Why do guys think it is ok to stare at a girl so much? I AM DESPERATELY IN NEED !
Question: Why do guys think it is ok to stare at a girl so much!? I AM DESPERATELY IN NEED OF ADVICE!.!.!.!?
Im in 12th grade and theres a guy in 2 of my classes!. i notice he stares at me so much and i dont know what to do!. for example i was walking to the stairs and he would already be walking down them and he will keep looking at me as i am walking!.
in class, he gets up alot and walks past my table and he sits facing the direction NOT facing me on the other side of the room!. when he sits down, he completely turns around and looks at me as he sits down!. there are 35 other people in the class but he always looks my direction!. i ignore it but im surprised someone hasn't asked him "what the heck do you keep looking at over there"
he always tries to get in my way for example if i staple my paper and he goes behind me i have no room so i accidentially bumped the girl behind me!. also a couple weeks ago i wasnt even in his way but he bumped into my shoulder in class and kept walking (we were all standing up)!.
he is driving me nuts!. this has been going on over a year!. last year he did this too but it was even worse!. he would deeply gaze at me from afar and as i had conversations with people and as i walked by him and one time he was staring intensely over 30 seconds straight!.
i kind of like him but at the same time this is getting me angry and confused!. why doesn't he approach me to talk and why does he keep staring!? hes so loud in class and popular and stuff and i have no idea what to do!? this needs to end one way or the other!. help me please i cant handle this anymore im desperate for adviceWww@Answer-Health@Com
in class, he gets up alot and walks past my table and he sits facing the direction NOT facing me on the other side of the room!. when he sits down, he completely turns around and looks at me as he sits down!. there are 35 other people in the class but he always looks my direction!. i ignore it but im surprised someone hasn't asked him "what the heck do you keep looking at over there"
he always tries to get in my way for example if i staple my paper and he goes behind me i have no room so i accidentially bumped the girl behind me!. also a couple weeks ago i wasnt even in his way but he bumped into my shoulder in class and kept walking (we were all standing up)!.
he is driving me nuts!. this has been going on over a year!. last year he did this too but it was even worse!. he would deeply gaze at me from afar and as i had conversations with people and as i walked by him and one time he was staring intensely over 30 seconds straight!.
i kind of like him but at the same time this is getting me angry and confused!. why doesn't he approach me to talk and why does he keep staring!? hes so loud in class and popular and stuff and i have no idea what to do!? this needs to end one way or the other!. help me please i cant handle this anymore im desperate for adviceWww@Answer-Health@Com
Answers:
he likes you,, he's too shy to tell you he likes you!.!.!. since you seem at the end of this lengthy question to like him too, why don't you talk to him and get to know him better!?
btw,, this question doesn't belong in mens health!.!.!.
good luckWww@Answer-Health@Com
btw,, this question doesn't belong in mens health!.!.!.
good luckWww@Answer-Health@Com
It is understandable for a guy to be interested in a girl, but this guy sounds a bit screwed up to me!. You need to tell him to stop or tell someone else!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
maybe hes just ******* with you!. i do that to people all the time!. stare at em just to see what they do!. ive never taken it that far before though!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
sorry girl but he sounds like a really scary person!. i would stay away or tell the teacher or sumthin!. who knows what he is thinkinWww@Answer-Health@Com
Someone puts herself on a high pedestal!.
Maybe they think you're pretty!. If they're staring, they are thinking of you!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
Maybe they think you're pretty!. If they're staring, they are thinking of you!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
hes having mental orgasms!.!.!.!.!.lolWww@Answer-Health@Com
i think you are a tad bit full of yourself!. Www@Answer-Health@Com
boys stare coz they like u but are too shy to ask u out!.!.so go talk to him and ask him outWww@Answer-Health@Com
I think you are being stalked
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He's a rapist!. Suck him off for the lulz!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
if u like him a little, talk to him firstWww@Answer-Health@Com
i think the guy is just shy but he really likes you!. and hes probably just trying to get your attention so you would notice him!. try talking to him a little bit sometimes or maybe wave to him when hes looking then hel proly look away!. i guess hes maybe waiting for you to make a move cuz hes shy!.
