I can't ejaculate during sex?!
Question: I can't ejaculate during sex!?
My girlfriend and I have been together for over a year, very happy, living together!. I've known her for almost 5 years, so we go back!.
Whenever we have sex of any kind, I find it very hard to ejaculate, I really have to concentrate to do it, and even so, it's rare I do!. Even during any oral, I can't do it, I usually have to masturbate to come!. Still during that, it takes a long time!.
When I used to masturbate when I was single, I had no problem with it, so I know I'm healthy, it's got to be something mental or subconscious!. I feel fine around this girl, I have no problems of worrying what she thinks of me or anything like that, that's why I think it's something subconscious!.
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Whenever we have sex of any kind, I find it very hard to ejaculate, I really have to concentrate to do it, and even so, it's rare I do!. Even during any oral, I can't do it, I usually have to masturbate to come!. Still during that, it takes a long time!.
When I used to masturbate when I was single, I had no problem with it, so I know I'm healthy, it's got to be something mental or subconscious!. I feel fine around this girl, I have no problems of worrying what she thinks of me or anything like that, that's why I think it's something subconscious!.
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Answers:
If you have no problem ejaculating during masturbation, then it's unlikely that you have a physical problem!. Something must be bothering you mentally about sex in general, your gf, or both!. You need to think about what may be bothering you!. If you feel this is really becoming a problem, you should consider counseling!. I hope you get this resolved!. Sex is supposed to be pleasurable, not a mental burden!. good luck - Www@Answer-Health@Com
It's probably nerve damage from circumcision which causes lack of sensitivity!.
I had the same problem and am restoring my foreskin!.
It's wonderful!. It's the way that sex is supposed to be---the sensitivity has increased, together with the intensity of orgasms!.
You lack sensitivity enough for vaginal intercourse!. That's why masturbation works, because you need much more stimulation on your damaged penis!. The amputated foreskin, the dried-out glans and surrounding tissues, the scarring, the disrupted blood supply to the penis all combine to create this problem; it's much more common than you would think!.
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I had the same problem and am restoring my foreskin!.
It's wonderful!. It's the way that sex is supposed to be---the sensitivity has increased, together with the intensity of orgasms!.
You lack sensitivity enough for vaginal intercourse!. That's why masturbation works, because you need much more stimulation on your damaged penis!. The amputated foreskin, the dried-out glans and surrounding tissues, the scarring, the disrupted blood supply to the penis all combine to create this problem; it's much more common than you would think!.
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There's something deep down inside you that's worrying or thinking about something associated with sex!. When you have any sex, relax your body and mind, don't even think about ejaculating and try to enjoy!. If you don't focus on ejaculating or thinking about anything stressing or disturbing you, odds are you'll ejaculate!. Hope this helps!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
Is she the first G/F that you had sex with!? If so maybe she is not doing her part to help you relax and enjoy it!. maybe you both need to seek help!.
It's nothing to be ashamed of!. You won't find the correct answer on here!.Just a lot of kids that think sex is a game!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
It's nothing to be ashamed of!. You won't find the correct answer on here!.Just a lot of kids that think sex is a game!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
sure, think dirty thoughts and have her talk dirty to you!. Also watch some of the dirtiest sleaziest adult films together or keep them running in the background while you go at it!. You'll become a fountain in no time =)Www@Answer-Health@Com
This doesn't sound like rocket science to me!. Have you tried having her soft hands masturbate you during foreplay!? Just have her get you close enough to the point of ejaculation, and then go from there!.!.!.!.!.Have fun!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
And most guys ejaculate to quick!.!.!. So you just find that it takes a really long time!? Have her do oral or something for a while before sex and go from that!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
Wow, that's gotta suck!. Dude, I think the best way to go is just get over your fears, and go to a doctor or something!. Either that or the next guy could help you!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
you gotta have vaginal sex because that feels the best then you will ejaculate!. Www@Answer-Health@Com
maybe subconciously you place her pleasure above your own!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
Some medications will cause you to do that!.
Otherwise, I have no clue!. Sorry :(Www@Answer-Health@Com
Otherwise, I have no clue!. Sorry :(Www@Answer-Health@Com
visit your doctor!.
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really lucky!.!.!.!. dont worry bout it!.!.!. unless you're trying to have a kid then idk what to then!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
most guys would kill to have your problemWww@Answer-Health@Com