Is there something wrong with me, sexually?!


Question: Is there something wrong with me, sexually!?
I am 15 years old and will try to not to make this too vulgar!.
I have gone back to school, a new one; a boarding school thousands of miles from home!. I don't know very many people but I get a healthy amount of female attention!. I recently heard that someone in my family might be facing cancer, so I am really worried!. I am staying up late doing homework and miss my old friends and family!.!.!. although I usually make friends pretty fast!.!.!.

There are a lot of cute girls at my school and sometimes they sit on my lap - the whole "Pretty American Boy" thing!. I go to boarding school in England, so every one thinks of me as a novelty because I'm "American"!. I'm actually Canadian!.!. anyway!. Normally when a really hawt girl would sit on my lap I would get an erection!. I'm straight, btw!. I have noticed that this doesn't happen much anymore!. I am up all night with homework and sick with worry about that person in my family that maybe facing cancer!.
I feel the sexually feeling in my head when I see a hot girl but!.!.!. it doesn't translate to my pants!.!.!. sorry, a bit explicit!. I still get erections every day but have next to no "sex drive"!. I'm 15 and I'm guessing this is pretty odd!.

No, I don't want to have sex with a girl, I'm 15, not 25

Is this reduce in "sex drive" due to all the worry in my life!? Www@Answer-Health@Com


Answers:
I'm 16!. Dude, we're teenagers!. These things happen, apparently!. Don't worry whether or not you get erections over a girl or not!. This happens to me all the time and I'm straight too!. You're just in the moment in life where hormones are "all over the place" and you're subject to sexual arousal against your will!. The opposite is true too - not getting erections over a "sexual" matter!. So yeah, don't worry too much!. I think all us blokes would like to get erections whenever we want, whether it be to impress a girl we like, or just to feel good about yourself!. Yeah, stress can add to this problem too, but not always!. Food can also have an effect, inducing or suppressing sexual arousal of both guys and girls!. I hope your family is okay too!.

Hope I helped!!Www@Answer-Health@Com

Mate as you get older you dont get erections just because someone is sitting on your lap!. For me, there has to actually be a sexual stimulus!.!.!. the actual prospect of having sex!.!.!. my finger in a pie for instance!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

that is normal man!. As soon as all this stress and other issues clear up that hot girl will want to do you when she feels you thing go up!. She feels exactly like you do probably!. Www@Answer-Health@Com

its not a long term problem, you just have more important things on your mind, stress and worry can temporarily affect your sex drive, but don't sweat itWww@Answer-Health@Com

Don't worry about your sex drive!. It's perfectly normal to feel less desire when you are stressed, tired or just so busy!.

Worrying will make things worse!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

This is normal,you are under alot of stress, and also sound sleep deprived!. Www@Answer-Health@Com

You might have a touch of the 'Canadian Mountie' syndrom!.!.!. Www@Answer-Health@Com

it's all good, just some stress time!. hope everything works out with ur fam!. Www@Answer-Health@Com

na your fine i have those days too that i am so stressed i dont fell the sexWww@Answer-Health@Com

sounds normalWww@Answer-Health@Com

yup everything is ok- and going to be ok- Www@Answer-Health@Com

You're absolutely right - stress is reducing your sex drive!. If one of your family does indeed have cancer you may need couselling to help you cope - don't be afraid to ask!. I expect your school has a Chaplain or other specialist in emotional problems; find someone you can trust!. At 15, and in boarding school, this is too much for you to sort out alone!. There's no need to discuss your sexual concerns; but do discuss the family issues!. Good luck!Www@Answer-Health@Com





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