omg hope that helps =p (prbably didnt!.!.!.!.!.sry if it didnt)
wel maybe you could ask him to stop!.!.!.!.!.!.i duno its nerve-wreking to actualy do that!.!.!.!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
omg hope that helps =p (prbably didnt!.!.!.!.!.sry if it didnt)
wel maybe you could ask him to stop!.!.!.!.!.!.i duno its nerve-wreking to actualy do that!.!.!.!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
he could be a creep, or he may just have a crazy crush on you and be too scared to make a move!. When I was in high school I was way too scared to hit on girls, I would check them out, and probably stared at a few to weird them out /scare them, but I am not a crazy rapist, just very shy and reserved!. If you actually think you like him, go and compliment him and see how he reacts!.!.!. it will at least break the ice!.!.!. you could totally throw him off by jokingly saying something like "want to stare at me over coffee/dinner/lunch" if a girl would have asked me that in high school, I might have had a heart attack, lolWww@Answer-Health@Com
he is ether incredibly shy or a potential stalker!. ether way you should put the ball back in his court by asking just what is up with him!. do it in a public but semi privet setting!. public enough so there wont be a scene or you be in danger and privet enough so no one will over hear and generate the feelings of shame or embarrassment a heart felt confession might produce!.tmm Www@Answer-Health@Com
Perhaps he is trying to catch your eye!. Maybe he wants to say something, but he's too shy to do so!. Or, perhaps he is just looking for cleavage!.
Many guys are emotional, but I'm not going to pretend all of us are smart, mature, individuals!. The ones who are looking at you simply to look at you, are the same ones who beat me up, lol!.
It really depends on the person!. The again, you may not know the person as well as you think you do!. We all, sadly, have masks we hide behind in society!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
Many guys are emotional, but I'm not going to pretend all of us are smart, mature, individuals!. The ones who are looking at you simply to look at you, are the same ones who beat me up, lol!.
It really depends on the person!. The again, you may not know the person as well as you think you do!. We all, sadly, have masks we hide behind in society!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
Honey that is unacceptable behavior! You shouldn't stand for it!. I know you will be alone in this because no one will see the truth about this stalking pervert! I hate when this happens to young innocent girls!.
There is something you can do!. You can defend yourself!. I don't know if you know about the vulnerability of a man's testicles but that should be your target!. It's easy and effective and it will make him STOP!. You have to walk up to him with confidence and yell out,"Stop staring at me pervert!" while you swing your foot with a full-force kick to his testicles!. He will drop like a rock, cry like a baby, maybe throw up and he will respect you and never touch you again!.
Best of all there is not a thing he can do because everyone will soon know why you did it and will be on notice about this perverts intentions!. Good Luck sweetheart!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
There is something you can do!. You can defend yourself!. I don't know if you know about the vulnerability of a man's testicles but that should be your target!. It's easy and effective and it will make him STOP!. You have to walk up to him with confidence and yell out,"Stop staring at me pervert!" while you swing your foot with a full-force kick to his testicles!. He will drop like a rock, cry like a baby, maybe throw up and he will respect you and never touch you again!.
Best of all there is not a thing he can do because everyone will soon know why you did it and will be on notice about this perverts intentions!. Good Luck sweetheart!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
what!?, i mean its one thing to steal a glance or a little stare every now and again, but staring all the time is just wrong, its creepy, how could u even remotely like him, and hes popular!? ha, probably bcuz no 1 knows hes a freak, b like, "what are you looking at!?!" right in the middle of class, and every one will see what your looking at when you say it, and it will embarrass that mothaf'r SOOOO BAD!. and if he did come up 2 talk to u, its still really weird that hes been staring at u all that time!. h/o, did u say a year!? yea, u really need to do what i just talked about!. one time this one girl would always look at me, she was cute, but i really wasnt interested, she would STARE, all tha time, it drove me crazy, and finally i was like "what are you looking at!?" (we were on a bus), i might of emabarrassed her a little bit, but it was really drinving me crazy!. needless to say, she stoped looking at me so much!. what u just described is really messed up, steer clear of this guy, and you need to say something to somebody, preferably, call it out in class, he'll stop doin it, at least he should, or else he'll end up goin to jail or something when everybody notices hes just staring at you all tha time!.Www@Answer-Health@Com