Is it about Male Virginity?!
Question: Is it about Male Virginity!?
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I had sex with my Girlfriend and I had intercourse without contraceptive!. I am not circumcised!. During insertion the top skin got pulled back and I was bleeding profusely!. I wonder if that means losing virginity!. I am scared of having sex again without contraceptive whenever I get married!. Will that be a problem and is sex always so painful for men !?Www@Answer-Health@Com
I had sex with my Girlfriend and I had intercourse without contraceptive!. I am not circumcised!. During insertion the top skin got pulled back and I was bleeding profusely!. I wonder if that means losing virginity!. I am scared of having sex again without contraceptive whenever I get married!. Will that be a problem and is sex always so painful for men !?Www@Answer-Health@Com
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Friend, good advice from others!. You should see a doctor sooner rather than later, so if there needs to be any intervention you can be healed before your wedding night and ready to go!. Be sure to take along lubrication for both of you!
I want to speak to the other part of your question!. Technically if you have had sex, you are no longer a virgin, but because you have been been abstinent for 2 years you can consider yourself a "reclaimed virgin!." You haven't exposed yourself to sexually transmitted diseases or AIDS!. Bravo! Was the girlfriend you had sex with the one you are going to marry!? If so, you need to talk frankly with each other, especially about having confidence in each other's fidelity after marriage!. These 2 years should put the confidence back!. Maybe have a talk with a counselor or pastor you trust!. If the one to be your wife is a different lady, then probably best not to bring it up, except after talking with a counselor yourself first to get an outside opinion about your relationship!. Confession just might create a rift in your relationship!. What you really need to do is to forgive yourself and seek forgiveness from God!.
Get yourself in good physical and mental shape, good buddy, and have a happy life of matrimony!. It really does get better as time goes on with the proper preparation!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
I want to speak to the other part of your question!. Technically if you have had sex, you are no longer a virgin, but because you have been been abstinent for 2 years you can consider yourself a "reclaimed virgin!." You haven't exposed yourself to sexually transmitted diseases or AIDS!. Bravo! Was the girlfriend you had sex with the one you are going to marry!? If so, you need to talk frankly with each other, especially about having confidence in each other's fidelity after marriage!. These 2 years should put the confidence back!. Maybe have a talk with a counselor or pastor you trust!. If the one to be your wife is a different lady, then probably best not to bring it up, except after talking with a counselor yourself first to get an outside opinion about your relationship!. Confession just might create a rift in your relationship!. What you really need to do is to forgive yourself and seek forgiveness from God!.
Get yourself in good physical and mental shape, good buddy, and have a happy life of matrimony!. It really does get better as time goes on with the proper preparation!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
No nothing at all to do with losing your virginity , it is just that you have split some skin and it would bleed profusely because when aroused blood does rush to this area and the blood vessels are close to surface
It could be you are one of those guys with tight foreskin and it hasn't really been able to come back easily !. This usually gets easier with time and sexual activity !. You need to use some lube to ease the situation , however if you get repeats of this then visit your doctor as you may need medical intervention to ease the foreskin!. It does not need to be circumcision as there is a procedure short of that , just ask your doctor Www@Answer-Health@Com
It could be you are one of those guys with tight foreskin and it hasn't really been able to come back easily !. This usually gets easier with time and sexual activity !. You need to use some lube to ease the situation , however if you get repeats of this then visit your doctor as you may need medical intervention to ease the foreskin!. It does not need to be circumcision as there is a procedure short of that , just ask your doctor Www@Answer-Health@Com
No there is not so!. It may happend to you this time but it shall not be painful next time!. It is not necessary to be circumcised everybody!. As it happened with you on first mating that is why bleeding take place!. If you have any doubt then take Doctor's guidence!. But I assure you there no problem with you nor it shall be so painful in future whether you use contraceptive or not!.!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
I had a friend with that problem!. Go to the doctor, he was able to have it sorted quickly and safely!.
Also, I hope you will be more sensible next time you have sex and use contraception!. Just because it's the first time, doesn't rule out pregnancy!. There's no excuse for it!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
Also, I hope you will be more sensible next time you have sex and use contraception!. Just because it's the first time, doesn't rule out pregnancy!. There's no excuse for it!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
Sounds like your foreskin was too tight and you tore your frenulum!. You need to do stretching exercises to loosen your foreskin and frenulum!. Pull it back as far as it will go every day!. Yes, masturbation will help loosen it!. Using a condom in sex might help too!
This doesn't normally happen to guys, btw!. And sex shouldn't hurt always!.
HarrietWww@Answer-Health@Com
This doesn't normally happen to guys, btw!. And sex shouldn't hurt always!.
HarrietWww@Answer-Health@Com
You may have something called phimosis!. this is when the foreskin dose not go over the glans(penis head) and would cause pain when coming to intercourse!. its easy to treat just do some streching exercises but dont listen to all the people that say get circumsizedWww@Answer-Health@Com
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i dont think thats supposed to happen! but maybe u need circumcision! i heard that happened to a friend of mine and he got circumsied at 23!! Www@Answer-Health@Com