Should I be bothered that my husband is not circumsized?!
Question: Should I be bothered that my husband is not circumsized!?
I don't like it this way!. He is very sensitive and doesn't enjoy sex as men who are circumcised seem to!. Is the problem me!? He never has liked sex but he is definitly straight!. He is punishing me for being what he calls over-sexed (once a week!?) when we were first married long ago and making him feel inadequate!. We have had no sex life to speak of for the whole long marriage and I am feeling bitter he doesn't care enough to work it out!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
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your situation seems common, it's just a shame that your husband doesn't appreciate that part of your life!. i'm circumsized and have a deep appreciation for needing to emotionally bond with physical touching that wayWww@Answer-Health@Com
Most guys worldwide are intact - as nature intended!. Cirucmcision only started in the USA to prevent masturbation in the late 1800's:
http://www!.youtube!.com/watch!?v=X09jPPeog!.!.!.
The foreskin is the most sensitive part of the penis!. On the underside of the foreskin are thousands of nerves that are stimulated as the skin moves up and down like so:
http://geocities!.com/painfulquestioning/!.!.!.
this is how he achieves pleasure!. A circumcised guy has no skin - and this is why he has to use lubrication to masturbate!. Also the circumcised penis becomes dry and leathery because the glans (the head under the foreskin) is not protected by the foreskin!. This means sensitivity is worsened further!.
Also studies done show that sex with an intact guy is a lot more fun for women than with an unnatural cirucmcsed penis:
http://www!.sexasnatureintendedit!.com/10F!.!.!.
(read through 10 reasons as to why)
Routine infant circumcision is wrong, read this blog to get a better understanding of why it is wrong:
http://wreckingboy!.livejournal!.com/31854!.!.!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
http://www!.youtube!.com/watch!?v=X09jPPeog!.!.!.
The foreskin is the most sensitive part of the penis!. On the underside of the foreskin are thousands of nerves that are stimulated as the skin moves up and down like so:
http://geocities!.com/painfulquestioning/!.!.!.
this is how he achieves pleasure!. A circumcised guy has no skin - and this is why he has to use lubrication to masturbate!. Also the circumcised penis becomes dry and leathery because the glans (the head under the foreskin) is not protected by the foreskin!. This means sensitivity is worsened further!.
Also studies done show that sex with an intact guy is a lot more fun for women than with an unnatural cirucmcsed penis:
http://www!.sexasnatureintendedit!.com/10F!.!.!.
(read through 10 reasons as to why)
Routine infant circumcision is wrong, read this blog to get a better understanding of why it is wrong:
http://wreckingboy!.livejournal!.com/31854!.!.!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
Being uncircumcised is the normal way to be, I don't see why it's a problem!.
It sounds like the problem here is not related with him having a foreskin, it's in his head!. Calling you over-sexed just because you want a normal relationship is not right and is very uncommon!. Maybe counselling!?
Although intact men are more sensitive than circumcised ones, it makes sense better, not worse!. My boyfriend isn't circumcised and has no problems with sex!.
HarrietWww@Answer-Health@Com
It sounds like the problem here is not related with him having a foreskin, it's in his head!. Calling you over-sexed just because you want a normal relationship is not right and is very uncommon!. Maybe counselling!?
Although intact men are more sensitive than circumcised ones, it makes sense better, not worse!. My boyfriend isn't circumcised and has no problems with sex!.
HarrietWww@Answer-Health@Com
There could be a number of causes for his reduced sex drive!. His intact state is NOT the cause of this, if he was circumcised his sex drive would be even lower than it is now, as the foreskin is highly erogenous and stimulated easily!.
Do not blame yourself either!. There are actually medical issues that could be causing this!. I would suggest having him evaluated by a doctor!. Www@Answer-Health@Com
Do not blame yourself either!. There are actually medical issues that could be causing this!. I would suggest having him evaluated by a doctor!. Www@Answer-Health@Com
Like others said!.!. divorce isn't an option!.!.!. U certainly love him except for the sex part!.!.!.
Circumcision has nothing to do which it!.!.!. there could only be 2 reasons for his behaviour!.!.!.
