Sex and Emotions...........?!


Question: Sex and Emotions!.!.!.!.!.!.!.!.!.!.!.!?
how can guys have sex with no emotional attachment, or do they just not say anything!?
and if you took a girls virginity wouldn't you wanna stay with her so you could mold her into whatever you wanted (kinda like get her sex game right!?)Www@Answer-Health@Com


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Haha, i see what your asking!?
Mkayy, well look!.!.if a guy wants to have sex without emotional attachment, it just means he wants to see you naked!.
Not have a relationship!. But if a guy is with you and wants to make love!.!.and if he puts it in a way that you'll say yes!.!. maybe he does wants to be in a relationship where he cares for you!.
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Oh come on! You have a lot to learn little girl!. Sex is just that!.!.!.sex!. It is a physical activity!. Love, on the other hand, is more than just an emotion and is a devotion to one person!. As such, it transcends and encompasses many levels!. In fact, if you truly love a person you would still love them if they were not physically able to perform sex; wouldn't you!?

Having said that, for a man, the physical activity of sex can be a vehicle for expressing your love for your partner!. But in doing so it is still just the vehicle and not the love!. When a man orgasms and is in the arms of the one he truly loves he feels the special bond of love!. However, all of that activity before hand (the stimulation, erection, foreplay, ejaculation) that's all just physical enjoyment for which we are thankful to our partners for giving us that enjoyment!.

Now, I know that's hard to understand for females!. Females get aroused in a different way than men!. The emotional bonding and the fantasies of that emotion is what stimulates you to have sex!. And males are eternally thankful that you girls are sweet like that!. But in nature women have to be more selective of their mates so they have this emotional need as a prerequisite to sex!. Males, by nature, can't be selective!. To keep the human race going they have to sow the seeds!. Therefore they are stimulated by less emotional (shallower!?) things like visual clues!. Disclaimer: I am totally for monogamy!.

Don't get me wrong, girls!. If a man truly loves you he will have an emotional bond with you during sex and it will be magnificent to him!. All I'm saying is that the emotional bond will go further into all aspects of your life!. If he does not truly love you then he will enjoy the sex with you and it will just end there!. This is also why porn is nothing to be threatened by!.

So please, understand the difference between men and women!. Try to understand how the other is feeling and thinking (it's not all like you)!. And what's this about virgin manipulation!? That's just wrong!. Virginity is a beautiful thing but the responsibility lies with the virgin!. That's another reason she should know about a man's love and sexuality!. She'll be able to see if he passes the test in other aspects of her life!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

I think most guys are doing the masturbating thing long before women or girls do so they just get used to it!. Get off and then move on, some times on here I have read were guys are doing it 6 or 8 times a day so they have no emotions!. Not saying girls don't do it, they just tend not to as much!. All humans do it some way more than others and that is were the guys are at!.
As for me I didn't per say get a virgin but she is the mother of our three kids and she was the one who was there for me on more than one bad time!. Things are not so great now but how I wish they were!. I'm not one to jump ship and the first sign of trouble, yes I get upset but we all do at one time or another!. Our kids are teens now our nest is almost empty, this is the time I have look forward to for many yrs!. I'm not sure that I gave you the answer you are looking for maybe more food for thought than anything!. Not all guys are the same for the most part anyway!. But they do have some thing in common, they want sex a lot and they stand up to pee!. With most that is the way to his heart sex , food and more sex!. you might toss a football or basket ball in now and then guns, hunting sex and beer then more sex!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

Quite often, sex can be a detached physical activity for men!. It just feels good physically!. To some, it's no different (other than the obvious) than a game of tennis!.

That being said, not ALL men feel that way, no more so than ALL women feel an emotional attachment with sex!. Some women just like the raw physical component as well!.

It's the way we're wired and - right or wrong - its probably not going to change anytime soon!.!.!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

please!.!. when men are really in love they wait and wait and put up w/ the girl!.!. it doesn't necessarily mean that if a guy takes virginity off a woman then it means that he wants to stay w/ her!.!. especially, if it is an easy score!.!. don't get me wrong!.!. all the guys want that!.!. I was 22 when I lost my virginity!.!. ofcourse!.!. I would never go out !.!. so I only had 1 official boyfriend!.!. which is the man I married!.!. lol!.!.

He was a man about everything!.!. he was 19 and all the girls he had been with were skanks!.!. as though it seems, cus he said I was challenging that I wouldn't give that in!.!. anywho!.!. he tried and tried!.!. it got to a point to where he made me cry!.!. cus, he wanted it so bad!.!. but, I was afraid!.!.!.!. he wouldn't marry me!.!. (yes, I grew up in that belief)

So, when I finally decided!.!. he did marry me after 9 months of having a sex life!.!. but, think about the words!.!. sex and making love are TOTALLY different!.!.

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For me it takes a certain person to capture my emotions and steal my heart!. Yes, I'd luv to keep a virgin but most virgins tend to want to experience sex with others sooner or later!. They're harder to tie down!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

i thought men didnt have hearts, but after losing my virginity to a virgin, i felt almost no connection, the next day he professed his love to me!. its not always the way it seems!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

Well you should know that the word "commitment" scares the **** out of guys!. We just don't want to be too involved with anyone especially when we aren't ready for it!. Www@Answer-Health@Com

Women can be the same way!. Sometimes you just want sex!. That's why the One Night Stand was invented!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

hormones and youre against guidelines!.!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

Look to be honest love guys will Do anything for sex thats just how we are!. im just putting it bluntlyWww@Answer-Health@Com

Easily and no!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

I agree with you 100%
most boys are like that, some aren't though so I'm not judging all!Www@Answer-Health@Com

Men do not have feelingsWww@Answer-Health@Com

i'm wondering the same thing!!!Www@Answer-Health@Com

dat da way dey made guhh!.!.!.!.u aint kno dat!?

4SHOWww@Answer-Health@Com

Genetics!.!.!.!.That's the way we we're made!.
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