Would you give your little brother a condom?!


Question: Would you give your little brother a condom!?
im nineteen and im raising my thirteen year old brother!. He asked me for a condom!. i tried telling him that hes too young to be having sex and he got mad!. We are very open about sex because i dont think its something that she be hidden or not talked about!. Should i give him a condom!? i mean, wouldnt it be better than him not using one at all!?Www@Answer-Health@Com


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Hey, your brothers!. You gotta let your little brother have one!. Let him go out and get some!. You know when you were his age you wanted to!. Give him a condom and tell him to go get some @ssWww@Answer-Health@Com

I think you are right!. You should tell him he is too young to be having sex!. If he is curious about what they look like, you can show him a picture on one on the web, but I would not be giving them to him!.

However, you should tell him that if the time comes when he is going to have sex then he should definitely ask the girl first (not just spring it on her) and get back to you about getting a condom!. Tell him when he is 18 or 19, he will be old enough to buy them on his own!.
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First, You are honorary for raising you brother!.

I personally wouldn't give him the condom!. This is due to the fact that he is to young to be having sex!. The legal age for sex for it to not be considered a type of rape is 16!. If the girl that was willing(and stayed willing) told her parents, your brother could be charged!. Its best to tell him to wait until 16!.

Tell him about the dangers of having sex(hiv, stds, and such)!. I know you probably wouldn't want to teach your brother it!. But most boys around that age(13-16) usually just cool off the sex steam by jerking off!. Although it just goes up to forever haha!.

I personally would wait, i waited until my teenage love!. Not a spur of the moment sex!. Tell him that sex with a unconditional loving partner is ten times better!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

give him the talk, show him one!. Show him how to use one!.

Hell let him try one on himself!. He wants to be like you!.
Hell your his big brother!. You have a porn stash, he wants one!. You have a condom, he wants one!.

Just be open and talk to him!. Explain whats right and whats wrong!.

Be the father/brother/friend that your little brother needs!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

well if the abstinence talk didn't work!. then you should by all means give him a condom and show him the correct way to use it!. also explain the responsibilities and the repercussions of taking that next step!.!.i can't tell you how many times i see kids get screwed up cause they used the condom wrong, of they couldn't figure it out and decided not to use it at all!.!.!.

TALKING IS SO VERY IMPORTANT!. don't lie to him cause he'll know!. they always do!. just be frank and honest!. tell him you love him no matter what he decides and that there is no pressure either way!. this way he'll be more likely to come to you more often!. Www@Answer-Health@Com

i know you love your brother and i understand that you don't want him to have sex at an early age but seriously, can you stop him from doing it!? the only thing you can do is give hiim advice on the pros and cons and of course, i suggest you give him the condom before he gets someone pregnant!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

just give him the condom!. he probably wont use it!. at 13 when we had our sex ed classes they gave out free condoms (you were supposed to practise puttin em on a banana) and the lads used to just show em off, make jokes and blow em up!.

he probably just wants one to show to his mates!.

rest assured that even at his early age hes thinkin about safe sex =DWww@Answer-Health@Com

I would not give a 13 year old a condom!. That would let him know that you approve of him having sex!. Try sitting down with him and ask what is going on!. Does he have a girlfriend!? Do they spend unsupervised time together!? Which is a no-no!.!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

He may be to young but it's better to know that he is careful!. I receive mine from my older cousin when I was younger!. It showed that he did care about me to look out for my safety!. I was about 15 when this happen!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

I would definately give him a condom because you two are obviously open with each other about the sex topic and you don't want to ruin that, Plus better to use a condom than not!. Www@Answer-Health@Com

well i would give it to him because if u don't he may want to have unprotected sex!. and just think at least he wanted to have safe sex!. i would give it to himWww@Answer-Health@Com

Give him one!. Like you said, its better than not using protection!. Just try to explain that he should be careful about it and not just do it to get some!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

Frankly, I'd slap him upside his head!.!.!. but you're right - sex with a condom is far better than sex without a condom!.

You might inform him that sex with a minor is statutory rape - willing or unwilling!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

Wow, bless you for raising your brother!. And yeah!.!.I mean I guess giving him the condom is the lesser of the two evils (having unprotected sex)!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

13 is too young but if he feels so strongly go to the store and make him ask the pharmacist for condoms and buy it him self

hey its legalWww@Answer-Health@Com

of course you should give him one before he brings something back home and you end up with it, but i give my lil bro condoms all the time and guess what neither one of us have kidsWww@Answer-Health@Com

I feel like hes going to do it if he wants so i think u should just in case!.!.!.!.have a talk with him about sex, pregnancy, and STD'sWww@Answer-Health@Com

TALK TO HIM ABOUT THIS TELL HIM HE NEEDS TO GET OLDER FIRST AND IRF THIS DONT WORK THEN YES Www@Answer-Health@Com

Show him how to jack off!. Give him a condom!. Experiment with him!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

what dose he need it for though, in some cases it is probably better that he has it, than if he doesn't!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

Just as he has given some to me!. Of course, that's the bond of brotherhood!.

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Nope!. 13 is too young!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

he's too young!. its best to keep him abstinent!. give him a good talk about STD's!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

NO dont be silly tell him no and if he gets mad jus ignore him !.!.he sudnt even be thinkin about SEX at dis age Www@Answer-Health@Com

Hmm if he has any money i suggest you take him to buy his own!. He cant be having sex if he cant even buy a condom right!?Www@Answer-Health@Com

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