Masturbating with my friend?!
Question: Masturbating with my friend!?
Hi, i am a guy, and almost 14, and I really want to masturbate with my best male friend who is also the same age, and possibly have it lead into gay sex!. I don't think he knows about masturbating, but i know he knows about gay sex, cause one time at lunch someone told him about it Any suggestions!? Www@Answer-Health@Com
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It seems to me that there is a big difference between watching each other masturbate, and anything involving physical contact!. Contact risks infection, and I definitely wouldn't take the risk!. Watching each other can be great fun, and you should try to arrange such an experience if it interests you!. If it turns out that your friend really doesn't know about masturbating yet, I'm sure he would be extremely grateful if you could find a way to get him started!. Jackinworld is the classic site for this - invite him to look at the relevant parts with you - then you don't even have to work out what to say!. Start with
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It seems to me that there is a big difference between watching each other masturbate, and anything involving physical contact!. Contact risks infection, and I definitely wouldn't take the risk!. Watching each other can be great fun, and you should try to arrange such an experience if it interests you!. If it turns out that your friend really doesn't know about masturbating yet, I'm sure he would be extremely grateful if you could find a way to get him started!. Jackinworld is the classic site for this - invite him to look at the relevant parts with you - then you don't even have to work out what to say!. Start with
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People have made masturbating such a taboo topic when in actuality it is completely normal!. We need to accept the fact that as guys, with hormones, we need to relieve ourselves!. Yes I think it is something that is done in private but not necessarily done alone!. Having your buddy there is not a big deal!. My buddy in high school got hard in front of me and on a couple of occassions we watched porn and jerked off!. We never had sex or touched each other but we both agreed it was kinda cool not having to worry about feeling awkward with another guy in the room!. At our house, when I jerk off I do it in my room but if my male roommates walk in I don't freak out!. To me its no big deal and it is actually pretty cool to do with a buddy,Www@Answer-Health@Com
Just ask him to join you!. Making a pass without asking can be risky!. I'm not a fan of porn, for several reasons including the trouble you can get into if you get caught with it, but a Playboy or two might be enough to get him in the mood first!. Nothing ventured, nothing gained!. I wouldn't promote it as "gay sex" though unless you're ready to tell him that you're gay yourself!. It's just two friends helping each other, not necessarily your first choice in sex partners!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
whatever sad thing happened to you to make you this way, I'm sorry for you!. Maybe talk to your parents and seek counseling!. But in the mean time, try not to be selfish and ruin the life of your poor best mate!. The poor guy has not even had a chance to explore his sexuality and you're going to go all Roman on him and make him think he's gay before he even has a chance at life!.
If he's your best friend then act like you care more about him than yourself!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
If he's your best friend then act like you care more about him than yourself!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
I think you should resist this urge to get your friend involved in your current fantasy!. If he isn't even masturbating by himself (how you would know that in any case is beyond me), what makes you think he would want to circle jerk with you!.
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did you know that gay males are more at risk for passing HIV!? whatever you decide to do please make sure to use a condom (and yes for anal) well and lots of lube!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
Have you talked to anyone about your homosexual feelings!?!?
If not do that as soon as possible because the more open you are about it, the more likely people (such as your friend) are going to accept it!.!.!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
If not do that as soon as possible because the more open you are about it, the more likely people (such as your friend) are going to accept it!.!.!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
aww dude that's sick I'm done with yahoo answers for today y'all nasty!. coochie is where it's at not gay sex that's gross I'm outta hereWww@Answer-Health@Com
do not just hit on him, talk to him!. like is there any body you fancy if hes like no, suggest to him what your feeling!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
try putting your intrest in females there warm and wet,chicks like to masturbate too,Www@Answer-Health@Com
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Go for it! It's normal no matter what anybody tells you!. I do it a lot!. And that's an understatement LOL@!!!!111!Www@Answer-Health@Com
maybe have a sleep over and watch porn together and see where it goes!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
obviously you gay so start dating him and wait a while to have sexWww@Answer-Health@Com
hey if your into that kind of thing go for it but wait until your at least 16 to do it!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
Yeah wait until your 16, then go nuts dudeWww@Answer-Health@Com
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get a girl friend and do it to each otherWww@Answer-Health@Com
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haha umm why dont u just hit on him!? Www@Answer-Health@Com
Where I'm from (UK) gay sex is illegal until 18, straight sex is legal at 16!.
Well, if he is gay then think about it realistically, it's just the same as starting a sexual relationship, at 14 it is very young to do something like this (And at 14 I'd expect he knows about it, masturbation comes naturally from birth and then once again at puberty)!.
But on the other hand, a lot of boys and girls who masturbate start with friends (Not to each other though) and they usually become embarrassed about it and try to forget later (I read that in a health book)!.
Just be careful where you tread, I don't know what being gay is like but I'd expect it's just as hard to start a relationship like this than straight couple!.
Perhaps you need to figure yourself out as well as him, get closer to him before jumping right into this!.
Also, if you're not gay or he isn't gay then stick to doing it by yourself!Www@Answer-Health@Com
Well, if he is gay then think about it realistically, it's just the same as starting a sexual relationship, at 14 it is very young to do something like this (And at 14 I'd expect he knows about it, masturbation comes naturally from birth and then once again at puberty)!.
But on the other hand, a lot of boys and girls who masturbate start with friends (Not to each other though) and they usually become embarrassed about it and try to forget later (I read that in a health book)!.
Just be careful where you tread, I don't know what being gay is like but I'd expect it's just as hard to start a relationship like this than straight couple!.
Perhaps you need to figure yourself out as well as him, get closer to him before jumping right into this!.
Also, if you're not gay or he isn't gay then stick to doing it by yourself!Www@Answer-Health@Com