Gays in the showerroom?!


Question: Gays in the showerroom!?
My brother won't take a shower in the locker room because there are a few gay people in there!. He says they are openly gay and he over heard them talking with a few girls about how they couldn't wait for him to get undressed and he felt extremely uncomfortable to ever shower so he waits all day till he gets home!. He says a few other boys does the same, I wouldn't want anyone looking at me if I was in that situation, but I don't know what to tell him!. I offered to kick their gay asses, but because I have so many records, he doesn't want me to get expelled!. what should I do!?Www@Answer-Health@Com


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if he feels that bad about it tell him to shower with shorts on!.!. Www@Answer-Health@Com

Well, there is nothing wrong with being gay in and of it's self, however!.!.!. if what you say is true about these other boys then that could be construed as sexual harassment! It certainly would be inappropriate to say the least!
Kicking their asses isn't going to stop them from looking!. If it really becomes a problem, perhaps your brother should mention it to a teacher or principal!.
But I think a much better approach would be for both you and your brother to just become more secure in your own sexuality that some one looking at you dose not make you feel threatened!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

Tell him to get over his rediculous homophobic attitude!. You'd look at a girl on the beach whos wearing a bikini regardless of how attractive you find her and you definately wouldn't go over and start having sex with her would you!? (unless thats whats on your record) It's so stupid, gay people are still people don't act like they carry something like that!.!.!.!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

Okay why would you beat someone up just because they are gay!? I'm gay and I don't look at anyone in the locker rooms!. It's rude! And I have self respect!.
Just tell your brother to keep waiting till he gets home!. Thats what I do!.
I'm not getting naked in front of a bunch of random guys!. I might be gay but no!. It just seems wierd to me!. And people at school know I'm gay and they will probably think I'm checking everyone else out when I'm really not!. So I don't want to deal with it so I don't take the shower!.

-ConnorWww@Answer-Health@Com

gays are not going anywhere, so your brother is going to have to get used to it, gay or not, all men especiall school aged boy or young men tend to look at each other anyway, that is kinda normal!. It hard to be in the shower with another naked guy and not look down at some point, I mean lets be mature!. Every man gay or straight has seen another man naked, when you look at porn, you have no choice but to see this big penis and swinging balls whether you are tying to or not, we all look!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

I take showers every day and I don't worry about somebody looking at me!. If they just look, it can't hurt you!. If they start to try to touch, that's another matter and that you should take up with the teacher or principal!.
Tell your brother to ignore them as long as they don't try to get physical, or stand in his way or anything like that to harass him!.
Your brothers probably more modest than me!. I would just let them have a good look until they got tired of looking!. It wouldn't bother me a bit!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

I'd tell your brother to get a life, it is clear that he is a self-centred asshole if he really thinks that a person wants to look at him naked and have sex with him just because they are gay then he is the one who is wrong!. You both are pathetic homophobes, you wouldnt beat up a guy for being attracted to a girl or the other way round, so why should you treat a gay person differently!.

BTW i'm not gay but i hate discrimination!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

to comfort your brother and he will be okay!.

those gays are just purely talking and they are not gonna do anything to your brother, so tell your brother don't worry!. and i think you should tell your brother to just ignore them and pretend he didn't hear anything from them!. just get showered and changed and then leave!.

all the best to your brother!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

what a loser! tell him to grow up and stop acting like a baby!.

if someone looks at you, someone looks at you!. no one is being hurt!. We all know that if he was in the position of being in a change room with attractive women, he would look at them, and want to see them undress!. it's the same thing!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

He has one of two options,shower or not shower!.If he is too thick to make a simple choice like that,then I guess you will be following him around for the rest of his or your life!.Enjoy!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

just tell him 2 ignore them they no its doin his head in so they doin it 2 wind him up,theres nowt rong wiv waitin till he gets ome to showa just tell him to take deodrant with him+he cud always take a flannel+have a wash in the sink!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

DUDE! what is the deal Gay or not dudes look at each other it is a fact!. There are probibly dudes in the shower that are closeted and could be his buddies!. Straight dudes doing the compariason thing happens all the time (is mine junk big enough!?) so dudes check out other dudes to see if they compare!. So a few gay dudes what to see his junk it doesnt make him any less of a man!.He isnt having sex with them or allowing them to touch him in anyway!. They are lookin at his junk no harm no foul!. I admit it is not my thing but gay dudes are out there and it will not be his first encounter with them!. The way i figure it as long as they know i am striaght and keep thier distance fine check out my junk but stay away or youll get punched, then it would be justified!. He should be proud of his body and junk go to the lockerroom do his thing get out and continue with his day!. Who knows maybe the gay dudes will relay to the chicks that you bro is hung like a horse and the chicks will be swarmin to get a chance to check him out so it could be a good thing!. Dude I had a friend that is gay didnt know about him untill we left school but we were in PE together he has seen me and me him he knows i am straight and respected that i liked chicks!. I didnt know he was gay all that time!.

curtdude Www@Answer-Health@Com

Ugh!.!.


If I was in a shower room with a bunch of guys I would look!. I wouldn't keep looking with my eyes set on any thing I would casually glance!. It's natural to be interested in other peoples bodies!. It's NATURAL!. Females look at other females bodies!. It's not because we're turned on, well its' not that way for me but it may be for some other people, it's because we can appreciate a beautiful body!.

If the guys are saying something to your brother in a sexual manner and he feels uncomfortable that is sexual harassment!. Just because some of the guys are gay doesn't mean they are interested in your brother!. But if he does feel that the things said are directed at him report him to the school for sexual harassment!. I'm sure it's not as big of a deal as you're making it!. You shouldn't judge someone for what they can appreciate!. Www@Answer-Health@Com





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