Talk to him to find out whats the reason!.!.!.although you should have done long time ago!.
1) He has erectile dysfunction, which he's ashamed to tell you & so circumcision becomes an excuse!.
If this is the case, take him to a doctor!. No man would like to go to a doctor, but he doesn't have a choice & most cases a doctor can cuse him!.
2) He doesn't find you sexually attractive!. If this the case you have to solve the among yourself!. Ask him what he likes if women,eg!.!.!.maybe the way ur carry urself, clothes makeup !.!. all this place a vital part in ur sex appeal!.!.!.
Hope my answer isn't too long to read!. & hope u can find some use of my suggestions!.!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
Circumcision has nothing to do which it!.!.!. there could only be 2 reasons for his behaviour!.!.!.
Talk to him to find out whats the reason!.!.!.although you should have done long time ago!.
1) He has erectile dysfunction, which he's ashamed to tell you & so circumcision becomes an excuse!.
If this is the case, take him to a doctor!. No man would like to go to a doctor, but he doesn't have a choice & most cases a doctor can cuse him!.
2) He doesn't find you sexually attractive!. If this the case you have to solve the among yourself!. Ask him what he likes if women,eg!.!.!.maybe the way ur carry urself, clothes makeup !.!. all this place a vital part in ur sex appeal!.!.!.
Hope my answer isn't too long to read!. & hope u can find some use of my suggestions!.!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
is your problem, that your husband isn't circumsized or that he doesn't wanna have sex with you!? 'cause i don't think the two are connected!. what you're describing sounds to me, that you really should talk to your husband about your sex-life - maybe even seek outside help!?
good luck to youWww@Answer-Health@Com
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no offense!.!.but if u dont like it!.!.whyd u married him!.!. i dont care if my man is circumsized or not!.!. as long as he cleans himself very well down there and it doesnt hurt me in sex!.!.
BUT!.!. u committed during the vowels that u would be with him no matter what!.!.so ur stuck!.!. unless u get divorce which would be sad!.!.but its happened!.!.people get in divorce bc of sex!.!.
btw!.!. what the hell kind of waste of time marriage is that!.!. he outta just be alone!.!.i could never ever ever be in a marriage without sex!.and im not even married yet!.!. im waitin and i cant wait to have sex every night with my future husband!.!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
BUT!.!. u committed during the vowels that u would be with him no matter what!.!.so ur stuck!.!. unless u get divorce which would be sad!.!.but its happened!.!.people get in divorce bc of sex!.!.
btw!.!. what the hell kind of waste of time marriage is that!.!. he outta just be alone!.!.i could never ever ever be in a marriage without sex!.and im not even married yet!.!. im waitin and i cant wait to have sex every night with my future husband!.!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
Circumcision really has nothing to do with sexual desire (at least for the male)!. His lack of sexual interest has nothing to do with the fact that he is not circumcised, unless he has it in his mind that because he is uncircumcised he is somehow less attractive or won't be able to perform!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
This has nothing to do with circumcision!. This is far more likely to be a mental issue or problem!. A lot of men have trouble with sex when they reach middle age - it goes hand-in-hand with the mid-life crisis!. Www@Answer-Health@Com
This sounds like an issue to do with his sex drive and his view of you not his foreskin!.
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i serously doubt it is the foreskin, he has a mental issue!. unless he is one of those very few guys that the fore skin comletey covers the head during an erection, it doesnt retract!. in that case, he doesnt feel a thing and i have no idea why he left it that way for so long!.
are you into oral!? just pull back the foreskin, expose the head, and do it!. if he is not interested in that, there is nothing you can do!.
he has the problem not you!.
any time a guy says the women is oversexed, he has the problem!.
i dont care is it kills me, i dont care how much she wants it, i never complain!.
once a week is too little by anybody's standards!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
are you into oral!? just pull back the foreskin, expose the head, and do it!. if he is not interested in that, there is nothing you can do!.
he has the problem not you!.
any time a guy says the women is oversexed, he has the problem!.
i dont care is it kills me, i dont care how much she wants it, i never complain!.
once a week is too little by anybody's standards!.Www@Answer-Health@Com