingWww@Answer-Health@Com





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