My boyfriend has a low sex drive? Is it age related for a man? ?!


Question: My boyfriend has a low sex drive!? Is it age related for a man!? !?
Hello!. My bf is 50 years old and has a very low sex drive!. I dont mind it since we just had a baby 1!.5 months ago!. But i wonder why his sex drive is so low!? There has been a few instances where ive wanted to have sex with him and he is too tired or we both go to bed together and he doesnt try anything at all!. We kiss goodnight and fall asleep!. Is this normal!? We used to have sex very frequently before I got pregnant and our sex life stopped when i was about 7 months pregnant b/c he didnt feel comfortable making love to a pregnant woman at this stage of pregnancy!. Okay fine!. But its been 1!.5 months since i had the baby, and his sex drive continues to be very poor!. Mind you, he doesnt get as much sleep anymore like he used to and he has told me he has been a little depressed due to the changes, and has a decreased appetite!. Before the pregnancy, he never had any of these symptoms!. My sex drive has also gone down b/c of the baby but my sex drive is alot higher than his!. Is this age related b/c im 41 and he's 50!? Im not sure what to think or do!? Ive spoken to him about it and he really is telling me the truth that he's super tired!. He isnt the cheating type and has never had a very high sex drive he stated!.Www@Answer-Health@Com


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Sometimes age can be a factor!. But, you must realize that he is 50 years old & a new Papa!? It's gotta be a scary situation to wonder how he's going to manage getting this child raised & on it's own, knowing he may not live long enough to see it through!. Thnking about all the trials & tribulations of raising a child today & wondering about health care, how you will manage to send the kid to college when the time comes!. Will the kid turn out ok or grow up & marry the right person, etc, etc!. It's gotta be a stretch on the budget in several ways!. Yes, all this can cause depression, anxiety, poor sleeping habits, poor eating habits, tiredness!. Why not encourage him - not nag him - to eat a good balanced diet, take a good 30 minute walk with him early in the morning & again in the evening, turn off the TV at a decent hour to get much needed rest & sleep!. Cut out smoking , booze or drugs, if they enter the realm!. You both need to share the responsibilty of caring for the new baby & work things out together so you will both have a more productive, fullfilling & happy life together!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

We are all different!. I'm 55 with no signs of slowing down!. He could be stressed out at work, out of shape!. If he's a father of a baby at his age, tell him to start exercising!.!. He'll need it to stay up with the child as the child gets older too!. Exercise and a healthy diet make a heck of a difference!. Good luck!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

It's age and baby related!. You've answered your own questions with the statements that you've made above!. Things have changed and I'm sure that with a little time and adjustment to the new baby things will get back on track!. Congratulations on the baby!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

Although many men have a sex drive dip when the get older, it's not consistant!.

To wit, I am 52 and am just as horny when i was 22!.

However, there are external factors and stress is a major sex drive killerWww@Answer-Health@Com

Get his blood sugar up!. Cook a nice wholesome meal with plenty of glucose!. He'll feel better!. I've got low blood sugar and when I get like that, not much can interest me!.

Unless he's diabetic!. Then don't!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

He is probably a little stressed!. Maybe not alot of sleep since the baby being around!.

Believe me I see my 70 year old neighbor with his lady friend sleeping over every other night!.!.!. They never stop!Www@Answer-Health@Com

If he watched more Chuck Norris movies he wouldn't have this problem!. Www@Answer-Health@Com

suduce him!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

Is it possible he thinks you're not doing enough of the baby duties!? I'm not saying you're not doing your fair share!. He just might think he's pulling too much of the load!. If so, he'll tired and resentful!.

P!.S!. Just because you ARE doing your fair share doesn't mean he THINKS you are!. He may be too busy himself to notice all you do!. And remember, if either of you works outside the home, that's part of taking care of the baby too!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

sex drive does not decrease with age //at least not a 50 /

i take psychology and this is in the chapter were learning about// weirdly enough so ya honestly id just make sure yall excersize enough / and get enough sleep /also i would seriously buy him mulit vitamins and take 1-2 a day // i know a lot about health// so if u do this it should help// also how tall is he/ lol not to soound wrong but how big is his thingy/ also maybe he just has low testoserone genitcally / but study's have shown the more sleep u get the higher it iis as well as eating garlic and lots of meats and fats and laying off the carbohydrates/ also test!. levels r highest in the morning!.!.and lowest at nightWww@Answer-Health@Com

It can be age related!.!. Some men lower in testesterone as they get older but it may very well be depression and\or just plain lack of sleep!. Some times, the more you pressure a man about sex, the less they want to do it!.

If you think he is cheating, keep your eyes open and protect you and your child!.!. Otherwise, keep communicating and wait for him to catch up!.Www@Answer-Health@Com





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