Sex problem's with my boyfriend??!


Question: Sex problem's with my boyfriend!?!?
Ive been with him for over a year we are very close and see each other constantly!.At the begining of our relationship the sex was great it was there lol!.Thing's have changed now and i have to be the one initiating it or if i bring it up he just say's no -happen's more than we have sex!.I am really attracted to him so im automatically ready to go lol!.He say's his last relationship was nothing but sex and he dosen't want us to be that way!.He also says i should be thankful that just dosen't want sex from me like other men!.He want's to fall more in-love with me!?!? He somehow make's me feel's it wrong to want to have sex with him!.He even say's that's all i want when that's no al i want!.I just want him to be interested in me like he use to!. I get frustrated sometime's because lately he'll just want me to give him oral but if i say let's do it he'll bring an exuse up so i don't feel like pleasing him because he isn't into pleasing me lately!.I don't know what to do,he watches porn and satisie's himself!.I have watched porn with him but he will watch it like 30 minutes and by then im not in the mood!.Why does sex have ot be such a hassle!.We didnt have sex this long weekend i only gave him oral!.Im thinking of not intiating it any more and acting like im not interested like he is but im not sure it will work!.I forgot to mention he has high cholesterol and he say's it does affect him!.Www@Answer-Health@Com


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There are other reasons for relationships not just sex!
Everything doesn't need to be about sexWww@Answer-Health@Com

TRANSLATION: THIS WILL MAKE FOR PROBLEMS if you don't leave now, while you still can!.
He's not interested in having sex with you because he has his porn!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

look here, ur dude is gay!.!.!.im sorry to break it to u but he is if he doesnt wanna bone u!.!.!.!.im great with sexual relationships and im sure u would be attracted to me!.!.!.e-mail my *** and ill help u out :)Www@Answer-Health@Com

Is there a question at all in this entire story!?Www@Answer-Health@Com

forget about him, here i amWww@Answer-Health@Com

just tell him maybe it will calm you down if we do have sexWww@Answer-Health@Com

It would help if you gave ages (his anyway) Sounds fishy to me!.I don't believe any man would want oral and not intercourse!.I don't want to sound mean but he is treating you more like a whore than a girlfriend!.He wants you to please him and you do!.Well STOP! Tell him whats on your mind and let him please you with sex and respect!.Not right for a guy to watch porn and want oral and that's it!.Either your his whore or loosing interest in you!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

Dudes tend to lean toward visual, because that's the way they are wired!. Visual catches first attention, then interaction and relationship follows from there, leading into making Love and building a total relationship!.

Porn can short circuit a Dude where sex is concerned, because in normal and reality, nature didn't expect that there would be such a powerful total visual stimulus as porn to lock a male up into the visual!

He likes you to give him head, because he can watch, and it is what the porn is training him to get his stimulation from!. Dudes are supposed to be participants, getting off on the closeness, and the amazing feel good at the same time!.

Porn rewires a male to get off on the visual, and not able to have any excitement or feel good without the visual!.

It's easy for him to say that the relationship is more that about sex, while he is still very focused on sex, but outside of the relation ship where he is having orgasm and getting his load off, wasting his load on a virtual world, where he should be sharing his passion and built up with you!.
It should be focused into the relationship!.

Porn is damaging your Dude, and he needs help, not your anger!.
It isn't wrong for other men or men in general to want to have sex!. That is normal wiring!. It's just the way that us Dudes are made, and we are supposed to be that way!.

What you are dealing with is the alternative to normal wiring!.

You are fine and awesome! He is just so fortunate that you care about him! Your male is running into trouble, and he doesn't even realize it!. He his reationalizing excuses about it that don't even make sense for a Dude!

The porn industry depends upon this happening to lots of Dudes, and they make a bag of bucks off the ones who get overwhelmed and dependent on it for getting their rocks off!

The sex urge and being able to stisfying that expression it is one of the most powerful, and most important things in a Dudes life!. You being his woman, he needs to be giving those expressions to you!

Testosterone is the sex hormone for both us and the Ladies!. The difference is that the Ladies have as much as they need to get by, but us Dudes are swimming in the stuff!.

In a healthy relationship, the Ladies love that about us, but like I say, porn is not for him because it rewires him!

I keep porn to a minimum in my life and keep all stimulation pathway of my brain working good, because I understand the stuff here!

I gave you way lots, but I think that you are starting to understand the picture by now!.

For sure hoping for the best for both of you!

Me! :- )Www@Answer-Health@Com





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